Mastering the Mirror Effect: Transform Client Interactions

P&C Maverick: Unconventional Wisdom For Quantum Growth

Craig Pretzinger
The Insurance Dudes

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In this episode, we delve into the concept of being "qualified" in the workplace, examining who gets labeled as such, who doesn't, and the underlying reasons. We explore "competency checking"—the practice of scrutinizing individuals' abilities—and how it disproportionately affects underrepresented groups, often going unnoticed or unchallenged. Our discussion aims to redefine qualifications in a fair, equitable, and actionable manner. Our guest, Shari Dunn , is an accomplished journalist, former attorney, news anchor, CEO, university professor, and sought-after speaker. She has been recognized as Executive of the Year and a Woman of Influence, with her work appearing in Fortune Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, Ad Age, and more. Her new book, Qualified: How Competency Checking and Race Collide at Work , unpacks what it truly means to be deserving and capable—and why systemic barriers, not personal deficits, are often the real problem. Her insights challenge the narratives that hold so many of us back and offer practical solutions for building a more equitable future. Together, we can build workplaces and communities that don’t just reflect the world we live in, but the one we want to create. A world where being qualified is about recognizing the talent and potential that’s been overlooked for far too long. It’s not just about getting a seat at the table—it’s about building an entirely new table, one designed with space for all of us. Connect with Our Guest Shari Dunn Website& Book - Qualified: https://thesharidunn.com LI: https://www.linkedin.com/today/author/sharidunn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesharidunn Related Podcast Episodes: How To Build Emotionally Mature Leaders with Dr. Christie Smith | 272 Holding It Together: Women As America's Safety Net with Jessica Calarco | 215 How To Defy Expectations with Dr. Sunita Sah | 271 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music…

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In this episode, we delve into Law 44: Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect. Discover how reflecting your clients’ behaviors and emotions can build stronger connections and turn even the toughest meetings into success stories.

Key Takeaways:

Emotional Echoes:
- Mirroring Mike vs. Angry Andy: Learn from Mike, a newbie agent who successfully used the mirror effect to turn an infuriated client into a satisfied policyholder. By matching Andy’s tone, pace, and emotional state, Mike disarmed the tension and built rapport, resulting in a successful policy upgrade.
Practical Strategies:
- Emotion Echoes: Match your client's emotional state within reason. If they're excited, amp up your energy. If they're concerned, adopt a more serious tone.
- Language Learner: Pay attention to your client's specific words and phrases. Mirroring their language can create a subconscious connection.
- Posture Copycat: Subtly mirror your client's body language. If they lean in, you lean in. If they sit back, you sit back—just don’t overdo it.
- Pace Pacer: Match your speaking pace to your client’s. If they’re quick and energetic, pick up your pace. If they’re slow and thoughtful, take your time.
- Value Validator: Reflect your client's core values and concerns in your proposals. Show them you're not just listening, but truly understanding.

The mirror effect isn’t about manipulation. It’s about creating genuine connections for more effective communication. In the world of insurance, sometimes the best way to stand out is by showing your client their own reflection. Master this art, and you’ll not just sell policies, but build lasting relationships.

Tune in now and learn how to become a brilliant insurance chameleon!

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Mastering the Mirror Effect: Transform Client Interactions

P&C Maverick: Unconventional Wisdom For Quantum Growth

published год назад

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Key Takeaways:

Emotional Echoes:
- Mirroring Mike vs. Angry Andy: Learn from Mike, a newbie agent who successfully used the mirror effect to turn an infuriated client into a satisfied policyholder. By matching Andy’s tone, pace, and emotional state, Mike disarmed the tension and built rapport, resulting in a successful policy upgrade.
Practical Strategies:
- Emotion Echoes: Match your client's emotional state within reason. If they're excited, amp up your energy. If they're concerned, adopt a more serious tone.
- Language Learner: Pay attention to your client's specific words and phrases. Mirroring their language can create a subconscious connection.
- Posture Copycat: Subtly mirror your client's body language. If they lean in, you lean in. If they sit back, you sit back—just don’t overdo it.
- Pace Pacer: Match your speaking pace to your client’s. If they’re quick and energetic, pick up your pace. If they’re slow and thoughtful, take your time.
- Value Validator: Reflect your client's core values and concerns in your proposals. Show them you're not just listening, but truly understanding.

Tune in now and learn how to become a brilliant insurance chameleon!

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Craig Pretzinger
The Insurance Dudes

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The Mirror Effect: Transform Client Interactions 3:46

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Send us a text In this episode, we delve into Law 44: Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect. Discover how reflecting your clients’ behaviors and emotions can build stronger connections and turn even the toughest meetings into success stories. Key Takeaways: Emotional Echoes : Mirroring Mike vs. Angry Andy : Learn from Mike, a newbie agent who successfully used the mirror effect to turn an infuriated client into a satisfied policyholder. By matching Andy’s tone, pace, and emotional state, Mike disarmed the tension and built rapport, resulting in a successful policy upgrade. Practical Strategies : Emotion Echoes : Match your client's emotional state within reason. If they're excited, amp up your energy. If they're concerned, adopt a more serious tone. Language Learner : Pay attention to your client's specific words and phrases. Mirroring their language can create a subconscious connection. Posture Copycat : Subtly mirror your client's body language. If they lean in, you lean in. If they sit back, you sit back—just don’t overdo it. Pace Pacer : Match your speaking pace to your client’s. If they’re quick and energetic, pick up your pace. If they’re slow and thoughtful, take your time. Value Validator : Reflect your client's core values and concerns in your proposals. Show them you're not just listening, but truly understanding. The mirror effect isn’t about manipulation. It’s about creating genuine connections for more effective communication. In the world of insurance, sometimes the best way to stand out is by showing your client their own reflection. Master this art, and you’ll not just sell policies, but build lasting relationships. Tune in now and learn how to become a brilliant insurance chameleon! Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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Connecting Emotionally with Clients 3:03

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Send us a text Today, we're exploring Law 43: Work on the Hearts and Minds of Others. Discover why in our industry, logic might attract clients, but it's emotion that keeps them loyal. Dive into the art of connecting on a deeper level and see how empathy can transform your client relationships. Key Takeaways: Emotional Connection : Logical Larry vs. Empathetic Emma : Learn from two brilliant agents with contrasting approaches. Larry’s fact-based strategy had mediocre results, while Emma’s focus on understanding her clients’ fears and dreams turned her clients into lifelong advocates. Practical Strategies : The Story Collector : Gather and share real-life stories of how insurance has made a difference. Genuine tales touch hearts and build trust. The Fear Whisperer : Address your clients' unspoken fears. Often, what they’re really buying is peace of mind. The Dream Defender : Position insurance as a tool for protecting and achieving dreams. Highlight the personal value behind policies. The Empathy Exerciser : Put yourself in your clients' shoes. Understand their worries and aspirations, and speak to those, not just policy details. The Trust Builder : Build genuine relationships. People buy from those they trust, so focus on connection over closing deals. Remember, in the world of insurance, we’re not just protecting assets; we’re safeguarding hopes, dreams, and peace of mind. Master the art of touching hearts while informing minds, and you'll create a loyal tribe of clients. Tune in now and start infusing emotional intelligence into your insurance practices! Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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Send us a text Let's explore Law 42: Strike the Shepherd and the Sheep Will Scatter. Discover why tackling the biggest issues can solve numerous smaller problems and lead to transformative change in your insurance agency. Key Takeaways: Address Core Issues : Learn from Tactical Tina, who realized that her agency’s numerous small problems stemmed from one major issue—a clunky management system. By addressing this core issue, she resolved the smaller problems and improved overall efficiency. Practical Strategies : The Problem Genealogist : Trace issues back to their roots. Identify whether multiple complaints or problems stem from a single underlying cause. The Sacred Cow-Tipper : Challenge long-standing practices or systems if they are the source of ongoing issues. Don't be afraid to make necessary changes. The Domino Strategist : Seek solutions that create positive ripple effects across various areas of your business. A single strategic change can have widespread benefits. The Courageous Confronter : Tackle big, intimidating problems head-on. Addressing these major issues can eliminate numerous smaller headaches. The Shepherd Spotter : Identify key influencers or systems within your organization. Improving these critical areas can lead to significant overall improvements. Ready to tackle your agency’s biggest challenges? Tune in to learn how addressing core issues can lead to transformative change. Remember, in the insurance world, the bravest actions often yield the greatest rewards. Listen now and start transforming your flock! Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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Why Filling Big Shoes Can Hurt Your Insurance Career 6:07

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Send us a text Today, we dive into Law 41: Avoid Stepping Into a Great Man's Shoes. Discover why trying to fill someone else's shoes might leave you with blisters and how to carve your own path in the insurance world. Key Takeaways: Embrace Your Unique Path : Learn from the story of Successor Sam, who struggled to replicate his predecessor's style, leading to dissatisfaction and declining performance. True success comes from forging your own path, not mimicking others. Practical Strategies : The Legacy Learner : Understand what made your predecessor great by focusing on the principles behind their actions, not just the actions themselves. The Expectation Reset : Be upfront about your different approach when taking over from a legend. Communicate your new ideas while respecting the legacy. The Strength Spotter : Identify and leverage your unique talents instead of trying to mimic your predecessor’s strengths. The Tradition Tweaker : Respect established traditions but don’t hesitate to put your own spin on them. Personalize practices to reflect your style. The Gap Filler : Look for areas your predecessor might have overlooked or didn’t have time to develop. This is your chance to shine and make a difference. Ready to lace up and take charge? Tune in to learn how to avoid the pitfalls of trying to fill big shoes and instead, create your own successful footprint. Remember, in the insurance world, being authentically you is always better than being a second-rate version of someone else. Listen now and start making your own trailblazing strides! Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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The Hidden Costs of Freebies in Insurance 5:25

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Send us a text Today, we delve into Law 40: Despise the Free Lunch. Discover why the seemingly sweetest deals in insurance can leave a bitter aftertaste and learn to navigate the hidden costs of freebies. Key Takeaways: Understand the Hidden Costs : Learn from Freebie Freddy’s cautionary tale about accepting free offers that seemed great initially but led to significant long-term problems. Practical Strategies : The Gift Appraiser : Always assess the true cost of free offers, including potential impacts on your independence and integrity. The String Detective : Look for hidden strings attached to free offers, such as automatic renewals or data sharing clauses. The Value Validator : Evaluate whether a paid service might offer more long-term value than a free one. The Quid Pro Quo Questioner : Consider what might be expected in return for free offers, even if it’s not explicitly stated. The Independence Insurer : Invest in your own tools, education, and networking to maintain decision-making independence. Savvy Decision-Making : Hear how Savvy Sarah avoided the pitfalls of free software by carefully evaluating its true costs and choosing a paid alternative that better fit her needs and values. Ready to feast on wisdom and avoid the pitfalls of seemingly free offers? Tune in to learn how to protect your integrity and serve your clients effectively by being discerning about freebies. In the grand buffet of the insurance world, the most satisfying meal is the one you’ve earned yourself. Listen now and feast responsibly, you brilliant independent thinkers! Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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Send us a text Today, we're diving into Law 39: Stir Up Waters to Catch Fish. Discover how to create productive chaos to engage clients and spark conversations in the insurance world. Key Takeaways: Productive Chaos : Learn from Disruptor Dan’s story about turning a sleepy insurance office into the talk of the town with strategic controversy and engagement tactics. Practical Strategies : Controversial Content Creator : Start a blog or podcast tackling taboo insurance topics to grab attention. Devil’s Advocate Agent : Challenge long-held assumptions in team meetings to spark new ideas. Scenario Star : Create outlandish risk scenarios to get clients thinking differently about risk. Trend Troublemaker : Extrapolate emerging trends to their extremes and lead discussions about the future of insurance. Community Agitator : Organize debates, workshops, or insurance-themed events to engage people in unexpected ways. Balanced Approach : Understand the importance of stirring the waters thoughtfully, not recklessly, to create meaningful engagement without causing chaos. Ready to create ripples in the insurance world? Tune in to learn how to stir up waters with purpose and catch the big fish without capsizing the boat. Go forth and stir, you brilliant troublemakers, and remember, in the vast ocean of insurance, sometimes you need to make a few waves to stand out. Don't miss out on this episode packed with unconventional wisdom for quantum growth! Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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Send us a text Welcome back, undercover agents! Craig Pretzinger here, and in today’s episode of "P&C Maverick: Unconventional Wisdom For Quantum Growth," we're diving into Law 38: Think as You Like, but Behave Like Others. Learn how to blend in while introducing groundbreaking ideas in the insurance world. Key Takeaways: Strategic Conformity : Discover how blending in can help you introduce radical ideas without causing a stir. Learn from Maverick Mary’s story of revolutionizing her traditional insurance company from the inside. Practical Tips : Dress Code Decoder : Adhere to your company’s dress code while adding subtle personal touches. Jargon Juggler : Use industry jargon to propose innovative ideas without raising eyebrows. Meeting Maestro : Navigate meetings by playing by the rules but guiding conversations toward new ideas. Gradual Game Changer : Introduce changes slowly and in small, digestible bites. Balancing Act : Understand the importance of blending in just enough to be accepted but not so much that your unique ideas get lost. Apply these strategies to package your revolutionary ideas in a way that feels familiar and non-threatening to the status quo. True innovation often comes in a business casual disguise. Ready to change the game from the inside? Tune in and become a master of strategic conformity in the insurance world. Remember, it's not about pretending to be something you're not—it's about presenting your ideas in a way that others can accept and embrace. Go forth and infiltrate, you brilliant undercover innovators! Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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Send us a text Let's uncover Law 37: Create Compelling Spectacles. Forget boring insurance pitches—learn how to transform your client interactions into unforgettable experiences that resonate long after the confetti settles. Key Takeaways: Memorable Experiences Matter : Discover how creating spectacles—like mock disasters or virtual reality risk assessments—can make your agency unforgettable. Small-Town Success Stories : Meet Smallville Sally, who turned her modest agency into a local attraction with monthly themed transformations, proving that creativity beats budget. Practical Applications : From turning claims processes into adventures to making policy signings ceremonial, find ways to engage clients and stand out in a crowded market. Learn how to add drama and surprise to your insurance practice, making every client interaction a memorable performance. Ready to turn heads and win hearts in the insurance world? Tune in and embrace the power of spectacle. Don't just sell insurance—create experiences that clients will rave about. Remember, in the theater of insurance, your performance matters. Get inspired and share your own spectacular ideas with us. Email Craig at thedudes.com with your success stories for a chance to be featured in our newsletter. See you next time as we uncover Law 38. Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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Send us a text Get ready to flip your world upside down with another powerful lesson as we dive into Law 36: Disdain Things You Cannot Have, Ignoring Them Is the Best Revenge. We'll explore how adopting a mindset of strategic indifference can transform your approach to client relations, negotiations, and even office politics. This isn't about ignoring problems or risks—it's about focusing on what you can control and leveraging your strengths to navigate the competitive insurance landscape. Key Takeaways: Focus on Controllables : Instead of chasing what's out of reach, strengthen relationships with stable clients and explore new markets. Channel Your Energy : Pour your efforts into providing stellar service to existing clients, thriving in your current role, and highlighting the unique strengths of your offerings. Recalibrate Your Focus : Redirect your energy from futile pursuits to areas where you can make a real impact, whether it's doubling down on a strength or exploring a new niche. Embrace Strategic Indifference : Learn to be strategically indifferent, choosing your battles wisely and not letting what you can't have distract you from leveraging what you do have. In this episode, you'll discover how to master the art of playing it cool, turning potential losses into opportunities for growth and increasing your value in the eyes of clients and competitors alike. Tune in and learn how to make strategic indifference your secret weapon in the insurance game. Until next time, keep it cool, keep it strategic, and never let them see you sweat. Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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The Role of Timing in Insurance Sales Excellence 4:32

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Send us a text In insurance, as in comedy, timing is everything. Are you delivering your punchlines at the right moment? Today we're diving into Law 35: Master the Art of Timing. In this episode, we'll discuss how perfect timing can make or break your success in the insurance industry. We'll explore the power of patience, the importance of striking while the iron is hot, and the subtle art of reading the room. By the end of this episode, you'll have practical insights and strategies to help you navigate the delicate dance of timing in insurance sales and negotiations. Key Takeaways: Timing is Key : Success in insurance sales isn't about being quick or slow, but being right. The right timing can mean the difference between closing a major deal and watching it slip away. Read the Room : Pay attention to your client's body language, tone, and engagement level. If they're leaning in and asking questions, it's your cue to dive deeper. If they seem distracted, it's time to wrap up and schedule a follow-up. Understand the Buying Cycle : Different insurance products have different buying cycles. Align your pitches with when clients are most receptive. Leverage Life Events : Major life changes often trigger insurance needs. Reach out to clients during these times to update their coverage. Be Patient but Persistent : Don't give up after one "no," but don't pester your clients either. Find the sweet spot between following up and being annoying. Strike While the Iron is Hot : When you see an opening, take it. If a client expresses concern about a specific risk, present your solution. Use the Power of Scarcity : Limited-time offers can be powerful motivators, but use them sparingly and honestly. False urgency can backfire. Mastering timing isn't about manipulation; it's about aligning your offerings with your client's needs and readiness. By understanding and applying these insights, you can transform your approach to sales and client interactions. Tune in to learn how to strike the right chord at the perfect moment and unlock your full potential as an insurance professional. Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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Claim Your Throne 4:08

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Send us a text In the game of insurance, perception is reality. Are you a pawn or a king on this chessboard? Today we’re diving into Law 34: Be Royal in Your Own Fashion. Act like a king to be treated like one. In this episode, we'll explore how carrying yourself with confidence and authority can dramatically change how you're perceived in the insurance industry. We'll delve into the power of self-presentation, the art of commanding respect, and the delicate balance between confidence and arrogance. By the end of this episode, you'll have practical insights and strategies to help you elevate your presence in the competitive world of insurance. Key Takeaways: Present Yourself with Confidence : Your self-belief influences how others perceive you. Dressing professionally and paying attention to your appearance can significantly impact how others see you. Speak with Authority : Use confident language, avoid filler words, and assert your expertise. You're not just selling insurance; you're providing valuable protection and peace of mind. Own Your Space : Whether in a client meeting or team presentation, carry yourself with poise. Stand tall, make eye contact, and use deliberate gestures. Celebrate Your Success : Share your accomplishments with pride, not arrogance, and let others see the value you bring. Establish clear expectations with clients and colleagues, and don't be afraid to say no when necessary. Balance Confidence with Humility : Aim for respectful confidence, not arrogance. True royalty lifts everyone up and inspires respect. Join us as we uncover how mastering Law 34 can help you command respect, build trust with clients, and achieve greater success in the insurance industry. Transform how others perceive you and your services by understanding and applying these insights. Every agent has the potential to be royalty in the kingdom of insurance. Will you claim your crown? Tune in to this episode and start your journey towards commanding your professional presence. Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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Finding Your Client’s Secret On Switch 4:40

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Send us a text Ever wondered why that stubborn client finally agreed to a policy upgrade? Today we’re diving into Law 33: Discover Each Man’s Thumbscrew – or as I like to call it, the art of making people say yes when they really want to say no. In this episode, we’ll explore the psychology of human motivation and how understanding people’s hidden desires, fears, and weaknesses can transform you into a mind-reading insurance wizard. Key Takeaways: Discover the Thumbscrew : Everyone has a secret on the switch. Find it by observing their environment, listening to their stories, and asking the right questions. Become a Detective : Channel your inner Sherlock Holmes. Look for clues in your client's office, social media, or even their choice of tie. Use these insights to craft your pitch. Listen More, Talk Less : People love talking about themselves. The more they talk, the more insights you'll gain to tailor your pitch perfectly. Ethical Empathy : Use your understanding responsibly. Offer solutions that genuinely meet your client's needs, not just push products for the sake of a sale. Subtlety is Key : If clients feel manipulated, you've already lost. Be subtle and sincere in your approach. Join us as we uncover the secrets of human motivation and turn those tough sales into successful ones. Remember, in the insurance game, understanding human nature is your secret weapon. Go forth, find those thumbscrews, and may the sales be ever in your favor. Stay tuned and keep ascending to new tiers of mastery. The game is afoot, and the thumbscrew is out there! Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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The Fantasy Blueprint for Insurance Sales 12:10

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Send us a text Join me as we dive into Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power with Law 32: "Play to People’s Fantasies", and today we're exploring how understanding and leveraging the power of fantasy can elevate your insurance sales game. Key Takeaways: Fantasy Over Reality : People often prefer fantasy over reality, even in practical matters like insurance. Understanding this can help you connect with clients on a deeper level. Crafting Compelling Narratives : Tap into clients' fantasies of security, financial freedom, and heroism. Learn how to make your insurance offerings more appealing by creating vivid, emotional narratives. Effective Storytelling : Use storytelling and vivid imagery to highlight the real benefits of your policies. Move beyond listing features and benefits—show clients how insurance can transform their lives. Ethical Considerations : Maintain your integrity. Use these techniques ethically to build trust and long-lasting relationships. Avoid false promises and focus on genuine benefits. As we unpack the psychology behind fantasies and the art of creating compelling narratives, remember to stay grounded in your moral compass. By mastering the balance between appealing to fantasies and maintaining professional integrity, you'll be well on your way to closing more deals and building stronger client relationships. Stay disciplined, stay channeled, and keep mastering the art of fantasy in your sales strategy. I'll catch you next time as we continue to climb the ladder of power dynamics and insurance mastery. Until then, stay strong and stay unstoppable, Mavericks. Short Craig Pretzinger The Insurance Dudes…

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