BHE 095 - ATTACHMENT TO DISCONNECT [Bermuda Edition PART I] - Courtney & Czander

Big Hormone Enneagram

This week Courtney and Czander are with us to attempt to uncover the mysteries of attachment to disconnect from the 3-6-9 Bermuda Triangle.

— (13:30) Courtney’s take on how the 3 is committed to remaining slippery and disconnected
— (17:02) 3’s maintain a disconnect by assuming people only want their palatable selves instead of their genuine selves
— (26:59) The 3’s attachments are a prop for how their original caregivers defined value
— (40:17) The crafted persona that the 3 presents will always be disconnected from the true self so the 3 never feels validated
— (43:49) The 6 remains slippery because they’re trying to garner support from contradictory attachments
— (48:34) 6s trying to garner support by being a hot mess and self-sabotaging to create a sense of disconnect
— (53:54) 6s garnering support via attachment to being the underdog that won’t win but won’t give up
— (56:16) The way 6s ensure they’re not supported is by never articulating what they want

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