Episode 12: He Wants It All: Is Marriage Your Idol?

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In life, it's easy to become attached to things, relationships, or outcomes that we hold dear. While desiring success, love, or stability isn't wrong, it's important to remember these are gifts from God, not sources of fulfillment. When placed above Him, they can become idols, distracting us from the peace and purpose only God provides.

In this episode of Your nEXt Chapter, I explore the concept of idolatry and how things like marriage can sometimes take priority over our relationship with God. I share how my own marriage became an idol and discuss how idols can show up in different forms, from relationships to achievements. Tune in to learn how shifting our focus back to God can restore balance and realign our priorities.

Song of the week: He Wants It All by Forever Jones

Topics Covered:
(00:00:00) Episode Snippet
(00:00:25) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:02:57) He Wants It All
(00:04:19) The definition of idol
(00:08:09) When my marriage became my idol
(00:10:25) Stuck in dead marriage
(00:13:35) How God carefully prepared me
(00:17:44) Idolatry is sneaky
(00:20:39) Obsession because of fear
(00:22:38) Who and what are the idols in your life?
(00:25:46) Re-examine your life
(00:27:05) 3 questions to ask if your relationship has become your idol
(00:30:29) Being unequally yoked
(00:34:18) How God uses it all for good
(00:37:00) God is first
(00:39:08) Join our community!

Key Takeaways:

"Idolatry is something that I believe goes way beyond a spiritual doctrine or a religious denomination."

"Obsession with achieving a certain outcome, even a holy one, eventually becomes an idol."

"To have an attachment to a person or a thing or an outcome that supersedes your faith in your trust in God, that is idolatry."

"God is using every single thing that I went through for His good, for His kingdom, and for my good, and for your good."

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Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!

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Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future, and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.