054: Redefining Parenting: Look for the Good with Ralphie Jacobs

Healthy Parenting Handbook with Katie Kimball

How about some stats to make you sad? Kids are on screens an average of 7 hours a day…and we spend 85% of our parenting energy on what our kids are doing wrong.

Aw, man!

It stinks to start with the negative.

In fact, that will train our brains to see more negative things, which is why I did it.

Do you feel more down after reading that? More worried? More hopeless about our kids' generation?

The GOOD news is that there’s another way.

I’m beyond honored to host Ralphie Jacobs of Simply on Purpose today to remind us that not only CAN we look for the positive, but we must - because it works, and it’s actually easier than yelling angrily at our kids!

You’ll come away from this interview feeling so encouraged and ready to parent differently, with 85% of your energy (or more!) focused on the positive!

Get ready to learn:

• how to create positive momentum in your child’s day
• why asking a kid or teen, “Why did you do that?” becomes a parenting trap (that you DON’T want to fall into!)
• what comes first in parenting - the words or the feelings
• a much better way to say, “If you don’t clean your room, you don’t get to come to the movie,” that’s actually EASIER to enforce!
• why fear-based behavior is bad for everyone in the long run
• an incredibly powerful way to guard your connection with your child - and raise kids who, like Ralphie’s, want to call home and come home to be with parents <3
• what is MORE important than your child’s good behavior
• why holding to your boundaries IS showing love, and how to do that without yelling or threatening
• the only way to help kids make better choices is to…
• fascinating (and simple) ideas to get kids on board with chores (yes, chores!!!)
• allllll about “looking for the good” – the why and how and benefits

This is as uplifting as it is practical, mamas and papas out there!

Be sure to grab Ralphie’s free email course here!
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Resources We Mention for Looking for Good

• Ralphie's Positive Consequences webinar
• Looking for more positive parenting tips? Check out this interview with Amy McCready as well
• Why should kids do chores anyway?
• Ralphie's reward system is called the family economy
• Why you should make your own salad dressing
• Help your kids

• Kitchen Stewardship
• Kids Cook Real Food
• follow Katie on Instagram or Facebook
• Subscribe to the newsletter to get weekly updates
• YouTube shorts channel for HPH
• Find the Healthy Parenting Handbook at kidscookrealfood.com/podcast

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