#50 - Creating Your Own Rulebook

The Conscious Couples Podcast

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts and real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. Today they discuss the importance of having your relationship’s rulebook instead of following what other people say are the “shoulds and shouldn’t.” especially when you’re in a new relationship; people often share the rules that made their relationships last. Unfortunately, their rules don’t apply to every relationship because everybody is different, and everybody’s relationships run on different core values. So communicate with your partner, identify your core values and what's important for each of you, and never let anyone dictate your relationship based on what works for them.
Show notes:
[2:06] The stereotypical setup
[4:24] Don’t let your desire to create your own rulebook get doused by anyone
[7:38] Pause and reflect
[10:51] Derek Smith shares his experience with Alan and Emilia
[13:17] You can choose the meaning
[15:37] What’s the core of your relationship?
[20:09] Outro
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