Join hosts Tom and Adie as they answer anonymous questions written on sticky notes from their real-life consent education classes. Covering sex, relationships, consent and lots more in between, this podcast can help you start conversations and tackle the sticky questions from young people in your life.
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A straightforward question, with a complicated answer! Transparency is usually our go-to when it comes to talking with young people about their safety, but sometimes it’s not quite that simple. Adie found this question difficult to answer and reflects on her thinking with Tom. Join us in our season finale as we challenge ourselves with a very stick…
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I'm scared to tell anyone what happened to me, do I have to?
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Grown-ups aren’t always great at having vulnerable conversations, even though we’ve had loads of time to practise! In this episode we talk about the unique considerations and pressures young people face when it comes to opening up about their experiences, and the things adults can do to make it easier, safer and more supportive for young people who…
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What do you think about Andrew Tate?
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We’ve received so many questions about online influencers this year! In this episode we talk about our own journey of changing how we address these questions in class and offer tips to help caregivers unpack the drivers and solutions to harmful attitudes online. You’ll find more questions and answers on our Instagram.com/sticky_qs This podcast is p…
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Is it bad that I stayed with him after he assaulted me?
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For our second interview episode this season, we turned to Ebony for an answer to this question. Ebony is a counsellor and crisis response worker who has extensive experience helping people in family violence situations. She really opens our eyes about the nature of family violence and the victim/survivor experience. We talk about how to spot the s…
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How to ask someone out if you’re scared of being rejected?
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Putting your heart out there is scary! This week we talk about why this fear is so common and the social pressure that young people are under when it comes to dating and intimacy. We offer practical advice on how to use consenting conversations to create safety in vulnerability. You’ll find more questions and answers on our Instagram.com/sticky_qs …
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How can we figure out the wrongs and rights in porn?
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Talking to your child about pornography can be really daunting as a caregiver. In this episode, we dissect the ethical questions surrounding pornography and suggest how young people can think critically about what they might be seeing. We also discuss the impact that pornography has on consenting intimacy, and cover strategies for preventing harm. …
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Is it ok for a guy to get really jealous over a girl hanging with guys? Like really really jealous?
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Is jealousy ok or is it a red flag? In this episode we explore the line between expressing big and difficult emotions and coercive control within relationships. It’s an issue of rising concern in Australia as we’re only just starting to understand what is considered ‘normal’ and ‘okay’ within teen relationships today. We’ll cover the basics of what…
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Is it still sexual assault if both people were kids? (Part 2)
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Part 2 of our conversation with Renae about harmful sexual behaviours in young people. If you haven’t listened to part 1, please start there! Here in part 2, Renae explains how to talk to kids about sexual behaviour and the current best practice when it comes to prevention and intervention of harmful sexual behaviours. Heads up, this episode includ…
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Is it still sexual assault if both people were kids? (Part 1)
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For one of our toughest questions yet, we are bringing in our first guest! Renae Pepper is a psychologist specialising in children and adolescents engaging in harmful sexual behaviours, and she’s joining the podcast to help answer this very sticky question. It’s a big topic; in part one of our conversation Renae explains the impact of trauma, the c…
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How do you know you're being manipulated?
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Welcome back for season 2! We’re getting straight to it with a very sticky subject, emotional manipulation. We’ll discuss what manipulation and grooming behaviours look like, why it can be hard to detect, and how it undermines safe, consenting intimacy. Tune in for practical insights on recognizing red flags and empowering young people (and yoursel…
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If you accidentally assaulted someone, how do you help?
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This is one of our favourite questions we’ve been asked! Adie and Tom talk through what we can do if we realise we’ve caused harm to someone, ways we can reflect and how we can change behaviour. The episode also discusses the lack of good role models in owning our mistakes and the gap in our community support for young people who have caused harm b…
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What do you do if you are getting weird vibes from a guy in the street and you can’t do anything?
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Sadly, this is a pretty common experience. In this episode, Tom & Adie talk about the warning signs our body gives us when we feel unsafe, what our options are, and what it means to be an ‘Ethical Bystander’ when we see someone in distress. You’ll find more questions and answers on our Instagram.com/sticky_qs This podcast is produced at Tasmania’s …
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If you’re in a toxic relationship and they tell you they will do something to themselves, how do you get out of that relationship?
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This can be a really scary prospect for people. What do we do when a breakup feels like it’s becoming unsafe? Adie & Tom walk through what our rights are and what kind of supports we can access personally and professionally. You’ll find more questions and answers on our Instagram.com/sticky_qs This podcast is produced at Tasmania’s Sexual Assault S…
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A guy with a girlfriend messaged me saying he’s attracted to me etc., and that he just wants to have a bit of fun
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Technology moves faster than we can keep up with. Young people are dealing with social situations and expectations that adults often can’t even comprehend. In this episode, Tom & Adie talk about the crazy world of online messaging, sexting, nudes and how to manage your boundaries in a constantly changing landscape. You’ll find more questions and an…
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What is the best thing to do when you know someone that has been assaulted but they don’t want you to tell anyone?
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Heads up, this episode will include explicit conversation around sexual harm. This is a tough one – There are so many reasons why someone might not want to get help after an assault, and it can feel like an impossible task to know but also keep it to yourself. In this episode, Adie & Tom talk through our options when someone discloses to us but ask…
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Adie & Tom are ready to tackle the big question: What even IS sex? They discuss how to answer this very sticky question in an age-appropriate way, share their own experiences with ‘the talk’ and deep dive into understanding values and boundaries around sex. You’ll find more questions and answers on our Instagram.com/sticky_qs This podcast is produc…
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Is it okay to try and recommend to my partner how to act around my parents?
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A common conundrum! Your partner is about to Meet The Parents and all you can think about is how many ways there are to upset the folks. In this episode, Tom and Adie discuss the difference between healthy discussions and power plays, and how they navigate these things in their own worlds. You’ll find more questions and answers on our Instagram.com…
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Do your parents need consent to clip your toenails?
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Sounds like a crazy idea right?! Join Adie and Tom as they talk about what it actually means to be consenting, why it’s not just about sex, and why consent might be both simpler and more complicated when we’re younger. You’ll find more questions and answers on our Instagram.com/sticky_qs This podcast is produced at Tasmania’s Sexual Assault Support…
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Is it ok to get turned on by cartoons?
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You might have old memories of seeing cartoon or animated characters on tv and having some strong feelings! In this episode, Tom and Adie discuss the idea of being turned on by cartoons, which cartoons sparked that special something for them, all the complicated feelings, and what is ‘normal’ or ‘okay’ when it comes to being turned on. You’ll find …
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Trailer for the upcoming season of Sticky Q's! A podcast where we answer anonymous questions from kids in our real life sex education classes. You’ll find more questions and answers on our Instagram.com/sticky_qs This podcast is produced at Tasmania’s Sexual Assault Support Service, find us on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/sasstasmania Or onl…
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