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Season 6: Episode 3: My parents have sex?? EW!!
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What happens when our “roles” in peoples lives change?
* Instead of trying to fit into someone else’s framework, just to keep the peace and keep your relationship with them, it is better to be your authentic self and let the chips fall where they may.
* If you need to make changes necessary for your growth as a person, do it. It can be argued that anyone that doesn’t want you to grow and become better should probably be at the periphery of your life, and not at the center.
* Don’t remain angry when people’s attitudes toward the “New You” change. Instead of being angry and trying to force them to accept this better version of you, just re-direct your energy and emotions to the new crop of supporters that will inevitably come your way.
* Don’t over explain yourself. Remember, those who truly matter won’t mind and those who mind don’t really matter.
* Make your growth a priority. That way, you will not be distracted by other people’s attitudes.
*Don’t condescend. Just accept that some people will be ok with the NEW YOU and some people won’t.
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