72: Resentment is Killing You, Not Them

Let's Get Uncomfy

Welcome back fam! I am so grateful you are here with me on this wonderful Thursday! Today I wanted to share something a little more personal that came from a quote that I just wanted to share with you all. The quote is “I don’t care how justified you feel in holding a resentment, it’s a dumb game, it’s like throwing dust in the wind. Who do you think that dust is going to come back too?”

Ooof! When I read this I like YES. This is what I needed to hear right now and what needs to be shared, because believe me the universe has the perfect response to whatever that person may have done to you. You do not need to oversee that something comes to that other person from their actions. And guess what? That resentment that you hold, it’s not affecting them, it's affecting you, it's affecting your attitude, it's affecting the way you look at your life, it's affecting the way you look at yourself.

Hence, this energy is becoming your life. We are only here for a finite amount of time, so why are you spending it resenting someone when you can choose love. You can choose to have a big heart and set boundaries, and still do what is right for you. So if you are someone who wishes ill on people who caused you harm. This episode is for you.

I encourage you to dig deep and get to the root of your resentment.

Uncomfy moments to tune in for:

(2:00) Why resentment should not even be on your radar.

(4:11) What to do if you are holding resentment.

(6:45) How to keep giving love and wish people the best, set your boundary, walk away.

(13:22) Who are you angry at? What emotions are holding you back from wishing people well?

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Annie Graft is the CEO of Fit Life Fit Me, she has a passion for fitness, health, and personal growth. Annie found her love of fitness through her career in the Air Force and gymnastics. Her mission is to stand for more than just fitness or workouts because life is much more than abs! She wants YOU to find what sets your heart on fire and pursue that! Your life is in YOUR hands, so get up and go after your dreams!

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