97. Attachment – The Anxious Avoidant Trap + How to Get Out of It with Nicole Walker

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In our second installment of the Small Business Starter Kit series - we’re tackling a topic that’s sometimes tricky, sometimes confusing, but ever-present: taxes. Hosts Austin and Jannese have an insightful conversation with entrepreneur Isabella Rosal who started 7th Sky Ventures , an exporter and distributor of craft spirits, beer, and wine. Having lived and worked in two different countries and started a company in a heavily-regulated field, Isabella is no stranger to navigating the paperwork-laden and jargon-infused maze of properly understanding taxes for a newly formed small business. Join us as she shares her story and provides valuable insight into how to tackle your business’ taxes - so they don’t tackle you. Learn more about how QuickBooks can help you grow your business: QuickBooks.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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If you and your partner are struggling because one of you peruses connection and desires intimacy, but the other one of you pushes away and highly values autonomy, you might be falling into the anxious-avoidant trap. In this episode we talk about: · What the anxious-avoidant trap is · How to get out of the anxious-avoidant trap · What attachment is · What attachment styles are · Fears that underly different attachment styles · Examples of protest behaviors · How to start to change your patterns · How and why to advocate for your needs Where to find Nicole Website: https://renovateyourrelationships.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the practice of peace/ Nicole’s attachment workbook: https://www.thepracticeofpeace.com/hey-instagram @renoyourrelationships Amber’s Free Guide: Attachment Styles 101 https://www.emberrelationshippsychology.com/attachment-styles-101 This podcast is for informational purposes only.

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97. Attachment – The Anxious Avoidant Trap + How to Get Out of It with Nicole Walker

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