Dr. Lisa Damour on the emotional lives of teenagers | Episode 297

Spawned Parenting Podcast with Liz of Cool Mom Picks

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2 года назад 27:41

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Bestselling author, podcast host, and psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour shares her insights and thoughtful advice on raising emotionally connected and resilient teens and discusses the impetus for her newest book, The Emotional Lives of Teenagers.

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Dr. Lisa Damour on the emotional lives of teenagers | Episode 297

Spawned Parenting Podcast with Liz of Cool Mom Picks

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