Is Ego Really The Enemy?

Let Me Speak To A Manager

"Our ego is our silent partner--too often with a controlling interest."

~Cullen Hightower

The mere mention of the word ego conjures images of self-loving, selfish maniacs who would stop at nothing to bolster their own self-image. Here we make the clear distinction between ego, a person's self-esteem, and an egotist, a person wholly consumer with self-importance. Without the ego, there would be no success. What would drive us to fight through resistance, to risk failure, to persevere? We look at how a person can use their ego aspirationally without letting success get to our heads.

In this episode:

• Why parents act like fools at youth sports games
• The absurdity of big egos in large companies
• Why ego tends to show itself once you've had success
• Leaders who say "I" when things go poorly and "we" when things go well
• Why sacred cows exist in organizations
• The higher up you move in an organization, the fewer pats on the back you should expect
• How Frank knew he wasn't getting a big tip at Outback Steakhouse
• How to convince yourself you are still the underdog
• Why we still freak out about posting videos online
• A lack of ego can be just as a big of a problem as an ego out of control