This is a real question. I don’t know the answer and I’m curious.Derek Sivers

I was 36, and had been living in Portland for two years. I saw an amazing house for sale — really amazing — stunning design, ideal location on the edge of the city, and its backyard was the start of a huge state park. I had a visceral reaction.Derek Sivers

I’m going for the double meaning of “get me” that also means “understand me”.Derek Sivers

According to statistics, I’m in the final third of my life. (I don’t expect to beat the odds, because I inherited a cancer-creating genetic disorder.) So maybe it’s the final quarter.Derek Sivers

Because I was raised with no religion, I used to think they were all ridiculous.Derek Sivers

My parents never mentioned God or any religion. Not necessarily atheist — nothing against. The subject just never came up.Derek Sivers

Dismissing gives me a quick little lift.Derek Sivers

Dubai was in my “Top 5 places where I NEVER want to go”. I heard it was commercialized hedonism, glorified overindulgence, pandering to millionaires and influencers — extravagance and opulence. Everything I hate. That’s why I had never gone there.Derek Sivers

Tomorrow you have plans to go to an event with a friend. You made the plans a month ago. You ask your friend, “Do you still want to go?”Derek Sivers

I used to live in a basement apartment, next to the trash room. Rats were often blocking my door, and I could hear them walking in the ceiling right above me as I slept. I hated them so much that I happily killed as many as I could, with no remorse.Derek Sivers

For many years, I was a touring musician, performing live on stage every week. But I didn’t like attending concerts. I liked making music more than listening to music. I felt I must be in the wrong line of work, creating something that I don’t consume. I never reconciled this feeling.Derek Sivers

Not a new idea, but just another visualization and reminder.Derek Sivers

You know that frustration of reading a book that should have been an article? Me too. So I try to do the opposite — to write so succinctly that you wish I would have said a little more. You complete it with your own thoughts.Derek Sivers

I’ve asked my favorite musicians if, when they’re done writing a new song, they feel it’s the best song ever. All of them said yes.Derek Sivers

I just got the call from the super-connected Alex Steininger that our mutual friend Ben Kihnel died in his sleep. He was only 48.Derek Sivers

This is a lukewarm little story with a few connected bits, but it might be interesting or even helpful. Follow the links in it, for full effect. Esperanto startDerek Sivers

Kevin Kelly invited me to walk 100 kilometers (62 miles) through northern Thailand for seven days, ending in Chiang Mai. Walking with us were ten other smart interesting people, including five other authors whose work I’ve loved for years. It’s a “Walk and Talk”.Derek Sivers

People search for their passion or purpose. But “purpose” and “passion” are words we use when we’re not working.Derek Sivers

My band was playing a gig in Oslo, Norway, when I struck up a conversation with a woman who was staring at me. Turns out we had read many of the same books, and we were super-attracted to each other. We talked all night, but just as things got physical in my hotel room, house-keeping came knocking on the door saying we needed to check out now. Righ…

I forbid myself from anything too tempting or addicting. I keep no cookies in my home. To prevent myself from falling off the wagon, I strap myself to the mast.Derek Sivers

In 2020, I was about to move to New York City. I wanted to get to know all of its ethnic enclaves, like visiting the whole world in one city. But I know I have a tendency to stay at home, immersed in my work.Derek Sivers

When you think something nice about someone, you should tell them.Derek Sivers

February 13 through 21, 2023, I went to Chennai and Bengaluru, India. My sole purpose was to meet new friends. I’m an “Overseas Citizen of India” and my son is half-Indian (Tamil). I will always have ties to India. I wanted to deepen those ties and make new connections.Derek Sivers

Explorers poke through the unknown, experimenting, trying many little dead-ends.Derek Sivers

When I was 21, I moved to New York City.Derek Sivers

Because of my open inbox, I meet a lot of strangers. I love it. Almost everyone tells me who and where they are in the world. If they don’t, I wonder.Derek Sivers

My favorite moments in life are when someone shows me a new perspective — a way of thinking I had never considered.Derek Sivers

Tyler Cowen is my favorite interviewer of all-time. His interviewing style has spoiled me for all others. He creates a tasting feast for the mind.Derek Sivers

I like going to the source. Like finding musicians’ influences, and getting to know that music too. Same with film, art, philosophy, and technology.Derek Sivers