40 // From WhatsApp to Soul Sisters: Pleasure Practice, Mantras, and Radical Transformation with Xala

ELLECHEMY // No Fluff. No Filters. Just Unapologetic Transformation.

This week, I had my Tulum soul sister, Xala, on the podcast, and it was pure fire. We went from a random Ladies of Tulum WhatsApp chat to beachside Human Garage events in less than 24 hours, and we’ve been inseparable ever since.

In this episode, we got raw and honest about transformation, which rips you apart and puts you back together in ways you didn’t see coming. We discussed our 2025 mantras, embracing pleasure as a practice, and the magic of living unapologetically. Xala and I didn’t hold back—there’s laughter, a little “did they just say that?” energy and plenty of truth bombs to light you up.

Oh, and I’m toasting to my bullshit radar being sharper than ever—dodging energy vampires and time-wasters like I’ve got Neo-level reflexes. Here’s to mastering the art of “not today, Satan, not today” and savoring every “hell yes” that lights me up.

But most of all, I’m celebrating myself—for showing up, owning every messy, glorious piece of my life, and living it loud, raw, and entirely on my terms. Cheers to that!

If you’re ready for a little inspiration, a lot of truth, and maybe a nudge to start rewriting your own story, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in.