In this episode of Dirty Roots X, we talk about why emotions—especially Aggie’s—don’t really matter in our Dominant/Submissive relationship. I know that might sound harsh, but hear me out. Emotions are always changing, and if we were to base our decisions on how Aggie feels at any given moment, our relationship would become chaotic and directionles…

In this episode, Aggie and I sit talk about something that often comes up in D/s relationships: rules. Spoiler alert—neither of us is a fan of rigid guidelines. Instead, we share why our dynamic thrives on clear expectations, mutual respect, and an intuitive understanding of each other, rather than a long list of dos and don’ts. We’ll discuss how r…

In this episode of Dirty Roots X, we explore what it means to be a submissive in our Dominant/Submissive (D/s) relationship. Aggie talks about her experience of submission, how she embraces her role, and the challenges that come with it. We discuss the power dynamics at play, how she willingly gives me control, and her trust which is essential for …

In this episode we talk about what dominance means in our relationship. For me, dominance isn’t just about control—it’s about leadership and knowing when to lead with care versus when to tap into my darker side. It's a mix of being the guiding force, making decisions so Aggie doesn’t have to, and embracing the raw, unapologetic aspects of control t…

In this episode Aggie and I break down the role of commands in our Dominant/Submissive relationship. I think commands go beyond basic instructions—they’re key tools that create connection, establish control, and deepen intimacy. They shape our dynamic, setting the tone and reinforcing the power exchange in and out of the bedroom. For the submissive…

In this episode, Aggie and I dig into orgasm control—a powerful tool in Dominant/Submissive relationships that’s often overlooked. It’s more than just denying an orgasm; it’s about keeping both partners in a heightened state of arousal, which deepens intimacy and strengthens the dynamic. I willtell you a bit how orgasm control creates a psychologic…

Today we’re taking on a crucial topic in Dominant/Submissive relationships: embracing your dark side. Society often pushes us to be our “best selves,” which usually means hiding anything that doesn’t fit the mold—flaws, darker impulses, or desires. But we know thatsuppressing these parts doesn’t make them disappear-it just forces them to manifest i…

In this episode, we cover the topic of collaring in Dominant/Submissive relationships—a common symbol of commitment and power exchange. For many, a collar is like a wedding ring, representing ownership, trust, and the unique dynamic between partners. But for Aggie and me, it just doesn’t resonate. We see collars as symbols that can imply subordinat…