EP#176: Discovering Your Sexuality Later in Life with Angelique Simmons

The Open Bedroom Podcast

Timestamps by PodSqueezeExploring Self-Pleasure (00:00:02)

The importance of understanding one's own body and preferences for sexual pleasure.

Introduction to the Episode (00:00:31)

Jennifer introduces the topic of sexual empowerment for women later in life.

Angelique's Background (00:01:33)

Angelique shares her life as a mother and her journey into self-discovery.

Meeting Jennifer (00:01:58)

Angelique recounts how she met Jennifer at a BDSM event, highlighting their connection.

Angelique's Early Relationships (00:03:45)

Discussion of Angelique's teenage relationships and the challenges of understanding her desires.

Understanding Jealousy (00:06:01)

Angelique reflects on jealousy and the lack of communication in her early relationships.

Love Bombing Defined (00:06:40)

Angelique explains the concept of love bombing in relationships with narcissistic partners.

Impact of Marriage (00:09:20)

Angelique discusses the controlling nature of her ex-husband and its effect on her self-esteem.

Health Turning Point (00:10:39)

Angelique's diabetes diagnosis leads to a significant lifestyle change and weight loss.

Reclaiming Sexuality (00:11:18)

Angelique begins to explore her sexuality after her divorce, focusing on her own needs.

The First Empowering Experience (00:13:42)

Angelique describes her first fulfilling sexual experience that changed her perspective.

Exploring Desires (00:16:25)

She talks about her curiosity in exploring different sexual experiences and relationships.

Introduction to Fet Life (00:17:56)

Angelique discovers Fet Life, a platform for exploring diverse sexual interests.

Understanding Dominant/Submissive Dynamics (00:19:08)

Angelique explains her interest in dominant/submissive relationships and the trust involved.

Navigating the BDSM Community (00:23:17)

Angelique shares her experiences finding a true dominant partner in the BDSM community.

Exploring a New Relationship Dynamic (00:25:08)

Angelique shares her experience of entering a new relationship and the lessons learned from it.

Sexual Exploration Beyond Traditional Roles (00:26:23)

Discussion on how Angelique's journey involves exploring her sexuality after a long relationship.

Understanding the 'Trad Wife' Concept (00:27:08)

Angelique explains the 'trad wife' role and its implications in her personal exploration.

Role Play and Empowerment (00:28:52)

Angelique discusses the excitement of role-playing and exploring different dynamics in her relationships.

Finding Partners Who Understand Your Needs (00:31:20)

Challenges of finding partners who can recognize and respond to varying sexual cues.

Exploring Dominance and Submission (00:33:25)

Angelique expresses her preference for being dominant in female relationships and the desire to explore that further.

The Thrill of Being Watched (00:34:28)

Angelique shares her enjoyment of exhibitionism and the excitement of public encounters.

Learning Through Exploration (00:36:28)

The importance of exploration in understanding personal desires and preferences in relationships.

Confidence Boost Through Sexual Experiences (00:38:16)

Angelique discusses how exploring her sexuality has empowered her and boosted her confidence.

Communicating Desires with Partners (00:41:53)

The significance of open communication about desires and preferences in enhancing sexual experiences.

Encouraging Exploration Nights (00:42:52)

The idea of scheduled exploration nights to try new experiences and activities together.

Starting Small in Sexual Exploration (00:46:11)

Angelique advises beginners to start small with toys and personal exploration to build confidence.

Closing Remarks (00:48:23)

Jennifer thanks the audience and signs off, inviting them to join another episode.

Listener Engagement (00:48:29)

The host encourages listeners to like, subscribe, and stay updated on new episodes.

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