029: Sex & Marriage: Debunking The African Perspective - W/ Lola Bade-Aluko [PART 1]
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- I introduce the topic and guest for today’s episode
[03:56 – 19:46] Defining Healthy Sex In Marriage
- Lawler shares the steps to having a healthy sex life in your marriage.
[19:46 – 43:05] Spicing Your Sex Life In Marriage
- We talk more about how to spice your sex life in a marriage
- Why our people are typically conservative and not sexually innovative
- Addressing the idea of taking each other for granted, even sexually
- How to introduce new things into your marital sex life
[43:05 – 57:33] Discussing Some Common Sex Problems
- Lawler shares some deep advice on certain points raised
- Marriage shouldn't be all about sex
- Building a strong emotional connection in marriage
- Lawler addresses the historical aspect of intimacy in marriage through the years - to be continued in Part 2.
Tweetable Quotes:
“What has worked for me is - I look at my marriage as a relationship so I put in the same energy I will put in a relationship into my marriage.” – Lola Bade-Aluko
"I feel like most people are hiding behind Christianity to deny their partners and themselves the chance to explore sexually in their marriages." – Lola Bade-Aluko
"We need to build a strong emotional connection with our partners where we can sit, hold hands and talk, cuddle, be silent, and play with our partners because it shouldn't be always about sex." – Lola Bade-Aluko
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