053｜「弟弟」: 男孩在东亚家庭学会爱 Dìdi: Coming of age in the summer of 2008

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【聊了什么The What】

疲惫娇娃的这期节目聊了在美国上映的电影“Didi (弟弟)”。这部电影探讨了成长的阵痛和13岁的男主角在加州的移民身份的问题。它是台裔导演王湘圣Sean Wang的长篇初作，也是一部自传性质的作品。故事围绕一个13岁的台裔美国男孩Chris展开。在2008年短短两个月的暑假里，他经历了初恋、与家人的矛盾、对自我身份的迷惘，以及发现了对视频制作和滑板的热爱。

我们从”Dìdi 弟弟”这个电影名开始，聊了聊了我们对于这部怀旧青春电影的回应。故事中隐藏的重男轻女的情节和男孩在网络上的成长，都在我们自己作为90后的成长轨迹中有迹可循。

In this episode, we discuss the recently released film "Dìdi" (meaning "little brother" in Chinese). This coming-of-age story explores the growing pains of its 13-year-old protagonist the summer before starting high school in Fremont, California. The film marks the directorial debut of Taiwanese-American filmmaker Sean Wang and draws heavily from his own experience. The narrative centers on Chris, a 13-year-old Taiwanese-American boy, during a transformative two-month summer vacation in 2008. Throughout this brief period, Chris navigates his first love, family conflicts, identity confusion, and discovers his passion for videography and skateboarding. Starting with the film's title "Didi," we share our thoughts on this nostalgic youth drama. The subtle themes of gender and the boy's growth in the early digital age resonate with our own experiences as old millennials. The story's portrayal of gender bias within East Asian families and the protagonist's online coming-of-age journey mirror aspects of our own upbringings.

【时间轴 The When】

05:38 《弟弟》:一部关于2008年的怀旧电影

16:28 光标和键盘，PC和社交媒体，这个故事关于被互联网养大的我们

23:25 "Bro, that's so weird!":电影通过bro来传达健康的男性气质？

30:36 陈冲的母亲角色:无条件的爱与包容

40:39 东亚式养育剧本:缺席的父亲、受困的母亲、离开的姐姐，和疼爱孙子的祖母

01:08:38 两代台湾导演的自传式电影对比，”来自女性的照料“如何被男性创作者们看到

05:38 didi is a nostalgic film set in 2008

16:28 the story explores how our generation was raised by the internet, featuring cursors, keyboards, PCs, and early social media

23:25 the film may be attempting to convey healthy masculinity through the use of "bro" culture

30:36 Joan Chen portrays a mother figure characterized by unconditional love and acceptance

40:39 the movie presents a typical East Asian family dynamic with an absent father, a trapped mother, a departed sister, and a doting grandmother

01:08:38 a comparison with autobiographical works by different generations of Taiwanese directors, particularly in how male creators depict care from women

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