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Being Different: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-base
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In a world that often values conformity, it's important for you to embrace your uniqueness and recognize that having different ideas is actually a sign of strength. While it can be tempting to follow the crowd and conform to societal norms, those like you who dare to think outside the box, are the ones who make a lasting impression on the office st…
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The ability to bounce back from setbacks is what sets successful individuals apart from the rest. Let’s address how to make you one of those individuals.The Stoicess
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Should you join your coworkers when they are taking shortcuts to improve productivity? The poem shares guidance for your consideration.The Stoicess
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Selfish People: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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You’re at the coffee stand at the office and can see into the copy room across the hall. What caught your eye was a coworker who entered the room with a single sheet of paper in her hand while both copy machines were taken by colleagues who were making several copies. The coworker appeared impatient and one of the colleagues asked if the coworker o…
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Did you know that complaining is an often-used form of communication, one that’s particularly effective for connecting quickly with someone? Read the poem for some insight.The Stoicess
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When you keep getting more work piled on you at the job: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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Feeling personally overwhelmed at work is an all-too-familiar sensation. It’s like everyone is running around with scissors just waiting for another disaster to occur. And being constantly bombarded with additional tasks and deadlines, as management continues to “raise the bar” for productivity’s sake, leads to stress and burnout. Such intensity ca…
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You’ve been assigned a new project along with a co-worker who is constantly glued to their cellphone. It’s a challenge growing more common in the workplace that you need to learn to navigate. Join me as we address the challenge of managing a phone-distracted co-worker.The Stoicess
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How do you deal with friends who want you to slow down on your career advancement? The Stoicess’ poem will give you some insight.The Stoicess
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Family Conflicts: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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Have you ever found yourself caught in the middle of a family feud? It's an all-too-common predicament that can strain relationships and cause immense stress for the entire family. Such family conflicts arising from differences between family members and can be emotionally draining and lead to long-lasting animosity. In this webinar, we address a s…
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Ever had a partner who seems to criticize everything about you? If yes, this story is for you.The Stoicess
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Considering Intercultural Dating at the Office? This poem will give you some pointers.The Stoicess
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Colleagues Criticizing My Leadership: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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Tired of constantly navigating a stormy sea of criticism at work? Struggling to keep your head above water as your colleagues relentlessly scrutinize your every work product to the nth degree? You're not alone. In today's hypercompetitive corporate landscape, it's all too common for colleagues to adopt an overly critical approach toward leadership.…
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Having difficulty deciding whether to take an out-of-town job offer? What if your partner totally objects? Read the blog for a healthy response.The Stoicess
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Do you feel you're constantly being forced to work overtime? Maybe it's time to think this through.The Stoicess
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There's an upcoming holiday and you have been assigned by your parents to be in charge of the family festivities, which includes the clean-up. You’re elated to be in charge of the festivities, but the clean-up is a nightmare in the making, and your siblings refuse to help. What do you do? Listen to the Stoicess for some guidance.…
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Take Job Only for the Money: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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In a world driven by financial demands, it's often tempting to let our wallets dictate our career path. After all, who doesn't want a comfortable bank balance and the ability to afford the finest things in life? But is taking a job solely for the money a wise decision? In this webinar, we address a situation where a gentleman had his eye on the mon…
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High School Reunion Nightmare: Stoicess' Poem. It's High School reunion time! Are you excited or unsure whether to attend? Read the poem for a unique perspective just for you.The Stoicess
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It's the dreaded question that every single person encounters at some point and once that first person asks, it seems like everyone piles on. The question? "When are you getting married?" So, how do you handle this one? You have a situation and the Stoicess has a resolution. Listen to the podcast for her guidance.…
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Ever feel it’s your adult son and his partner against you? What about that duty of honor the Bible says they owe you? When you have Situations – the Stoicess has Recommendations.The Stoicess
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Retiring Early: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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The alarm is going off again. It first went off at 6am, then 6:15, and now 6:30. Yeah, it’s “third time’s a charm” because if you don’t get up now, you’ll be late for work. But who cares, right? As you lie in bed, you dream of escaping the stresses and demands of your job. You’ve been stashing money away and have a comfortable nest egg. Thus, early…
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The plan has been made. The big date is forthcoming. There’s excitement in the air. Everyone is working toward that magical date. But there is one problem, at least for you. Your future daughter-in-law doesn’t respect you. Listen to the Stoicess' guidance on this one.The Stoicess
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Are you hopeful for a pay raise on your next evaluation because of the newly assigned work you have been doing? Don't be surprised if the boss lets you down. The Stoicess explains why and what to do next time.The Stoicess
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You’ve been together for over a year, and all is progressing nicely with the relationship, that is, until you overheard him talking with another lady at a party last night. The lady was cozying up to him, and she asked if the two of you were together and he responded, “For now, yes. Our relationship is all about the money.” You almost choked on you…
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It was a tough breakup and now the Ex wants to give the two of you a second chance. What should you do? The Stoicess has some advice for you.The Stoicess
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Indecisive Boss: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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Idea generation is the lifeblood of innovation in any organization. And in a highly competitive business landscape, companies that can consistently generate fresh ideas gain a significant advantage over their competitors. However, idea generation goes beyond simply coming up with random thoughts. It requires a systematic approach that takes into ac…
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You’re finally over your Ex. Your heart has mended. You’re on your new path in life. That is until you see your best friend intertwined in a romantic kiss with your ex. How do you respond? See the poem for an answer.The Stoicess
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You finally got a day off to spend with your partner. Everything appeared perfect until your partner paid more attention to their cell phone, than to you. You’re fired up and ready to stir things up. However, the Stoicess has some words for you before you unload on him!The Stoicess
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Being Unique: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base.
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Your boss has commented many times that your ideas lack sense. You get “that look” so many times after expressing an idea, that you feel like crawling into a hole. You’ve reached a point that keeping your mouth shut is the best way for you to conform to societal norms. In a world that often values conformity, it's important for you to embrace your …
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Your children are now grown and facing life as young adults. However, they keep asking you for money. Maybe you gave them too much during their time with you, because as they now face hardships, they see you as an extended piggy bank for them. How do you tell them “No”? Listen to the Stoicess’ advice.…
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You have your belief on how the company should be steered, but your partner has a different thought. Who wins at the end of the day? Listen to the poem for some advice.The Stoicess
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Escaping Corp World: Stoicess and Professor Weekly Update
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Work-related stress is a common issue that causes many professionals to attempt to escape the corporate world. A constant feeling of exhaustion, loss of enthusiasm and passion for the work, and a lack of support from colleagues or superiors are all stressors that can make one feel it’s time to throw in the towel. In this webinar, we address a man w…
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You’ve got this friend that recently decided she’s the leader of your social group… maybe leader of the world would be a better characterization. From her perch on top of the globe, she’s begun to evaluate the actions of others one task at a time. This attitude of hers toward friends started after she received a recent promotion to manager at her j…
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You’ve just learned that your coworker has taken all the credit for a report you wrote. You are angry and want revenge! Listen to the podcast for some sound reasoning on how to proceed professionally.The Stoicess
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Empowering Older Employees: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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A close friend of yours at the office is struggling regarding whether to apply for an upcoming promotion in your unit. Of late, it appears that older co-workers are being overlooked. A mood of frustration for older workers is in the air. They feel their experience and skills are not being recognized. In this webinar, we address a middle-aged gentle…
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Tomorrow is the weekend and time for some “me time”. Rest and relaxation are at the top of your list. However, when tomorrow arrives, it’s a surprise attack when your partner tells you they have other plans for you. You will be attending a gathering at an acquaintance’s home that your partner accepted without asking you first. The event is exactly …
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I received an old suitcase from my dad on Valentine’s Day. It was filled with a 1,000 dimes. So, how should I spend these dimes? I await your response.The Stoicess
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Rulebreakers: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-base
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You’re walking the floor today at the office and notice several employees are on their cell phones either talking, reading, or shopping. They’re so engrossed in their activity that they don’t realize that you the boss are looking directly at them as you pass by. You’ve discussed this behavior repeatedly at biweekly staff meetings and even during on…
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You’ve been working at the job for a couple of years and believe it’s time you should move up in the company. So, you watch the job announcements, but nothing seems to thrill you. However, you saw an announcement from a competitor that a job fair was to be held next week for the general public. You attended the job fair and received an immediate of…
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What do you do when a colleague takes total credit for a project you also participated in? The Stoicess has some insight for you.The Stoicess
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Apology or Divorce: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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Your two children are grown having their own families and live out-of-town. They decided this year to spend the holidays with their immediate family and not with you and your partner. Subsequently, your partner demands an apology from your children regarding such behavior. As you brushed off the request saying, “They are their own families now”, yo…
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In today’s world it’s now come to the point that some bosses expect 24/7 availability of employees. Such applies even when the employee is on vacation or a pre-planned family gathering. Even having an agreement with the boss on when not to text may be problematic to enforce. So, what do you do? Listen to the podcast for the Stoicess’ thoughts on th…
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It’s a holiday with the in-laws for your partner. Where else can he find the judgmental stares, passive-aggressive mumbles, and active aggressive arguments all wrapped up in one big bundle of stress for everyone. He wants to avoid this misery. However, you’ve got little ones that are watching how you and your partner act through this discord. So, w…
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Friend Zone - When your partner wants what you cannot give. Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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A few years ago, you finally made it to the upper class. You’re living in the land of the Richie Rich and things couldn’t be better. That is, until your partner told you they want a divorce. But their request was a little different. Instead of wanting the “will never see each other again” approach, your partner wants to place you in the “friend zon…
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You were having lunch with a friend the other day and all was going well until the friend started speaking badly about another friend of hers. Hearing her words, you think to yourself, “Because my friend talks bad about her other friend; does she sometimes say bad things about me, too?” Listen to the video for insight on how to address this awkward…
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You’ve been successful in your career and have made a name for yourself. However, marriage is now before you, and you must choose whose last name you will debut. So, do you take your partner’s name? Listen to the poem for insight.The Stoicess
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Compassionate People: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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There are times in our lives that we see a fellow colleague, who is a trusted friend to us, being mistreated by a boss. It’s a difficult situation for you as well as your trusted friend. The question becomes what responsibilities do you have toward your trusted friend? To what depth would you go to help them? In this webinar, we address a woman who…
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Do you sometimes you feel like the outcast of your family, considering your siblings are selective regarding which family events you are allowed to attend? They even refer to you as the family entertainer and you’re only invited when free entertainment is needed. Well, it’s time to hold your ground! Listen to the podcast for how to address.…
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Ever had someone make you feel bad for not giving in to their requests? They act mad, call you names, then ignore you as they attempt to cause you stress? Listen to the podcast to understand the "guilt trip" game.The Stoicess
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Dealing With a Hypochondriac Boss: Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base
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Dealing with a boss who constantly believes they are sick or on the verge of a medical emergency can be challenging, to say the least. Their constant need for constant need for reassurance and attention can be emotionally draining and time-consuming, taking a toll on your own productivity as well as your personal life. In this webinar, we discuss a…
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