Five Regrets of a Former Pastor's Wife (77)

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The War and Treaty’s Michael and Tanya Trotter grew up in Cleveland, Ohio, and Washington, DC, respectively, but both have family roots in the South. They also grew up in the musical traditions of their churches – Tanya in the Black Baptist Church and Michael in the Seventh Day Adventist Church – where they learned the power of song to move people. After becoming a father at a very young age, Michael eventually joined the armed forces and served in Iraq and Germany, where he took up songwriting as a way of dealing with his experiences there. Meanwhile Tanya embarked on a singing and acting career after a breakthrough appearance in Sister Act 2 alongside Whoopi Goldberg and Lauryn Hill. Now, after a long and sometimes traumatic journey, Michael and Tanya are married, touring, winning all sorts of awards, and set to release their fifth album together, and their fourth as The War and Treaty. Sid talks to Michael and Tanya about the new record, Plus One , as well as their collaboration with Miranda Lambert, what it was like to record at FAME studios in Muscle Shoals, and how they’re blending country, soul, gospel, and R&B. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

2 года назад 34:39

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My wife Susan joins me in this episode to talk about five regrets of a former pastor's wife. These speak to the damage done as a direct result of having spent years in institutional church leadership. Grab your favorite beverage, pull up a chair, and listen in.
Here they are in the order we talked about them:

Being Silent and Not Speaking Up
How Much it Cost Me and My Family
Driven to Being Liked and Accepted
Compliance to Misogyny and Patriarchy
Stuffing My Anger

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Five Regrets of a Former Pastor's Wife (77)

The UnSunday Show

published 2 года назад

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Being Silent and Not Speaking Up
How Much it Cost Me and My Family
Driven to Being Liked and Accepted
Compliance to Misogyny and Patriarchy
Stuffing My Anger

102 эпизодов

#Religion #Christianity #History #Mike Adams #UnSunday #Church #Pastor #Done #UnChurched #Dechurched

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