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#1158 - The Upside of Adversity: Children Learn Resilience From Coping With Difficulties

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Контент предоставлен Dr Justin Coulson. Весь контент подкастов, включая эпизоды, графику и описания подкастов, загружается и предоставляется непосредственно компанией Dr Justin Coulson или ее партнером по платформе подкастов. Если вы считаете, что кто-то использует вашу работу, защищенную авторским правом, без вашего разрешения, вы можете выполнить процедуру, описанную здесь https://ru.player.fm/legal.

Why Your Kids Should Risk Breaking Their Arm Today

Discover why letting your kids take physical risks - even ones that could land them in the doctor's office - might be exactly what they need for healthy development.

Key Points:

  • Physical challenges help children develop resilience
  • Many schools have removed risky play equipment like monkey bars
  • Stanford research shows parent reactions shape children's mindsets
  • Developmentally appropriate risk is essential for growth
  • Modern "safetyism" may be harming children's development

Quote of the Episode: "When we treat all adversity as inherently negative, we do a tremendous disservice to our children and their ability to develop adaptive coping mechanisms."

Key Insights:

  • Babies look to parents' facial expressions to gauge danger
  • Physical challenges often lead to better academic and social outcomes
  • The difference between harmful trauma and beneficial stress
  • How "safetyism" creates more fearful children
  • The importance of scaffolding risk appropriately

Resources Mentioned:

  • Stanford University research on parental mindset
  • Carol Dweck's growth mindset work
  • "The Coddling of the American Mind" by Jonathan Haidt
  • Biosphere 2 experiment
  • Various physical activities mentioned (bouldering, surfing, ice skating)

Action Steps for Parents:

1. Frame failures as opportunities for growth:

  • Acknowledge pain/difficulty
  • Ask "How would you do it differently next time?"
  • Look for learning moments

2. Create supportive environments for risk-taking:

  • Stay calm when children fall/fail
  • Provide appropriate safety measures
  • Be present but not hovering

3. Allow developmentally appropriate challenges:

  • Start small and build up
  • Match activities to age/ability
  • Provide necessary equipment/support
  • Consider activities like climbing, skating, or surfing when ready

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Контент предоставлен Dr Justin Coulson. Весь контент подкастов, включая эпизоды, графику и описания подкастов, загружается и предоставляется непосредственно компанией Dr Justin Coulson или ее партнером по платформе подкастов. Если вы считаете, что кто-то использует вашу работу, защищенную авторским правом, без вашего разрешения, вы можете выполнить процедуру, описанную здесь https://ru.player.fm/legal.

Why Your Kids Should Risk Breaking Their Arm Today

Discover why letting your kids take physical risks - even ones that could land them in the doctor's office - might be exactly what they need for healthy development.

Key Points:

  • Physical challenges help children develop resilience
  • Many schools have removed risky play equipment like monkey bars
  • Stanford research shows parent reactions shape children's mindsets
  • Developmentally appropriate risk is essential for growth
  • Modern "safetyism" may be harming children's development

Quote of the Episode: "When we treat all adversity as inherently negative, we do a tremendous disservice to our children and their ability to develop adaptive coping mechanisms."

Key Insights:

  • Babies look to parents' facial expressions to gauge danger
  • Physical challenges often lead to better academic and social outcomes
  • The difference between harmful trauma and beneficial stress
  • How "safetyism" creates more fearful children
  • The importance of scaffolding risk appropriately

Resources Mentioned:

  • Stanford University research on parental mindset
  • Carol Dweck's growth mindset work
  • "The Coddling of the American Mind" by Jonathan Haidt
  • Biosphere 2 experiment
  • Various physical activities mentioned (bouldering, surfing, ice skating)

Action Steps for Parents:

1. Frame failures as opportunities for growth:

  • Acknowledge pain/difficulty
  • Ask "How would you do it differently next time?"
  • Look for learning moments

2. Create supportive environments for risk-taking:

  • Stay calm when children fall/fail
  • Provide appropriate safety measures
  • Be present but not hovering

3. Allow developmentally appropriate challenges:

  • Start small and build up
  • Match activities to age/ability
  • Provide necessary equipment/support
  • Consider activities like climbing, skating, or surfing when ready

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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