Building Connection Through Chaos: Finding Community in Unexpected Places

The Devil You Don’t Know

#Society #Lindsay Oakes & Cleveland Oakes #Cleveland Oakes #Lindsay Oakes

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Artificial intelligence is evolving at an unprecedented pace—what does that mean for the future of technology, venture capital, business, and even our understanding of ourselves? Award-winning journalist and writer Anil Ananthaswamy joins us for our latest episode to discuss his latest book Why Machines Learn: The Elegant Math Behind Modern AI . Anil helps us explore the journey and many breakthroughs that have propelled machine learning from simple perceptrons to the sophisticated algorithms shaping today’s AI revolution, powering GPT and other models. The discussion aims to demystify some of the underlying math that powers modern machine learning to help everyone grasp this technology impacting our lives, even if your last math class was in high school. Anil walks us through the power of scaling laws, the shift from training to inference optimization, and the debate among AI’s pioneers about the road to AGI—should we be concerned, or are we still missing key pieces of the puzzle? The conversation also delves into AI’s philosophical implications—could understanding how machines learn help us better understand ourselves? And what challenges remain before AI systems can truly operate with agency? If you enjoy this episode, please subscribe and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform. Sign up for our newsletter at techsurgepodcast.com for exclusive insights and updates on upcoming TechSurge Live Summits. Links: Read Why Machines Learn, Anil’s latest book on the math behind AI https://www.amazon.com/Why-Machines-Learn-Elegant-Behind/dp/0593185749 Learn more about Anil Ananthaswamy’s work and writing https://anilananthaswamy.com/ Watch Anil Ananthaswamy’s TED Talk on AI and intelligence https://www.ted.com/speakers/anil_ananthaswamy Discover the MIT Knight Science Journalism Fellowship that shaped Anil’s AI research https://ksj.mit.edu/ Understand the Perceptron, the foundation of neural networks https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perceptron Read about the Perceptron Convergence Theorem and its significance https://www.nature.com/articles/323533a0…

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What happens when you blend the chaos of a kitchen flood with the warmth of a vegan Friendsgiving? Join us as we share our latest escapades, from Cleveland's ponderings of a PhD amidst his return to the office grind to Lindsay's unwavering resolve to steer clear of academia. Our Thanksgiving tales range from serene home-cooked vegan roasts to the bustling camaraderie of Friendsgiving, all while juggling Cleveland's quirky feats of knowledge and his hilarious domestic faux pas.
Have you ever wondered how finding your "sangha" could transform your life? We explore the profound impact of nurturing genuine connections and how communities rooted in shared values can counter feelings of isolation. With insights drawn from cultural touchstones like "Wicked" and anecdotes from engaging support groups, we emphasize the beauty of building authentic relationships. Whether it's a nod to therapy's healing power or the joy of shared interests, like veganism, our stories illustrate the essence of feeling truly seen and supported.
Please email us at Gettoknowthedevil@gmail.com

Разделы

1. Wicked and Arugula (00:00:00)

2. Holiday Preparations and Gift Mishaps (00:08:45)

3. Finding Connection in Modern Life (00:21:42)

4. Creating Supportive Communities for Healing (00:27:49)

5. Building Authentic Communities for Connection (00:36:54)

6. Building Authentic Communities for Connection (00:41:38)

7. Finding Your Sangha (00:47:36)

8. Finding and Creating Your Community (00:53:41)

9. Mindfulness and Love (00:56:42)

52 эпизодов

Building Connection Through Chaos: Finding Community in Unexpected Places

The Devil You Don’t Know

published год назад

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Разделы

1. Wicked and Arugula (00:00:00)

2. Holiday Preparations and Gift Mishaps (00:08:45)

3. Finding Connection in Modern Life (00:21:42)

4. Creating Supportive Communities for Healing (00:27:49)

5. Building Authentic Communities for Connection (00:36:54)

6. Building Authentic Communities for Connection (00:41:38)

7. Finding Your Sangha (00:47:36)

8. Finding and Creating Your Community (00:53:41)

9. Mindfulness and Love (00:56:42)

52 эпизодов

#Society #Lindsay Oakes & Cleveland Oakes #Cleveland Oakes #Lindsay Oakes

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