Ep. 166 - Is Arguing Bad In Marriage?

The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast

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Is arguing in marriage a sign of trouble—or can it actually be healthy? In this episode, we’re unpacking the difference between healthy and unhealthy conflict. If arguing simply means disagreeing, then no, it’s not bad! In fact, it’s a normal and necessary part of a strong relationship. But if your disagreements are filled with blame, criticism, and judgment—leading to more disconnection than resolution—then yes, arguing can be harmful.
Tune in to learn:
✅ The key differences between healthy and unhealthy arguing
✅ Signs your disagreements are strengthening or straining your marriage
✅ Simple shifts to make conflict more productive and less damaging
By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on disagreements and practical tips to navigate them in a way that brings you and your spouse closer together
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