#323 Is It Fair to Blame the Other Woman?

The Niall Boylan Podcast (They Told Me To Shut Up)

In this episode, Niall examines the complexities of forgiveness and blame in relationships, asking, If your partner cheated, would you forgive them, or is betrayal always unforgivable? Inspired by Dee Devlin’s public support of Conor McGregor after his High Court verdict, the discussion also questions whether it’s fair to blame "the other woman" in such situations.

Some callers commend Dee for her loyalty and strength, saying that relationships are about working through tough times. They argue that forgiveness is key in any partnership, and if Dee believes staying with Conor is best for her family, her decision should be respected. For these callers, working through betrayal can ultimately make a relationship stronger.

Other callers, however, feel cheating is the ultimate betrayal and shows a complete lack of respect. They argue that Dee’s forgiveness sends the wrong message, allowing further disrespect and diminishing her self-worth. For them, betrayal like this is unforgivable and staying in such a relationship only leads to more pain.

Niall wraps up by exploring the delicate balance between love, loyalty, and personal boundaries in the face of infidelity.