208. Rewriting the Stories That Hold You Back: Shatter the Need for Confidence with Guest Angus Nelson

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Hey Family Brand! It’s Melissa here, and I couldn’t be more excited to introduce you to my guest, Angus Nelson. Angus is an executive coach who helps entrepreneurs and high achievers break through their blockers and become their best selves. In today’s episode, we dive into why confidence isn’t the secret to success—and why the journey to real self-belief starts with action, not achievements. If you’ve ever felt stuck, doubted yourself, or let fear hold you back, this conversation is for you.

Angus shares why many of us misunderstand confidence, treating it as something we need before taking action. He flips this idea on its head, explaining that confidence is always a result of doing, not a prerequisite. With humor and deep insight, Angus discusses how fear of failure and even fear of success are blockers that can paralyze us. By rethinking our stories and beliefs, we can take the first step toward growth—without waiting to feel “ready.”

We also explore how these concepts apply to family life and relationships. Angus opens up about his own journey of personal transformation, including lessons from his role as a parent and his career as an entrepreneur. His vulnerability and wisdom remind us that building resilience, courage, and self-permission can transform not just our professional lives but our family dynamics as well.

Angus also shares an incredible story of moving his family to Portugal, embracing resistance, and finding courage through big life changes. His takeaway? Resistance isn’t a sign to quit; it’s an opportunity to grow stronger and prove to yourself what you’re capable of.

Lastly, Angus gives us a sneak peek into his upcoming book, Confidence Comes Later. He reveals why chasing confidence keeps us stuck and how shifting our mindset can unlock incredible potential. It’s a must-read for anyone ready to shatter limiting beliefs and step into the life they were meant to live.

LINKS:

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Links For This Episode:

• Book: https://www.angusnelson.com/book
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angusnelson

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 0:00 – Meet Angus Nelson: Executive Coach and Author
• 2:00 – Why Confidence Isn’t What You Think It Is
• 5:00 – Breaking Down the Biggest Blockers: Fear of Failure and Success
• 10:00 – Why Resistance Is an Opportunity for Growth
• 15:00 – Redefining Confidence Through Action
• 20:00 – Angus’ Personal Transformation and Lessons from Family Life
• 27:00 – Moving to Portugal: The Courage to Follow Your Dreams
• 31:00 – How to Connect with Angus and Learn More About His Work