Episode 2: How to stop feeling like an imposter at work
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Today Sarah dives into the common but often unspoken experience of imposter feelings at work. If you've ever felt like a fraud or doubted your achievements, you're not alone—and this episode will help you kickstart the process of overcoming those thoughts.
Episode Show Notes:
[00:00] Introduction
Meet your host, Sarah Archer, leadership coach and career strategist.
Overview of the episode: imposter feelings and their impact.
[01:15] What Are Imposter Feelings?
Statistics: 70% of adults experience imposter feelings at some point.
Triggering situations: new roles, promotions, or stepping out of comfort zones.
[04:20] The Disconnect Between Perception and Reality
Telltale signs of imposter feelings: doubting accomplishments and fearing exposure.
The role of internalized rules and harsh self-judgment.
[07:00] Roots of Imposter Feelings
Potential origins: childhood, early career experiences, or authority fears.
Sarah shares her personal story of overcoming imposter feelings.
[10:10] The Brain’s Coping Mechanisms
Strategies like perfectionism, avoidance, and overworking to manage feelings of exposure.
The exhausting impact on confidence, career growth, and mental energy.
[13:00] Breaking the Pattern
Understanding imposter feelings as a psychological pattern, not a permanent state.
Levels of change: environment, capabilities, beliefs, and identity.
[15:30] Real-Life Transformation: Sally’s Story
A client’s journey from imposter feelings to confidence in a new leadership role.
The importance of embedding new thinking patterns.
[17:30] Actionable Strategy: Identify and Reframe Your Rules
Unearthing unhelpful rules with prompts:
- “If I were really smart, I would…”
- “I know I’ll be competent when…”
- “I should always…”
Reframing rules as if advising a friend.
[18:50] Final Thoughts and Next Steps
Take time to identify unconscious rules and seek support if needed.
Resources and coaching opportunities available on Sarah’s website.
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