Rainy Day Rant – How to not be an Arse!

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Kay has a rant about the differences between men and women, why they need to have explicit instructions to achieve anything at home and how they don’t listen to anything you are saying.

She asks, ‘how should we plan to tell our other halves how not to be arses and do something that would help?’

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• With men, you have to slow it down for them and put everything in order.
• You have to be explicit about what you want, spelling it out clearly.
• Men don’t listen to what you are saying unless you make it very clear.
• I’m trying to split the role so we share the care of the children through both the day and the night.
• Men think they are doing their fair share but the reality is very different in most families.
• Mostly its women who take on caring for children in a family.
• Women are usually more proactive in any home situation.
• Sometimes it can be easier to do it yourself than spend the time explaining and getting someone else to do it.

BEST MOMENTS

‘When we get angry the Glaswegian comes out in us’

‘It’s been 20 weeks now and he’s always there’

‘He’s lurking about because he knows there are things to be done’

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IVF Before and After was founded by Kay Dempsey. She created IVF Before and After, after many years spent researching and practising every possible way to conceive with IVF. Kay has created a global community with the use of podcasts she will share the stepping stones to empower your mindset, fuel your body organically and support you along your fertility journey.

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