EP#178: Taking Your Throuple to the Next Level: Getting Married with Triad and True

The Open Bedroom Podcast

The Proposal at the Triad Date (00:00:02) Dr. Rachel shares the story of a joint proposal to Aaron before their commitment ceremony.

Living in Florida (00:02:05)

The throuple discusses their current living situation in Florida and societal perceptions of their relationship.

The Origin of Their Relationship (00:03:51)

Rachel recounts how they met in August 2019 while living in Mexico and the quick connection formed.

Moving in Together (00:04:40)

The throuple shares their decision to move in together after just 12 days of knowing each other.

Navigating Relationship Dynamics (00:06:48)

Discussion about the intentionality behind their relationship and the importance of communication.

Long-Distance Phase (00:08:40)

They describe the long-distance aspect of their relationship before officially moving in together.

Adjusting to Co-Habitation (00:09:42)

The challenges faced while adapting to living together in a small space and unpacking personal items.

Coping with COVID-19 (00:13:34)

The throuple reflects on how COVID-19 impacted their relationship while living together.

Finding a Bigger Living Space (00:15:02)

They discuss their decision to move to a larger home in Florida to accommodate their working needs.

Buying a House Together (00:16:56)

The unique experience of purchasing a home as a throuple and the legal considerations involved.

Planning the Wedding (00:18:34)

The throuple shares their thoughts on the significance of their wedding and the planning process.

Joint Proposal Surprise (00:20:09)

Discussion about the surprise joint proposal planned for Rachel's birthday, including escape room details.

Engagement Ring Discovery (00:24:01)

Rachel found Jennifer's Pinterest ring board, leading to the selection of an appropriate engagement ring.

Aaron's Proposal Inclusion (00:24:43)

Jennifer and Casey planned a joint proposal for Aaron to ensure he felt included in their commitment.

Destination Wedding Planning (00:27:02)

The throuple discusses their destination wedding in Puerto Vallarta and the challenges of family acceptance.

Wedding Ceremony Insights (00:30:12)

Details about their wedding ceremony, including vows and officiation by Aaron's brother.

Navigating Relationship Dynamics (00:31:53)

Exploration of the challenges and conversations that shaped their unique relationship structure over time.

Holiday Celebrations Approach (00:35:40)

Discussion on how they celebrate holidays, balancing family traditions with personal priorities.

Strengthening Dyad Relationships (00:38:20)

Focus on enhancing individual relationships within the throuple through dedicated date nights.

Initiating Date Nights (00:38:41)

The idea of date nights emerged from a poly zoom call during COVID.

Maintaining Weekly Date Nights (00:39:24)

They continue weekly date nights, even during COVID, with various activities to keep the connection alive.

First International Vacation Plans (00:40:17)

Rachel and Casey plan their first international vacation to Bali, highlighting personal interests within the throuple.

Evolving Relationship Dynamics (00:41:09)

The throuple discusses evolving feelings of security and confidence in their relationships over time.

Enjoying Alone Time (00:42:05)

They share the joy of alone time, appreciating personal space amidst their close living situation.

Closing Remarks and Thanks (00:42:30)

Jennifer thanks Rachel and Aaron for sharing their insights on throuple logistics and dynamics.

Podcast Outro (00:42:51)

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