Moving Beyond Traditional Lending: Jay Conner’s Private Money Approach in Real Estate

Raising Private Money with Jay Conner

***Guest Appearance

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https://www.youtube.com/@bradleysugars

"Following Your Purpose: How Jay Conner Discovered the Opportunity of Private Lenders in Real Estate"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJPJqgxDZME

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Raising Private Money podcast! Today, Jay Conner had an insightful conversation with Brad Sugars on his The Big Success podcast!

From a young age, Jay Conner knew his true calling was to teach. Fast forward to 2011, and this dream came to fruition when he began coaching real estate investors, a mission driven not just by financial outcomes, but by a burning desire to positively impact others. Jay’s definition of success transcends wealth; it’s deeply rooted in passion and purpose. By emphasizing the importance of making a difference, Jay aims to inspire others to seek a higher purpose beyond financial gains. This ethos has shaped his approach to teaching and mentoring, making a significant impression on the real estate community.

Success Defined: Passion and Purpose Beyond Profits

Jay Conner’s definition of success moves beyond the simplistic idea of wealth accumulation. To him, success encompasses pursuing one's passions and making a meaningful impact on the lives of others. This philosophy is reflected in his work, where he combines his real estate expertise with a deep commitment to mentoring and teaching. For Jay, true success involves helping others realize their potential and find their paths to fulfillment. This is the hallmark of his career as an educator and real estate coach.

Influential Beginnings: Lessons from the Family Business

Growing up in an environment of success, particularly observing his father's business endeavors, had a profound impact on Jay. At the age of 12, he was already immersed in a setting that emphasized the importance of surrounding oneself with successful individuals—a notion famously underscored by motivational speaker Jim Rohn. These early experiences laid a strong foundation for Jay’s entrepreneurial journey, where he saw firsthand the value of mentorship and networking in achieving success.

Transformation and Lifelong Learning

A pivotal moment in Jay's life came at the age of 24 when dissatisfaction with his lifestyle spurred a transformation. Fueled by Og Mandino's "University of Success," Jay embarked on a path of continuous learning and self-improvement. This book not only helped him shift his mindset but also ignited a lifelong passion for personal development. Since then, he has avidly consumed self-help books and autobiographies, continually learning from those who have achieved success. This commitment to growth and learning has been a cornerstone of his personal and professional life.

The Power of Goals and Planning

One of the critical insights Jay shares is the importance of setting and regularly reviewing goals. By updating them every four months, he ensures they are aligned with current opportunities and challenges. Jay's approach to short-term planning reflects his understanding of the unpredictable nature of life and business. This pragmatism is also shared by fellow podcaster, Ryan Pineda, who avoids scheduling appointments more than 30 days in advance. Both emphasize the necessity of flexibility and adaptability in achieving long-term success.

Embracing Failure as a Learning Opportunity

Jay Conner's perspective on failure is deeply influenced by David Meltzer's philosophy of viewing failures as lessons rather than mistakes. He recounts stories from his real estate career where setbacks became opportunities for growth and improvement. By treating challenges as opportunities to rethink and refine his approaches, J