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Step one for starting a small business is often coming up with an exciting idea. But what is step two? Step three? Steps four through launch and beyond? On our second episode, and first iteration of our Small Business Starter Kit Series, Austin and Jannese visit The Candle Pour to chat with founders Misty and Dennis Akers . They’ll tell our hosts about how they got their business off the ground and about all the things that go with it: from incorporation to trademarks. Join us as they detail how they went from Grand Idea to Grand Opening. Learn more about how QuickBooks can help you grow your business: Quickbooks.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…
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Today in this mini-series we are warming ourselves up with some bad sex stories. Our goal is to see what we would or could change giving advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!
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Контент предоставлен Master Saturn. Весь контент подкастов, включая эпизоды, графику и описания подкастов, загружается и предоставляется непосредственно компанией Master Saturn или ее партнером по платформе подкастов. Если вы считаете, что кто-то использует вашу работу, защищенную авторским правом, без вашего разрешения, вы можете выполнить процедуру, описанную здесь https://ru.player.fm/legal.
Today in this mini-series we are warming ourselves up with some bad sex stories. Our goal is to see what we would or could change giving advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!
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×Welcome to the new podcast! Master Saturn is thrilled to kick off our series, exploring intriguing topics and fostering meaningful discussions. Our aim is to inspire you to think differently and build a community of curious minds. Join us as we learn from diverse voices and grow together. Thanks for tuning in, and let's enjoy this new beginning!…
A throwback to our Saturday Night Live - 11/13/21 Grab your favorite drink and join me LIVE for "Spiritual BDSM" followed by Q&A!
Today we look at leading ourselves in romantic relationships with one or more people. We define and help you navigate Monogamy, Ethical Non-Monogamy, and Polyamory discussing the common areas of concern with each relationship style. Here is a resource you may find helpful that we reference in today's episode: https://www.morethantwo.com/poly101.pdf…
On this first podcast of The Leading Life, a vanilla-friendly project we are working on, we look at the Wikipedia page on Leadership and talk about our philosophy of Leadership and who we feel can become a leader.
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at one of the ethical schools of thought that sprung up following the golden age of Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle.
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at one of the ethical schools of thought that sprung up following the golden age of Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle.
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at one of the ethical schools of thought that sprung up following the golden age of Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle. We recently bought a book on Ethics 101 that we recommend for this series: https://amzn.to/3SxX1ka…
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at the Greek philosopher Aristotle and his views on achieving ethical happiness through temperance.
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at the Greek philosopher Plato and how his ideas about society and political thought influenced Ethics.
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at the Greek philosopher Socrates and how he shaped the formation of Ethics.
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we show where Moral Philosophy, aka Ethics, fits within the whole of Philosophy.
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we introduce the topic and give a few opening definitions. We recently bought a book on Ethics 101 that we recommend for this series: https://amzn.to/3SxX1ka…
Today in this mini-series we look at stories people have shared about their spooky sexual encounters with spirits, ghosts, and demons. We give our spiritual advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!
Today in this mini-series we continue with more bad sex stories. Our goal is to see what we would or could change giving advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!
Today in this mini-series we are warming ourselves up with some bad sex stories. Our goal is to see what we would or could change giving advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!
In the final installment of this mini-series we are continuing to look at that stats for how often accidents and injuries take place within the kink community. We also look at who they happen to and what levels of injuries occur. Lastly we give more advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!…
In the third installment of this mini-series we are continuing to look at that stats for how often accidents and injuries take place within the kink community. We also look at who they happen to and what levels of injuries occur. Lastly we give more advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!…
In the second part of this mini-series we are looking at that stats for how often accidents and injuries take place within the kink community. We also look at who they happen to and what levels of injuries occur. Lastly we warn against predators and give advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!…
In the first part of this mini-series we are looking at a Buzzfeed "Would You Rather" quiz and pointing out some of the problematic questions that arise from the humorous kinky quiz. We follow it up with three ethical safety mottos that exist within kink: SSC, RACK, and PRICK.
Shame is a powerful emotion that can have a profound impact on individuals. It often stems from the world's tendency to be harsh and unforgiving towards those who are perceived as different. This is especially true for individuals with unconventional desires or interests, commonly referred to as kinks. Ultimately, it is crucial to embrace our own uniqueness and not let shame dictate our lives.…
The ambiguity of the term 'Alpha sub' often generates a myriad of reactions, from intrigue to confusion, as it defies traditional identity categories. The complexity arises from the various contexts and personal experiences that individuals bring to the table when interpreting what submission means to them.…
Today is part two of our interview little libra who is co-host of the BDSM United Podcast, a BDSM Educator, a little and a submissive in a long-term power exchange relationship with Master Saturn. Together they run Whips, Chains & Duct Tape which she founded in 2012 and has provided hundreds of thousands of adults with tools and resources for learning non-violent, consensual traditional BDSM.…
Today we interview little libra who is co-host of the BDSM United Podcast, a BDSM Educator, a little and a submissive in a long-term power exchange relationship with Master Saturn. Together they run Whips, Chains & Duct Tape which she founded in 2012 and has provided hundreds of thousands of adults with tools and resources for learning non-violent, consensual traditional BDSM.…
It is sometimes a controversial topic, especially among those who insist one's submission is a gift. Ultimately, the power in a power exchange dynamic rests with the individuals who willingly and consensually engage in the dynamic, ensuring that all parties involved feel safe, respected, and fulfilled.…
Kink can be both intense and a bit risky, one can become triggered from past hurt or trauma. Handling triggers in a relationship requires patience, understanding, and open communication. By following the steps outlined in today's podcast, you can work towards creating a safe and supportive environment for both you and your partner.…
Welcome to the exhilarating week of Scorpio Season! Prepare yourself for an intense period filled with passion, depth, and transformation. Scorpio Season invites you to embrace your inner strength and tap into your innate ability to regenerate and rise from the ashes. It's a time for deep introspection, self-discovery, and embracing your true desires. So buckle up and get ready for a week of intense growth and empowerment! Based on the book "The Secret Language of Relationships" by Gary Goldschneider and Joost Elffers. https://amzn.to/3QbMqbX…
What I commonly find is that many people's online FetLife profiles don't match the identity listed by their name. Not to mention the vast majority of people that don't even fill the profile out! We share our own tips to writing a profile that matches your identity as consistently as possible. We also share advice from Dating Kinky expert Nookie.…
Vetting a potential play partner an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too often in today’s meet-online-first world. Before you get kinky with someone for the first time, do your homework on who this person is instead of just taking their word for it.
As we move from Libra season in the season of Scorpio, a heightened sense of the drama of life, both in a philosophical and personal sense, leads to an increased awareness of the dynamics of one's own existence. A highly critical attitude emerges that cuts away careless generalizations and sloppy thinking, and aims for the essence of truth. Based on the book "The Secret Language of Relationships" by Gary Goldschneider and Joost Elffers. https://amzn.to/3QbMqbX…
Several years ago there was an internal push within the kink community to erase "Top and bottom" by those who erroneously stated "You're not real unless you are into D/s!!" Today we dispel that myth and give a crash course on Topping and Bottoming.
The formal lifestyle is filled with traditions and ceremonies that are seldom witnessed by the outside world and perhaps one of the most moving and meaningful is the "bonding ritual" or Ceremony of the Roses. This ceremony is steeped in symbolism and mystique. Today we explore this beautiful ritual together!…
Do you have a spirit of submission, that is an aura or an essence of it? Is submission just something you do or is it also part of your inner being? If being a submissive is your identity, you should be developing submission in your heart. Today we give you two practical exercises you can do to immediately begin to develop your submissive identity.…
When beginning a power exchange dynamic in a new or existing relationship, it is usually helpful to have a series of discussions in order to form a Training Contract. Today we give you tips for creating them and help ease the anxieties surrounding making relationship contracts.
Consistency is great for an identity within a power exchange relationship. As long as those involved have the good character and willingness to make the relationship work, consistent structure will work for them. But consistency is bad for fetishes, kinks, and sexual expressions. There is a time and a place for those things.…
We find ourselves in a middle path between Tradition and Innovation trying to do a power exchange relationship that is both modern yet respectful of traditions. How do we tell that we are being successful in those goals? What can we use to measure success? Today we talk about the hidden key to it all.…
Today we look for a middle path somewhere between traditional BDSM and TNG. Because we can't go back in time and yet we want to honor what has already been built and passed along to us. "Having a good idea of what has been tried in the past is an enormous asset, but it has to be combined with a willingness to adapt the lessons of the past to the needs of the ever-changing present. A body of knowledge that remains absolutely fixed over time, incapable of absorbing new lessons and insights, is not a tradition but a corpse." -John Michael Greer…
BDSM Summer School is in session this year focusing on consensual Master/slave relationships. In this episode we look at how the Leatherman subculture of the 1950s shaped modern M/s relationships. We highlight portions of a handbook from 1972 showing how early practitioners of BDSM viewed M/s.
BDSM Summer School is in session this year focusing on consensual Master/slave relationships. In this episode we look at the path from abolitionist propaganda to sadomasochistic pornography. Much of this development occurred after the abolition of slavery in Europe and North America. As slavery receded from living memory it lost moral urgency and became a fertile source for sexual fantasy.…
BDSM Summer School is in session this year focusing on consensual Master/slave relationships. In this episode we look at the origins of ancient Greco-Roman slavery and contrast them with modern BDSM relationships showing the vast differences between the legal and social implications of both forms of slavery.…
BDSM Summer School is in session this year focusing on consensual Master/slave relationships. In this episode we look at Orlando Patterson’s "Slavery and Social Death" (Cambridge: Harvard University Press, 1982) contrasting the three-part definition Patterson uses to define involuntary slavery with that of non-violent, consensual Master/slave relationships.…
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. The core of BDSM is communication and consent. If you feel that what is going on is ‘not right’ then you certainly should investigate if it is abuse or not. Some of what you may feel could not be abuse at all, but it’s good to know for sure. Learn how you can see the differences for yourself.…
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Perhaps you have seen the symbol used in our logo and wondered what does it stand for? That and many other symbols are part of our culture. We look at many of the ones you will see and tell you what they mean and why they are part of BDSM.
Today's podcast is an unscripted look at where BDSM has come from, how political ideology has influenced where we are presently, and how to shape the future of BDSM. There is a tension between people that are left of center and right of center on the spectrum of political thought. We give our advice for finding consensus and shaping BDSM based on traditional integrity and moral character.…
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. There was a time when a collar was more important than a wedding ring. The meaning of the collar has as many definitions now as there are people. Each person has his or her own definition. So what does it mean to have a collar?
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. You're ready to explore BDSM... now what should people call you? Today we talk all about scene names and titles.
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. As you begin dipping your toes into BDSM Culture it's good to take a self-inventory by asking yourself, "Who am I? Why am I here? What am I looking for?" Today we help you explore those questions.
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Imagine you are standing outside our culture looking in. Today we discuss what you might hope to find within and the possibilities that exist within BDSM Culture.
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Today we talk about the difference between Vanilla and Kink.
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Today we talk about the darker side of BDSM and what people might discover within our culture.
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Today we talk about motives for becoming involved in BDSM.
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Today we talk about the importance of having a solid foundational knowledge of our culture.
Vetting a new partner is something we have lost as a society, not just in the BDSM community. We see all the time a person ends one relationship and within a week, or less, be chest deep in a new relationship and deeply in love again. So, what is vetting and why is it so important? In Part Two we talk about vetting for kink-related things and vetting for a potential power exchange relationship.…
Vetting a new partner is something we have lost as a society, not just in the BDSM community. We see all the time a person ends one relationship and within a week, or less, be chest deep in a new relationship and deeply in love again. So, what is vetting and why is it so important? In Part One we talk about vetting for those things outside of the bedroom.…
While it may be a fun roleplay scene to temporarily act like it, in real relationships dominance and submission are not taken by force. Submission isn't given to the one with the most primal urge to take it. Trust is how dominance and submission are earned within BDSM. After vetting, during a period of consideration and while doing negotiations the process of building trust begins. Today we talk about the six building blocks for building trust within BDSM relationships.…
Self-collaring is where the s-type will collar themselves. This is usually done to express self-love, taking ownership of their own submission (after a bad relationship) to help heal and ground themselves before getting back into looking for a D-type. This is fairly new, and for the most part only recognized by TNG. Today we talk about collars and give our advice for self-collaring.…
Since late 2008 FetLife has proven itself to be a valuable resource for those persons looking for kink advice and learning all about fetishes they may not have ever considered. It's also a good place to make friends with local people and organize events. But since the search capacity is limited it can be very difficult to find the information you may be looking for.…
Pain, as a magical or ritual technique, can be generally sorted into one of seven different categories. It should not cause too much in the way of physical damage, because that might make you pass out and miss the entire experience. It's carefully controlled, carefully orchestrated pain and the best way to work with it is to do it slowly and with attention to the reaction of one's body.…
Think for a moment about the traditions that are commonly called Old Guard. The term itself describes a philosophy, not a group per se. A group of people existed that formed and worked toward developing this philosophy. Today we talk about the two main philosophies of BDSM that exist today and how BDSM history is unique from SM history. Recommended reading is A Lover's Pinch: A Cultural History of Sadomasochism https://amzn.to/3JUfz9Z…
We begin a play scene with negotiations and do the scene with techniques and safety, but how do we end a scene? Today we give you a picture of how aftercare might look, some possibilities for things the bottom may encounter during aftercare. And we talk about a variety of the floating feelings they might enjoy after a scene.…
Today we help you answer the question "am I submissive" by looking at statements on a checklist. These determine if you might be interested in exploring the identity of submissive. Covering topics like service, training, objectification and more!
While subspace is a mindset that submissives may get into when in a scene, subdrop comes after the scene is finished. As play winds down — or if it has to stop suddenly — a submissive may be left with an entirely new bundle of feelings. It’s normal to experience everything from exhaustion to hunger to cold to disorientation toward the end of the scene and for a few hours or days afterward.…
You don’t have to be in the BDSM lifestyle long to hear the phrase ‘subspace,’ but what exactly does it mean? Subspace is a mindset that submissives may get into when in a scene. You’ll see why this happens to some people and not others, why it doesn't happen in every scene.
Today we talk about the differences between submissives and slaves. D/s relationship is based on power exchange while M/s is based on authority transfer. We look at both ways for a person to be submissive to help them decide which relationship style interests them.
A safe word is something you use during a scene to let your partner know if you are ok, need to slow down/readjust or to stop. While most kinksters use the stoplight method, you can use any word(s) that you can remember easily as long as it is not something normally said during a scene. If safe words are ignored a lot of unwanted physical and emotional damage can be done during a scene that wasn’t consented.…
If you want a long term partner you need to be testing for things like self-awareness, integrity, strength of character, consistency, and someone’s willingness to face discomfort and adversity. Surface level characteristics can make for an exciting and novelty filled beginning but they don’t stand the test of time, relationally. The reason why people waste time is because they don’t think they have time, so they commit to misaligned relationship after misaligned relationship rather than actually saving time by going slowly and actually vetting before committing. If we want depth, we have to live deeply and vet deeply. If we want surface, then live surface and vet surface.…
Self-esteem relates to how you feel about yourself, whether you like yourself. Being submissive is not about being a "doormat" or a "lesser person". But the sad thing is, many go through life feeling less than what they truly are. Today we give you three solutions to building a healthy self-esteem. It is a long road to repairing damages of the past, but it can be done.…
In today's show we explain why it's so important, and the different options you have when planning your safe call. A safe call is when you call someone to let them know you are ok, and more importantly safe. You meet someone new (either at a munch or online) and this is either the first time meeting face to face, or first time alone. More than likely you won’t need the safecalls or have your friends call for help but evil stuff does happen, and some people are fake and abusive. It’s better to plan and be safe than have no one to call and you know you’re not going to live through this.…
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.…
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.…
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.…
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.…
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.…
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the books discussing that Old Guard era and we simply don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So let's look at parts of the Leatherman's Protocol Handbook to help us piece together an image of the puzzle that we consider Old Guard history.…
The BDSM lifestyle harbors many dangers, oddly enough most people think only about the dangers to the submissive or slave and not to those dangers present for the Dominant. Among the thousands of dedicated, hard working, honest and disciplined submissives and slaves there are those few that pose a danger. There are those that are users, manipulators, liars, gold diggers, wannabees, and scam artists. Unfortunately sometimes we do not see these individuals for what they truly are until it is too late.…
Within this lifestyle there are unfortunately many dangers, there are people out there using the BDSM lifestyle as a way to abuse or use individuals under an umbrella of acceptance. Within each situation there are warning signs that we see, unfortunately sometimes we do not see these warning signs until it is too late. There are many people that say they are a Dominant are not, instead they are users, abusers, predators, wannabees, bullies, and manipulators.…
BDSM is about relationships and interactions between people. It’s about power, control, dominance, surrender, humiliation, pain, and discomfort. Sometimes, but not always, it’s about sex. Today we take a fresh look at BDSM 101 hopefully helping explain our culture and lifestyle in a fresh way.
One might think, from the outside looking in, that processing change in an M/s dynamic is always difficult for those who have given up personal autonomy and transferred authority to a Master or Mistress. However, slaves often have a (consensually) conditioned mindset that accepts changes. Even when they struggle there are tools for their Doms to utilize to help them. Here are a few ways Owners help their slaves process change. Today's episode is an excerpt from the book Power Circuits by Raven Kaldera. https://amzn.to/2ZIOCBk…
Today we present Gary Swift's essay on why he coined the motto RACK in order to update SSC's Safe, Sane and Consensual. Swift says, "Nothing's perfectly safe. Crossing the street isn't perfectly safe." He also challenges the notion, "The sane part of SSC is very subjective. Who's making the call?" This is an interesting look at the origin from the one who created RACK.…
When we educate about some topics we always get someone who accuses us of being a "one twue way" person or podcast. This is something called the invincible ignorance fallacy where the person in making this statement simply refuses to believe the teaching, ignoring any evidence given. Instead they offer, "There's no one way to do anything in BDSM" which is absurd! We are Traditional, meaning we draw principles from our BDSM history and form a philosophy of how to do BDSM based on those principles. There is BDSM that works and other stuff that, when added, makes BDSM fall apart. We are trying to give people the tools to have good, lasting relationships and safe play scenes.…
Before you get to a contract for a scene or in a relationship dynamic it is important to understand how to make Rules and how to give Orders. The entire concept of the D/s dynamic is a relationship built around a ruleset. Within a play scene as long as the rule won’t undermine your authority, makes logical sense, and is created with a purpose, you’re good to go.…
Just a brief word about our day off and our goal for the new year. Thanks for listening!
While all toys are for trans folks (because anyone can use any toy with themselves and others), there are some toys that are specifically great for trans folks: specifically, toys that are gender-affirming, both in everyday use and in play. You can check out all the toys mentioned using our SheVibe affiliate link: https://shevibe.com/?rfsn=4817860.3efcec…
A kink checklist is usually suitable for scene play and for very new or short-term relationships. For a longer-term relationship that involves a dynamic it's a good idea that all persons involved know each other on a more intimate basis. Here are some medical and health questions to help in your negotiations.…
Happy New Year 2023 from BDSM United Podcast!! Here is an episode I recorded a few weeks ago on this relevant topic of BDSM and Kink resolutions and setting goals.
Negotiating a relationship is similar to negotiating a scene. Both come after a potential partner is vetted. Negotiations for a play scene are usually short conversations that happen before you meet for the actual play scene. However negotiating a relationship is a series of longer conversations that happen when a couple decides to consider a power exchange dynamic (such as D/s).…
While it is more common these days for Dominant/submissive couples to have Top/bottom kinky play, the 1950's head-of-household style D/s relationship is an example of D/s without the T/b. In addition to no kink, some D/s relationships are not sexual either. Top and bottom are different than Dominant and Submissive. Therefore we can stop relating them to one another because ultimately we are making it even more difficult to learn their meanings by doing so.…
When people ask how to become involved in kink or how to learn, the first thing they are told is “go to a munch!” Munches are a great first step, but like all first steps, they can be intimidating if you don’t know what to expect or how to behave. Munches are a key part of the BDSM community. It is where people go to meet other kinksters, see old friends and to establish themselves in their local community.…
There are people pushing the “must receive before you can give” ideology in the BDSM lifestyle. Meaning a Top (person doing/giving the kink) must experience a kink before they can give and fully understand that kink to a bottom. That would be ok if that Top was into receiving that kink, which is not always the case. Tops have likes and limits too!…
Today we want to jump back in time and share a snapshot from our past. Perhaps this is a bit of a romanticized look at the identity of a Master, you be the judge. But before we had Mottos like RACK and Safe, Sane, and Consensual there were Creeds such as these. They weren't necessarily better, they were just from a different era.…
What level of intensity is your Power Exchange? How does your dynamic deal with change? Power Exchange can be messy and complicated because it involves people in a relationship. Because the more they learn and grow, people often change. There will always be things on the distant horizon that you cannot plan for because they may not even exist yet.…
BDSM United joins the Heathens Podcast for a special Yule celebration. We talk about celebrating this season and winter solstice from both right hand path and left hand path mystic traditions. And we talk about the best type of kink to enjoy for your Yuletime play scenes!
BDSM's Old Guard roots were once almost entirely homosexual men. It took almost thirty years before the scene became largely inclusive of homosexual women too. And then almost ten more before opening up to a significant amount of straight people. Today BDSM is considered pansexual in that it is open to all people, therefore it is good for us to understand words you’ll hear used in LGBTIQA+ communities.…
BDSM's Old Guard roots were once almost entirely homosexual men. It took almost thirty years before the scene became largely inclusive of homosexual women too. And then almost ten more before opening up to a significant amount of straight people. Today BDSM is considered pansexual in that it is open to all people, therefore it is good for us to understand words you’ll hear used in LGBTIQA+ communities.…
The world of BDSM is broad and incredibly diverse, encompassing everything from the use of a blindfold during sex to forms of consensual torture. People with an interest in BDSM used to be considered dangerous. Today however research suggests it is empowering, therapeutic, and perhaps healing.
Here are my personal BDSM book recommendations. Books have been a big part of my life for a long time, there is much to learn from them. These are some of the books that I teach from, as well. If you are new to BDSM this is definitely the list for you!
Today we answer the question, "Is it okay for me to Call myself Master?" We briefly look at the various origins of the word and give some sage advice for those who think the honorific may fit them.
Today we talk about the identity misappropriation that happens when roleplayers use Dom/sub or Master/slave for their kinky scenes. Often times it is confusing because they feel a connection to our identities even though they are simply larping. We have a few suggestions for those involved in the kink of roleplaying.…
Welcome to part 7 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Ethical Non-monogamy (ENM) is having a romantic and/or physical relationship with more than one person. ENM is an umbrella term for swingers, cuckolds, poly, open relationship/marriage, casual dating and more. While this is not really part of the BDSM lifestyle, the two lifestyles do cross over a lot.…
Welcome to part 6b of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Tops and bottoms are the participants in a scene where one or more kinks are performed. Today we look at more miscellaneous roles within kink scenes.
Welcome to part 6a of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Tops and bottoms are the participants in a scene where one or more kinks are performed. You do not have to be in a dynamic with the person you are in the scene with, and sex (at any level) is not a requirement. Your role can change with different scenes, partners or even during the scene.…
Welcome to part 5 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Sadomasochism (SM or S&M) is giving and receiving pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation on a consenting partner. This is a scene-specific kink role for a Top and a bottom. Today we define some types of S&M play and the roles involved in kinky S&M play scenes.…
Welcome to part 4 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Bondage is a part of kink scenes for Tops and bottoms. Bondage can be something as simple as cuffs on during a scene, or at a more difficult skill level such as Shibari. Today we talk about the different types of bondage roles for Tops and bottoms, along with the 12 types of bondage and the types of ropes involved in the kink.…
Welcome to part 3 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! The Leather community started around the 1940s having strong roots in the gay biker community and who today we commonly call The Old Guard. Leather families are groups of Leatherfolk who have sworn to treat each other as family, to be there to take care of each other through life's ups and downs. In today's episode we look at writings from MasterTaino and MsTori to help define Leather Identities and the Leather Family.…
Welcome to part 2 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Power exchange is where one person gives the other a certain amount of control over them and the relationship. Some level of power exchange happens in every relationship, both vanilla and BDSM. These identities have nothing to do with kink, or their roles in the bedroom/scene.…
Welcome to part 1 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! When first starting your journey in the BDSM lifestyle, you will read and hear a lot about “roles”. There are 2 definitions for “roles” in this lifestyle; 1. How you identify in this lifestyle, and/or within a dynamic. (For example: submissive). 2. What your role is in a scene, a role playing title that is directly related to the kink in the scene.…
Since we are an educational podcast, we tend to ask a lot of questions. Sometimes we take for granted that we all understand how to answer questions. So what better way to resolve this than to teach on answering questions! Communication is a hallmark of BDSM, helping us learn to communicate effectively is the aim of today's podcast.…
One of the kinky things a lot of people are both drawn to and repelled by is that type of play we call Humiliation. We've discovered that no two Tops or bottoms mean quite the same thing when they use that term. It’s more of an umbrella term for lots of different types of emotionally submissive play. Under that umbrella are humiliation, shame, embarrassment, degradation, and objectification.…
Although many into BDSM and kink scenes has heard of endorphins, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, and how one can correctly induce the body to produce them. This short primer will answer those questions, and serve as a guide for anyone Topping so that they may successfully send their bottom into Subspace.…
Today's podcast is a how-to for how men should use a dildo because believe it or not, they aren’t just for females to get off on. In fact, we explore some other myths and misconceptions around dildos, aside from the main one: they're just for vaginas.
In today's podcast, we want to break down the difference between the “little” identity and the kink of ageplay. There is a huge misconception that those in a Daddy/little power exchange dynamic include the kinks of ageplay and/or diapers in play scenes or within the dynamic.
What is a little within BDSM and how do I know if I am one? Today we look at characteristics of the identity in order to help you discern whether you are a submissive little.
What is a Daddy or a Mommy Dom within BDSM and how do I know if I am one? Today we look at characteristics of the identity in order to help you discern whether you are a Daddy.
Doing a deep dive into the resources available specifically aimed at the Male Sub left me with a sour taste in my mouth. Everything was kink-related and felt aimed at turning men into pieces of meat. There was so little available about having an actual D/s relationship. If I were a male submissive and looked at what is available, I too would falsely think it was all about the kink and roleplay.…
Gaslighting within BDSM can be “You liked it”, “You never said the safe word” or, “You didn’t mean it when you said it!” Although gaslighting is most commonly associated with abusive relationships with other people, you are also capable of gaslighting yourself. Gaslighting is abusive, but Validation makes for healthy relationships!…
"Alright, you signed up, you’ve done some searching, and you found your coworker's nude pics. Now you’ve got your junk in your hand and you’re looking to park it down someone's throat. You furiously type, one-handed, posting to as many local groups as you can. So you wait. And wait. And wait." Today we talk about how vanilla people act within our social spaces and give them solutions for having better experiences within our BDSM culture.…
How do gender identity and BDSM collide, and does one influence the other? Could our BDSM identity influence our gender identity, and could our gender identity influence our identity of Dominance or submission? Today we consider these questions as we help you define your own sexuality, gender, gender identity, and gender expression.…
So a question we've often been asked is what is Frenzy and why is it considered so bad. This comes up often when someone speaks about “sub frenzy” but there is also “Dom frenzy” as well as other variations on the theme. Today we shed some light on these situations by looking at the bigger picture and then how frenzy might manifest in people’s behavior through the want to do ALL the things, all the time, more and more, and all NOW!…
While we primarily focus on BDSM, it's also important to cover some types of sex education as well. As with many things, small gaps in what we know about basic things can lead to larger problems when we try to bring in more involved levels of kink play. Instead of Googling in incognito, here's a compilation of answers to frequently asked questions about anal play.…
You might see someone listed on a BDSM profile that they have a Mentor or they are under the Protection of someone in the lifestyle. Where can you find a Mentor or Protector? How do you pick one? Do you even need one? Today we answer those questions and give good advice for finding people who you can trust to guide and protect you within this lifestyle.…
What does it mean to “push your limits” and who can push them? If you spend any time around other people in this lifestyle you will hear the phrase pushing your limits so today we are talking about what limits should and shouldn't be pushed. We also discuss how to do scenes involving pushing limits.
Everything in life has risk, in our vanilla life we learn how to work around those to survive. Every kink has some level of risk, we lower the risk with education and training. Some kinks can be riskier than others and can carry the increased potential for harm and even a fatality. Today we discuss Edge Play and define the differences between hurt and harm.…
Being kind to each other and showing gratitude to your partner isn’t a kink or vanilla thing, it’s a human one. But because our identities in D/s can be very clearly defined, we can fall into a trap of taking our partner for granted. Submissives and Dominants alike should show and receive gratitude for what we bring to a relationship. Today we talk about ways we can show gratitude within BDSM.…
Kink shaming is criticizing and degrading someone for their desire/need for a kink. It can also come across as shaming if you criticize the kink without directing it at a specific person. Today we talk about kink shaming and fetishizing someone as an object. We also talk about some ways you can be falsely accused of kink shaming.…
Establishing your kinks and limits is a very important part of this lifestyle. It should be done before vetting a potential play partner, or entering a dynamic. Today we talk about and define kinks vs. fetishes, and discuss soft and hard limits.
It's always a good time for looking inwardly and working what is inside us. In pagan circles they call this "Shadow work" because the inward parts of us are veiled in mystery. Today I'm giving a review for a book I found helpful for digging deep inside to figure why I have my kinks and fetishes, and instead of trying to fix them, learning to love and accept them. Get your copy of "Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power" at https://amzn.to/3ArNQYZ…
For those in limited power exchange relationships such as D/s or those who aren't into S&M kinks, there are often benefits to correcting behavior and punishing broken rules through non-physical discipline. Here are some ideas for punishing your submissive without being physical or giving them spankings.…
One of the most common complaints we get from submissives who are in marriages or relationships that are moving from vanilla to a power exchange relationship is this one: "I want to be Dommed and my husband/wife isn't doing what I need!" Today we talk about ways to ease the frustration of transitioning an already established relationship into a BDSM dynamic.…
It might seem awkward to be talking about New Year's Resolutions months before the end of the year, but goals you actually want to meet take time to plan. Today's podcast gives you some ideas for resolutions you might want to make within BDSM and we talk about how you can take actionable steps to succeed in your resolutions.…
Couples in the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle often say that their levels of connection, intimacy, and communication became better after they started experimenting with this fetish. While this fetish can be a positive thing in your life, it can also potentially cause a lot of tension and heartache too. Today we talk about cucking and many of its related kinks and what you need to consider before cucking.…
While it’s your job as a Dominant and a partner to protect and encourage your sub, when it comes to the scene, the rules of reality no longer apply. When a sub asks, or begs, you to hurt them, or choke them, or pull their hair, then the best choice you can make is to give them the pleasure they desire in that scene. Today we talk about ways you can safely cultivate your Dominant identity within a kink scene.…
Having a partner with whom we can communicate freely and easily is a fundamental piece of the puzzle when it comes to achieving genuine closeness. Yet, even the most communicative of couples can struggle when it comes to finding an adaptive way to give each other feedback. These four principles make the biggest difference when it comes to achieving communication where both people feel seen, heard, and closer to each other.…
There may be no such thing as the perfect partner, but an ideal partner can be found in someone who has developed themselves in certain ways that go beyond the surface. While we each seek out a specific set of qualities that is uniquely meaningful to us alone, there are certain psychological characteristics both you and your partner can aim for that make the flame stronger, more passionate and more fulfilling.…
Today's episode looks at something that was written on FetLife about Bratting and Brat Taming as an opinion article. We draw from what the article describes and translate it for you using traditional BDSM meanings.
Begging is something that many people include in their BDSM relationship. To each person, it is used for different reasons and causes different reactions. Begging affects those involved on both a physical level and a mental one. Today we talk about how to use begging within your play and within power exchange relationship.…
Primal Piggy shares a quick, informal word about how you can become a Supporter of BDSM United Podcast. Many people have asked us to do Interviews on the podcast and we think that's a great idea! We simply need one small upgrade to our equipment in order to do so. We are looking for 12 supporters to contribute a one-time gift of $10. https://anchor.fm/bdsmunited/support or CashApp $PrimalPiggy…
BDSM? What is this? Today's podcast assumes you know nothing about our culture and lifestyle and is a first step toward understanding BDSM. We give both a definition and define the common words we use.
There are a ton of different types of predators within the BDSM lifestyle. This is why we push for everyone to educate themselves (before getting involved with a partner), communicate about everything (asking questions) and trust your gut. Today we talk about safety and introduce you to a type of predator called a Collector.…
Pain is an intense physical sensation. It has evolved as a warning – the body’s way of telling you that you are in danger or something is wrong. That burns, this is broken, that is cut: you’d better do something about it, and fast! Today we look at the liberating and enriching experience of S&M play.…
We often say that BDSM isn't always about sex. Asexual kinksters are sometimes an example of this. There are folks on the asexuality spectrum who enjoy diverse expressions of sex and kink with folks of every gender and orientation across the whole sexuality spectrum. Today we look at ways we can make the entire BDSM lifestyle more welcoming to asexuals.…
This Sex Magick working is an oath that is used by those wishing to enter into a spiritual service-oriented D/s relationship. It could also be used as a Dominant's collaring ceremony for their submissive.
Today's Sex Magick working is A Surrender Ceremony that empowers partners to practice the Master/slave relationship for their agreed-upon time, to be erotically creative, and to push their limits in the Yoga of Dominance and submission.
Today's Sex Magick podcast includes two workings you can do with energy manipulation. First we discuss a needle play working, followed by an energy leash you can form to tie a partner's astral body to yourself.
Today's Sex Magick podcast is a ritual for energy manipulation using a whip or flogger. We discuss how to charge the tool with your intention and the effects it will have on one's astral body.
Today's Sex Magick podcast teaches you how to charge ropes or restraints with specific energies. We also include a common folk spell called the Nine-Knot Spell.
Like any magical or spiritual tools, BDSM tools can be and should be, if you are using them in ritual, charged with energy and intent. Today's Sex Magick podcast includes a Cane Invocation, Knife Blessing, Gag Invocation, Fire Play Invocation, Flogger Invocation, and Lubricant Blessing Invocation.
Today's Sex Magick ritual is a BDSM ceremony before going up on flesh hooks. One individual has to be the Challenger and take on the priestly role. Ideally, it should not be whoever is doing the actual piercing, because both parties need unbroken concentration. The Seeker stands naked before the Challenger and the instruments of pain.…
Welcome to our Halloween Special. There are many terrifying fetishes in the world — some are fantasies that fall far outside the limits of BDSM. Acting on them will land you in prison, hurt you, hurt others, or worse. These need to be talked about because they’re real and many people have them. Knowledge is power. Being educated about them keeps everyone safer. We talk about what does and doesn't belong within the scope of BDSM, how to tell the difference, and how to get help for your fantasies if needed.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Nothing makes a slave feel more owned than being marked. This can be done with a collar, a piercing, a tattoo, or even branding. Today we discuss marks of ownership Masters can give their property.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Slave positions give the slave clearly defined body language and behavior to use in most any situation. They also empower it to act on an established known standard, versus having to ask, or wonder what is expected of it.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The goal of slave voice training is to alter the slave’s speech into a pattern and inflection that the Master finds desirable and is befitting its position as slave. Slave learns how, when and where to speak and when to remain silent.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Formal slave punishment is used when there is a serious violation of the rules. It's punishment for a conscious misbehavior or a misbehavior that a reasonable slave would be expected to know.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Slave punishment focuses on bad behavior, intentional or not. Punishment is anything administered by the Master that is very uncomfortable to the slave for the purpose of changing behavior.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The major purpose of a slave contract is to define the goals and set standards expected of a slave and establish the responsibilities of the Master. A slave training contract reflects what is expected in the re-education of the slave.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Incorrect behavior on the part of a slave is always associated with incorrect thoughts or a lack of attention to correct behavior. Faulty thinking has to be recognized and challenged by the Master. Often a slave is unaware of these faulty cognitions until uncovered, discussed and challenged.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we talk about the role developing a positive self-image plays within slave training. A positive self-image occurs when a slave’s fundamental beliefs are to accept and enjoy the learned behaviors required to serve, obey and please its Master.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we look at the training of Emotions and Sensations. Emotions are a significant part of everyone’s inner lives. Past life experiences as well as current events create the slave's emotional reactions to slave training.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we look at the push/pull theory. It describes the internal struggle a slave goes through in the process of accepting changes during training.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we take a more detailed look at Operant Conditioning. Operant conditioning is mainly based on four concepts for dealing with proper and bad behavior.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The control of a slave should be extended beyond just the time and relationship with Master. Rules are established for the relationships a slave has with others and is often divided into categories such as rules for social, employment, family, and other slaves.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. In today's episode we talk about controlling slave's privacy. A slave has no place of seclusion from the Master and is always subject to observation. Any retreat or solitude a slave is granted as a privilege by the Master.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Controlling physical actions means the controlling the actual body of the slave. This involves the Master establishing ownership of the body movements of the slave. The control of its movements and actions is a significant part of the slave’s learning how to serve, obey, and please.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The area or space a slave is occupying should be controlled. In the early stages of slave training, control their space and where to be at all times. The term “Space” includes the “personal space” of a slave. A slave has no “personal space” that is separate from the Master. For a slave the term “personal space” no longer applies. It is all the “Master’s space.”…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. On today's episode we begin to talk about the actual training process. The goal of behavioral slave training is to establish behavior that is consistent and reflects its slavery. This is agreed to training by both parties for the purpose of becoming closer in a Master/slave relationship.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. You can also learn to erotic hypnotize through practicing self-hypnosis. We share a simple method that you can practice yourself.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Erotic hypnosis is a tool used to reduce inhibitions, eliminate shame and guilt, and increase arousal by surrendering to sexual pleasure. Today we talk about hypnosis as a tool for slave training.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. On today's episode we talk about combining Ivan Pavlov's classical conditioning and B.F. Skinner's operant conditioning together with Sadomasochism.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we look at the Master involved in slave training. The Dominant exercising dominance, will feed the submissive nature of the submissive.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. In this episode we talk about negotiations and vetting and their importance before entering into something as intense as slave training.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we look at the "who" is involved in slave training by looking at the submissive. We examine the conscious, subconscious, and unconscious that makes us a slave.…
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today we talk about slave ownership and some of the planning involved in developing a training program.
Essentially Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The process of Slave Training needs to be consensual and negotiated. The type of mental training within BDSM has to do with the practice of changing the way the individual thinks, perceives, or behaves, consciously, and subconsciously based on the will of another for the pleasure of both the submissive, and the Dominant.…
Today's Sex Magick exercise is the Cord-Cutting Ceremony. This practice can help you regain lost power by setting you free from unhealthy relationship patterns. By clearing old attachments, you create space to relate in the present moment.
Energetic sex is a Sex Magick exercise that can be a doorway to increased sexual chemistry and can expand pleasure and heighten awareness. It can also help integrate healthy masculine and feminine energies within.
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! If tease and denial interest you during Chastity, here are some fun SM games you can try.
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Today's podcast focuses on the role of a Keyholder within chastity play. We discuss orgasm control, tease and denial, and common methods of behavior modification.…
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Many people who enjoy the control of wearing a chastity belt or cage also enjoy having a clear set of rules and expectations to abide by. For this reason, many Keyholders choose to implement a chastity contract.…
The season is starting to change and mentions of pumpkin spice, Hocus Pocus and Halloween are floating through the air. It is one of our favorite seasons on the year. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Today's episode is a User Guide to buying, fitting, and wearing a Chastity Belt for bodies with a vulva.…
The season is starting to change and mentions of pumpkin spice, Hocus Pocus and Halloween are floating through the air. It is one of our favorite seasons on the year. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Today's episode is a User Guide to buying, fitting, and wearing a Chastity Cage for bodies with a penis.…
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Locktober is intended to be a fun challenge for everyone partaking in the world of chastity, just like the vast range of cages, there is no one style that suits everyone. That said, here are five basic principles we suggest you follow throughout the month.…
Today's Sex Magick exercise is Merging into Oneness. The intention of this practice is to experience union, dissolve the ego, and realize our divinity, while making love.
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! The month is supposed to be a challenge - but how used to long-term chastity wear are you really? If you’ve never done more than a couple of hours or never done an overnight being locked in a device, then there’s some training to do.…
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Before we jump right into chastity devices, let's talk about the mental stuff. Whether alone or with a partner, the act of Chastity is about Bondage and Discipline.…
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! You may have seen the mentions of Locktober across social media and wondered what it was all about? In this series we are sharing a wealth of information about having fun with chastity.…
Today's Sex Magick exercise is the Yoni Mudra. Yoni means “womb space” and mudra means “seal”; thus this is the yogic practice of returning to the state of mind experienced in the womb. Yoni mudra is often used to awaken the kundalini, bringing about higher states of consciousness.
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. Wax is one of the most common forms of kinky sexual activity. Though it's very popular, it's also how a lot of people get hurt. With wax play, you are essentially playing with fire! We talk about the risks involved and how to safely enjoy this type of BDSM play.…
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. On today's episode we talk about the various insertables available and how to safely use them in your BDSM play.…
When we come to terms with our death before we die, we can become more fully alive. This age-old shamanic practice produces a deep meditative state to cultivate witness consciousness and detach from the ego, body, and other illusions. Within Sex Magick this meditation helps you become more "present" and in the moment in sex and lovemaking.…
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. Today we talk about the different types of clamps available and the safety to consider with this type of BDSM play.…
This Sex Magick exercise is known to rejuvenate the body at the cellular level. Even the scientific community recommends sound healing for the treatment of various conditions and diseases. It has been proved to promote relaxation and pain relief and to release emotional blockages. More specifically, sound can activate the function and flow of both the physical and energetic sex center.…
You know, it’s an amusing thing, the stereotype: the thigh-high boots, the fishnet stockings, the corset, the riding crop, the smirking smile. But that’s how some people still think of the Dominant Woman. Likely as not, unless you’re one of her chosen, you’ll never know who is one and who is not. She rarely fits the stereotypes you imagine.…
We often hear people (usually men) claiming Dominant Women are rare. In our experience, this is not true. We encounter many women who would enjoy dominating men if they could find one who meets their needs. Being a Male submissive may not be what you think it is at all. There are very few men who understand what a Dominant woman is looking for, what she actually wants.…
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. Today we are discussing many of the different types of oils and ointments used during BDSM play. We also tell you the risks involved and how to safely use them.…
This exercise in our Sex Magick podcast series is a bit like a Kundalini working. This simple but powerful practice offers deep somatic benefits such as discharging stagnant energy, stimulating lymphatic circulation, reducing stress, releasing trauma, and increasing an overall sense of well-being. If you have PTSD or tend to dissociate, be extra mindful that this practice is done with a felt sense of the body and present awareness.…
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy being hit with that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. In this episode we talk about erotic spanking including the various positions, techniques, and sensations involved.…
Although this is specifically not a sexual practice or a place to pick up potential partners, it is very effective for opening erotic channels throughout your body that lead to greater embodied awareness. Ultimately, ecstatic dance will put you in touch with your humanity by getting you out of your head and into your heart. Keep moving. Push through your limitations and be curious about what is on the other side. Allow the energy to move through you.…
This next exercise in our Sex Magick series are simple but powerful techniques that can help you increase sexual mindfulness and decrease sexual anxiety. You’ll learn to shift from having a goal orientation in lovemaking to being in the moment. During all stages of sensate focusing, the focus is on sensations, and the exercise may be stopped or slowed down if either partner becomes anxious or orgasm focused.…
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy being hit with that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. There are all kinds of toys available to be used and each one gives a different sensation. In the episode we talk about paddles, crops, and straps. We discuss the different types, how they feel and how to use them. If you watch us on YouTube you can see items from our personal collection.…
Divination is the art of seeking hidden knowledge by the aid of supernatural powers. Sacred objects are used to gain answers to questions or to foretell the future. In this exercise, your eros is used as a divination tool in place of a crystal ball, dowsing rod, or tea leaves. You can practice with a partner or partners, as long as everyone is in the purest state of surrender and service before engaging in this work.…
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy being hit with that? For others, the idea is extremely exciting and they can't wait to try it. There are all kinds of toys available to be used and each one gives a different sensation. In the episode we talk about floggers, different types, how they feel and how to use them. If you watch us on YouTube you can see items from our personal collection.…
This practice promotes self-love and induces an extraordinary state of being so that you can enjoy longer-lasting lovemaking. This is not a genital-focused exercise but instead a whole-being experience. Self-pleasuring is different for everyone; there are as many variations on this practice as there are people.…
To gain a broader perspective, guidance, protection, and/or inspiration. This practice can radically accelerate your spiritual growth. The more you practice this, the more aware you become of the symbolic language of your spirit guides.
Beyond preconceived notions about sex and lovemaking, Latihan allows you to open to all of existence and feel the life-force energy flowing through your body. The more you practice this, the more you will be able to make love to the mystery.
Cultures all over the world have explored ways to use the power of Pain as a spiritual tool. Pain is an extremely intense pattern of energy, and it can be used either by the recipient or by the inflictor. In today's episode we talk about ways to use pain as a magickal ritual technique as well as the use of pain for pleasure within BDSM.…
In BDSM, Aftercare is the period of time after a scene in which partners attend to one another's physical, emotional, and psychological needs. When a magickal working, like other BDSM scenes, is complete spiritual aftercare is also important. It's a matter of respect for these forces that we work with as well as our responsibility as a good partner. In today's episode we talk about types of Aftercare as well as how to care for a partner if they are triggered in any way.…
It can be difficult even for those experienced in BDSM to verbalize articulately in the midst of an intense scene. Even the most articulate and poetic people go confused and non-verbal as part of a scene. In today's episode of our Sex Magick series we cover topics related to Communication during rituals and exercises. We give you several possible solutions for when communication goes wrong.…
All BDSM should be done using a safety motto such as RACK, an acronym meaning Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. In this episode of our Sex Magick series we look at aspects of safety to consider when joining BDSM with magickal practice. We deal with many topics such as fluiding bonding of ritual containers and practicing safety in your sacred space.…
In this episode we give a detailed overview of the Chakra System. While every tradition may not utilize this system, there is still much to absorb that will be useful when dealing with the type of energy work within Sex Magick. Beginning at the Root Chakra and moving up to the Crown Chakra we talk about their association to the body and what types of energies each chakra deals with. At the end of this episode we give you advice for where to start if Mastery of magickal practice is important to you beyond what we will learn about in this series. Buy Peter J. Carroll's Liber Null at https://amzn.to/3cvLpvH…
Before jumping into the practice of Sex Magick we wanted to lay the foundational groundwork of general magickal practice. Utilizing Penczak's "The Mystic Foundation" we define and introduce magick along with basic exercises in Energy Manipulation and Grounding. Buy the book at: https://amzn.to/3R7N2Pd…
In today's episode we look at the History of Sexual Magick. It has been used by mankind since the dawn of history. With the rise of Christianity, magick in general and sex magick in particular were initially discouraged, and ultimately banned in western culture. Today the stigma attached to sexuality is fading. Most sexual practices are at least tolerated, if not condoned in western society. We look at some key figures who shaped magick along the way.…
BDSM United's podcast series "Exercises in Sex Magick" teaches you how to do practical workings in sex magick. Borrowing from a diversity of mystic traditions, every episode helps you on whatever path you follow. Use your kinks to envoke personal mastery, prosperity, or a deeper connection with your partner... or connect with the universe and invoke the deities you choose! In this first episode we open up by answering some frequently asked questions.…
There are many kinds of lube but we want to focus on those that best meet the needs of most fetish play: Silicone, Water-Based, and Hybrid. We talk about each and some of the specific kinks associated with lube. And we give general advice for other types of lubes that are used for more specific kinks. BONUS: We wanted to give a little sneak peek into one of the workings from our upcoming series on Sex Magick, using lube as a magical tool. Anyone who is a kitchen witch should have lots of good fun with these recipes. For the rest of us, lube is also a fun tool to charge with our intentions... even if you don't mix it with anything! Here's a link to a lube brand I recommend: https://amzn.to/3ALZMoM Here's a link to cum lube: https://amzn.to/3pHGc6X…
Outside of BDSM, brattiness is typically viewed as a derogatory description of someone who is usually immature and certainly ill-mannered or insubordinate. So how did a derogatory term become a prominent kink within modern BDSM? And how do we view brattiness... better yet, how "should" we view brats and brattiness? In this special episode PrimalPiggy looks to our history to see where this kink comes from and then helps us see where it does and doesn't belong within BDSM.…
Klismaphilia is the fetish characterized by a powerful sexual gratification involving enemas. To some, the inclination towards enemas may be considered a normal part of cleaning out before anal bottoming, while for others it comes along with a variety of other fetishes. To a sadomasochist the sensation of pain or burning may be arousing. There may also be some fetish toward the amount of liquid one can hold in their rectum. Pleasure might be derived from the ability to hold it in for a long time, or from someone forcing them to retain the liquids. We talk about different ways to use enemas and the safety involved in using them for kinky play.…
Lactation fetish is where an individual is sexually aroused by drinking breast milk, watching a woman lactate, or having sex with a lactating woman. The sexual fetish can be enhanced by pregnancy, but many individuals also enjoy post-pregnancy lactation. Today we look at breast milk and how to handle it safely, as well as four kinds of adult-milking fetish practices. Goat Milking Machine useful for hucows https://amzn.to/3R2GC3n…
Sadism and Masochism were originally medical terms that designated aberrant sexual behaviors exhibited by individuals. Sadomasochism and fetishism became visible in the late nineteenth century because certain people were being aroused by things that did not fit the standard definition of “normal” sex. But what do those terms mean today? To answer that we look at four classes of modern Sadists. And then seven uses for Masochistic pain and how to separate what is pleasurable from what is harmful, as we wrap up our look at the SM from our BDSM acronym.…
Bondage and Discipline were primarily about the structure and practice of power exchange relationships. Today we begin looking at the SM of Sadism and Masochism within the BDSM acronym. We look to our history to define them and we learn about "scenes" within BDSM and the types of erotic play they include.…
As far as fetishism goes, getting turned on by sweat is objectively not weird. In fact, it’s one of the most common kinks out there! Endless streams of curated sweaty content featuring men and women basking in their favorite salty excretion. We talk about the fetish and many fun ways to do it, including used sweaty underwear! Today's episode is sponsored by Sofia Gray, use promo code PrimalPiggy for 10% off. Here's our affiliate link: www.sofiagray.com/?rel=605046…
"I draw my tongue back into my mouth, swallow the hint of street dust I’ve just licked off her boot, wet my lips so they will glide across the leather more smoothly, then lick her boot again, again, again"... From bootblacking to oral sex, Spit Play is an important part of our kink community! PrimalPiggy shares ten facts about saliva to help you see how Spit may fit into your kinky play.…
Many kinky people have an interest in using blood in sexual play. For some, the intimate connection between blood and intercourse is sexually stirring. The smell, sight, and texture of blood may be arousing, too. There are numerous fetishes that involve blood, such as cutting, knife play, needle play, and drinking it. Most of them are considered edge play, that is BDSM activities that are considered risky, or on the "edge" of what might be considered safe. Therefore we look at the many safety considerations as well as some of the fun ways to use blood in your kinky play!…
All sexual and kink activity comes with risks. That’s true regardless of whether you’re in a relationship, using barrier protection, or on birth control. Fluid bonding refers to the decision to stop using barrier protection during sex and exchange bodily fluids with your partner. Fluid bonding commonly refers to any secretions or fluids produced during sex. We talk about the reasons why you may decide to become fluid bonded and what you need in order to make an informed decision.…
Cum is a fluid that can be a lot of fun! And even though it is a part of a lot of the sex people have, often there's a lot we don't know about it. On today's podcast PrimalPiggy looks at ten facts about cum play to help us better understand the kink... to hopefully have a lot more fun making cum and playing with it!…
To pee or not to pee? That is today's question! If you're ready to make a real splash in your extracurricular activities, then urine the right place. There are several fun things about urine, varying from a simple arousal surrounding the thought or sight of urine, the primal connection and intimacy with a partner, or the degradation and humiliation of a BDSM scene. We look at them all and more on today's podcast.…
As we wrap up our look at the "D" for Discipline in our BDSM acronym, we need to consider correction and punishment. These are not just essential to dominance and obedience but also to growth. PrimalPiggy looks at both some uncommon and common forms of correction and punishment that help a submissive to want to and to try their best to be obedient. Bondage and Discipline made it into the acronym because they are important parts of our relationships.…
Depending on the type of power exchange relationship and the different persons involved in the relationship, rules, boundaries, and limits will look different. Primal Piggy helps define and distinguish the differences between the three and gives insight to the process of creating rules and forming a training program within BDSM. This is an important podcast you won't want to miss!…
One of the most important parts of all power exchange relationships is consistency. Even if we were to enjoy the adventure of exploring a new kink every night, for our relationship to function we still need the consistency of the Dominant being dominant and the submissive being submissive. It's also important for consistency to extend to actions. PrimalPiggy talks about one of the most powerful tools we have to maintain Discipline in power exchange relationships.…
Lots of popular BDSM resources use the word Switch to mean two totally different things. This was actually popularized by TNG because in very Traditional BDSM the identity of Switch did not exist. The identity of Switch is a person who has the potential to be the Dominant in one relationship dynamic and the submissive in another relationship dynamic. However, anyone who prefers to be the Top during some kinks and the bottom during other kinks in a scene is Versatile. PrimalPiggy helps you decipher the difference in today's podcast!…
An often forgotten part of Discipline is Service. Service plays at least a small part in most every relationship dynamic because most protocols involve some aspect of service. In the book "Real Service" Joshua Tenpenny offers four Rules of Service which we look at in today's podcast. Service often helps define and strengthen a power exchange. It is an important part of Discipline that more couples should be mindful about and look for ways to further integrate service-related protocols into their relationship.…
Protocol can look like a lot of different things but it present in every power exchange dynamic. Protocol is the repeatable, consistent actions that define Dominant and define submissive. Those defining actions may look as different as the Dominant and submissive involved in the relationship dynamic, yet most protocols will follow a similar structure.…
Coprophilia comes from two Greek words meaning "excrement fondness" and is the official name for the fetish involving sexual arousal and pleasure using poop. This fetish also sometimes called Scat play is often one of the fastest to land on a hard limit list although many people also often enjoy other kinks that come in close contact with feces. PrimalPiggy teaches about the reasons some enjoy the kink and some safe ways to do it.…
When most BDSM resources speak about Discipline they focus on punishments. Putting such a large emphasis on punishments instead of power exchange has caused a distortion. Discipline isn't a kink, it's the structure of power exchange relationships. Starting from the basic psychological and social building blocks of any society or culture our relationships include: Structure, Protocols/Rules, and Routines/Rituals. Cumulatively these three create the building blocks on which a system of Rewards/Benefits and Consequences/Punishments are derived. This is the what the "D" for Discipline within BDSM stands for.…
The "D" in our BDSM acronym is easily the most overlooked and misunderstood part of our acronym. Together with the mental and physical Bondage of controlling and being controlled, Discipline is the umbrella for all of the structure, etiquette, protocol, service, routine, ritual, training, correction, and punishment involved in power exchange relationships.…
We've covered a lot about the "B" in our BDSM acronym, saving Rope Bondage for last. There are a lot of general things to learn about safety, negotiations, and being risk-aware long before you even consider picking up a piece of rope (or letting someone tie you up). For those ready to explore Rope Bondage we share the 10 Benefits of Rope.…
While Bondage is a part of Power Exchange and a Kink, growing in Bondage is also a spiritual or sacred exercise that depends on one's will, consent, endurance, and purpose for using bondage. In this episode we look at Joseph Bean's essay on Sacred Bondage from the book Leatherfolk. We're not talking religion, rather using bondage to assist in the realization of one’s potential, and the development of one’s abilities.…
While Bondage made it into the acronym because of its association with power exchange, bondage is also a very popular kink. But how do you get started exploring the kink of Bondage? PrimalPiggy tells you how to get started and what to avoid when adding Bondage to your kinky playtime.
As we continue looking at Mental Bondage as part of the "B" in our BDSM acronym, you'll see that bondage exists in both service and in rest. Within a relationship dynamic, the submissive is always mentally bound to the Dominant. Bondage brings connection and keeps the submissive attentive to the commands of the Dominant.…
As we continue to look at the letters of our BDSM acronym, today we examine how mental bondage works within protocol. While we will continue to talk about the philosophy of bondage, you now get to see some of the ways bondage is practically applied within BDSM. When a Dominant gives any command of movement which the submissive obeys, you are practicing mental bondage.…
PrimalPiggy looks into Biblical Theology to see if we find BDSM within the pages of Christian Scripture. He looks at verses like Isaiah 53 and the Song of Solomon. He also briefly talks about Domestic Discipline and Consent. He ends with some advice about using the Bible to determine what you do with your life.…
BDSM has a covenant theology of it's own typically found in either a collar or a contract. There are blessings to be found for obedience to the Dominant and curses for subordination. BDSM's covenant theology looks a lot like The Satanic Bible. Your host PrimalPiggy isn't a Satanist but often his submissive wonders if he is the devil incarnate.…
Continuing to look at the "B" in BDSM we examine two viewpoints on Bondage and show how Protocol links Bondage to Power Exchange. Join us for another podcast in our BDSM Summer School series.
We are looking at the 4 letters of our BDSM acronym in this series. Currently we are looking at the "B" for Bondage and today we are looking at how Bondage is part of power exchange relationships.
During this summer series we look at the 4 letters of the BDSM acronym. Today we ask ourselves "Why Bondage?"
What are red flags and why do they make everyone I date look like they might be a serial killer? Primal Piggy discusses vetting potential and existing partners, what to look for and how to react to the red flags you find. Should you ask more questions? Or should you run for your life!?!?
In the world of risk-aware consensual kink, one risk many do not realize they are taking is that someone can not give consent to receive some BDSM play. Primal Piggy helps mitigate that risk by discussing the differences between BDSM play and actual Abuse.
What are the differences between BDSM Slavery and Human Trafficking, Forced Labor, and Bonded Labor? Within BDSM what makes Master/slave relationships ethical? Primal Piggy defines submission and slavery and shows how BDSM culture is safe, sane, and consensual towards persons on the right side of the slash.…
Within BDSM culture how do people get their Titles? What Title should I use? How do I know whose Title I can trust? Primal Piggy draws from BDSM Tradition to explain where Titles (Honorifics) came from and how some of that has changed within modern BDSM. He explains what different titles mean and how to address people within different levels of protocol.…
People who are curious about and exploring BDSM often have a thousand different Questions: Why should I consider BDSM? Is it safe? How do I meet people? How do I find a partner? Where do I even start? Primal Piggy looks at and answers some of the common FAQ on today's podcast.
Where do you begin if you know almost nothing about the erotic practices commonly called BDSM? In the episode Primal Piggy starts at the very beginning with the meaning of the name, its historical origins, and what BDSM looks like in erotic play scenes.
Forming the acronym BDSM was actually two worlds colliding together. There was originally BD and SM that merged in the late 90's... so where did the DS come from? Primal Piggy shows you that everything that makes up the DS is already included in the world of Bondage and Discipline.
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1:15:34Many people claim not to take it seriously, yet you'll find it almost everywhere! Primal Piggy does a deep dive into the "Test" that helped shape BDSM's The Next Generation and explains what went wrong and how we got here.
Primal Piggy offers some guidelines to consider when determining what punishment methods you may want to use in your relationship dynamic, when you should administer it, and how you may want to enforce it.
Tone and Manner of Speech, Eye Restrictions, and Body Posture are all used to emphasize the place of a submissive in comparison to the dominant. Primal Piggy talks about how we can use these subtle details to add flavor to our relationships.
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1:34:34Slave Training is teaching a submissive all the things they need to know in order to practice the most complicated, ritualistic, and service oriented relationship. Borrowed from the M/s dynamic, Primal Piggy looks at how we can all use the technique and psychology behind Slave Positions in our relationships.…
Polyamorous relationships take many forms and can include many different levels of intimacy. The possibilities are limited only by the needs and desires of the parties involved. PrimalPiggy talks about how to overcome the challenges of a poly lifestyle and how he has found success with being polyamorous.…
When you've been in the BDSM lifestyle for a while and you feel like you've tried everything, perhaps it's time to begin transitioning to the next level. Relationship Dynamics can be about more than just playing scenes, with a bit of self-discovery they can be about growth!
Many want a clearly defined social structure within their relationship dynamic with both rules and rituals to govern the way the relationship is practiced. Primal Piggy introduces you to High Protocol and helps determine if it is right for your relationship.
As BDSM practices grow in popularity, the role of the collar has also changed. Once almost exclusive to M/s: collars, protocols, and rituals are now found in other dynamics as well. Primal Piggy draws from the past yet gives you a modern perspective on using them in your relationship.
To the newcomer, Negotiations and Contracts can seem like a daunting task and are often glossed over in the lust of the moment. Primal Piggy simplifies the process and makes it easier for you to have a successful relationship.
The SM of BDSM is both nuanced and complex because none of us comes from a cookie-cutter mold. PrimalPiggy talks a little about the psychology involved in a way that makes the SM easy to understand.
When it comes to structure in BDSM relationships, there can be a lot of differences and similarities between the different types. Primal Piggy explores Power-Neutral, Power-Exchange, and Authority-Exchange relationship dynamics in an easy to learn way.
Red flags are behavioral warning signs that something is not quite right. While these warning flags apply equally to everyone, you probably have greater chance of finding some in BDSM because of the things we do, predators can hide more easily here.
A submissive, according to the Dictionary, is yielding, obedient, compliant. A good submissive is a good follower. I am sure these are all things that you have thought and seen in your own submissiveness. If you have not, then, perhaps it is time.
Simply put, a good Dominant is someone who possesses the very qualities we would ascribe to a “good person”: kindness, consideration, politeness. A good Dominant, like a “good person” has a strong sense of ethics and honesty and is respectful of others regardless of their position in life.
Listen to this podcast and "judge" for yourself, LOL! In this podcast, Primal Piggy talks about reasons why people don't like to judge others, why judgment is important to rational thought, and how judgment is good for the BDSM community. Find more resources at bdsmunited.com "One must not let oneself be misled: they say 'Judge not!' but they send to Hell everything that stands in their way." --Friedrich Nietzsche…
*We are not affiliated with Fetlife in any way . These are my opinions on successfully setting up a FetLife profile for the purposes of finding partners, vetting and being vetted. In this podcast Primal Piggy takes you through setting up your profile, adding photos, fetishes, and more information about yourself. He talks about how FetLife tracks your activity so that you can be vetted and begin vetting others. You can watch this episode on our Youtube channel. Find video info and additional resources at bdsmunited.com…
*We are not affiliated with Fetlife in any way. These are my opinions on successfully setting up a FetLife profile for the purposes of finding partners, vetting and being vetted. In this podcast Primal Piggy takes you through the very first sign-up screen and talks you through picking a gender, sexual orientation, and lifestyle role. You can watch this episode on our Youtube channel. Find video info and additional resources at bdsmunited.com…
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