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Needism—The More Repressed We Are, the More Narcissistic We Behave
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In this episode, Scott calls narcissism "needism" to help reduce the stigma surrounding the subject. He emphasizes that we all have narcissistic tendencies, even if some exhibit more extreme, diagnosable forms. By owning the mechanisms of emotional repression that create a sense of falseness in our lives, we can begin to recognize that we are often operating on unmet childhood needs, particularly the need for love and safety. These needs drive us in relationships and on social media. Unfortunately, many people do not process their own repression before trying to help others, which can lead to codependency in both personal relationships and social media interactions.
The need for connection, coming from the disconnection in our bodies, can spiral out of control when we do not do our own work. Need is essentially a separation from ourselves, which leads to seeking needs to get met by others. Until we do our own transformative work, we are operating from disconnection and needing. The insidious thing about it is that we will deny it because these needs and the emotions connected to them are buried. This is a call to action for everyone to engage in the inner work necessary for transformation, as it can ultimately transform the entire earth. The issues we face, whether they be greed, crime, drugs, divorce, or narcissism on social media, stem from basic human needs that we have buried. By uncovering these needs, we hold the key to our ultimate freedom.
To work directly with Scott, come talk to him about his 90-day intensive program by visiting: https://kiloby.com/scott.
Please read Scott's blog on Medium titled, Needism: The More Repressed We Are, the More Narcissistic We Behave: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d
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Manage episode 463619251 series 3541871
In this episode, Scott calls narcissism "needism" to help reduce the stigma surrounding the subject. He emphasizes that we all have narcissistic tendencies, even if some exhibit more extreme, diagnosable forms. By owning the mechanisms of emotional repression that create a sense of falseness in our lives, we can begin to recognize that we are often operating on unmet childhood needs, particularly the need for love and safety. These needs drive us in relationships and on social media. Unfortunately, many people do not process their own repression before trying to help others, which can lead to codependency in both personal relationships and social media interactions.
The need for connection, coming from the disconnection in our bodies, can spiral out of control when we do not do our own work. Need is essentially a separation from ourselves, which leads to seeking needs to get met by others. Until we do our own transformative work, we are operating from disconnection and needing. The insidious thing about it is that we will deny it because these needs and the emotions connected to them are buried. This is a call to action for everyone to engage in the inner work necessary for transformation, as it can ultimately transform the entire earth. The issues we face, whether they be greed, crime, drugs, divorce, or narcissism on social media, stem from basic human needs that we have buried. By uncovering these needs, we hold the key to our ultimate freedom.
To work directly with Scott, come talk to him about his 90-day intensive program by visiting: https://kiloby.com/scott.
Please read Scott's blog on Medium titled, Needism: The More Repressed We Are, the More Narcissistic We Behave: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d
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