Body Count - Why the f%3k does it matter...but only when it comes to women?

Women In Real Life

In this episode, we're venturing into the nuanced world of 'body count' and its cultural and personal implications, a topic that resonates deeply within the vibrant backdrop of the Caribbean and beyond. As we unpack the layers of sexual history, we explore how society at large perceives and judges individuals based on this aspect. Our conversation is enriched by the unique expressions and phrases from our Caribbean region, and we're eager to hear from you about any terms that spark your interest or curiosity.

Joining CJ, is Mr. Fox, a friend whose insights into human dynamics offer a wealth of knowledge and perspective, especially on the differing societal treatment and attitudes toward men and women regarding 'body count.' This episode is more than just a discussion; it's a deep dive into understanding the stark contrasts in societal expectations and judgments faced by men and women when it comes to their sexual pasts.

We tackle the tough questions and shed light on why the number of sexual partners a person has had continues to be a contentious and divisive issue. This episode is taken from the Women in Real Life Radio Show which airs every Saturday on Rhythm 95.5 FM.

During this episode, you will learn about;

[00:42] Episode introduction

[01:02] Introduction of an article written about body count and how women are misrepresented on the topic.

[04:45] Comments from the article on why body count matters to women as compared to men

[06:10] Introduction of today's guest Mr. Fox's bio and his opinion on the topic of body count and why it is important when it comes to women.

[08:24] Reading a few headlines to Mr. Fox of celebrities and their body count

[10:35] What is body count, and how it matters to women

[12:10] Male celebrities in sports and their accomplishments in sleeping with numerous women

[13:07] Body count is an irrelevant issue, according to Mr. Fox

[13:54] You do not know the real body count of a person and rely on assumptions only

[16:28] Concern by some men on body count is the level of insecurity

[16:50] Another element of male Concern on body count is the moral compass

[18:02] Women are involved with men not because they are in love with them, but because society is so messed up that they are with them to pay their rent, bills or have a child together

[19:21] The Issue of body count has deeper systemic, cultural, and religious connections

[21:57] How society views a man who is with a so-called promiscuous woman

[22:11] A man wants a woman who is similar to their mom based on qualities and women want men similar to their fathers, the cycle continues

[23:55] Women always have a desire to nurture and fix what is not good and make it better

[28:28] Everybody has a perspective of someone they think they know in their life, but they are not who they think they are.

[30:50] Women lie about their body count

[32:05] Women are sexually engaged with someone they are emotional about

[33:43] Thanking Mr. Fox for participating in this episode of body count and close.

NOTABLE QUOTES Headline on body count is skewed when it comes to gender of the person [9:47]

· The Conquests of Magic Johnson [12:18]

· Famously sleeping with over 20,000 persons, let's do the math [12:37]

· "Alot of people have a moral compass, which does not apply to me," Mr. Fox [14:20]

· Considered a man's man, Fox gives insight [15:00]

· Measuring up which physical and mental which is essential in connecting to your partner[16:32]

· I want a man who is untouched and unused or maybe I want someone who is coming to me with experience [20:16]

· Women have a desire to be fixer-uppers and nurturers [23:57]

· You see women bashing men on Tik Tok and Instagram, but what they are really bashing are they choices they have made[25:12]

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Gah-lis - A man's man, Casanova and Stud [25:56] · Women lie about their body count because they don't remember people who do not matter to them[31:07]