What Comes First, a Willingness to Change or the Tools to Change It?
Manage episode 458735245 series 3322892
If there's something in your life that hasn't changed, is it that you don't have the tools, or is it that you're not willing to change it? What comes first, a willingness to change or the tools to change it? You can go to therapy. You can do life coaching classes. You can pray. You can go to church. You can use whatever means, methods, or modalities to create change in your life. But no matter how many tools you have in the toolbox, nothing moves without the willingness to take action and the willingness to change it.
Questions you can ask yourself:
- If you're looking at creating a life worth living and you're looking at making a change, how committed are you?
- What is that thing that you're not changing providing? What is it actually serving? What purpose does it have?
- What have I not been willing to change in relationships?
- What am I willing to be, do, have, create, and generate in my life? Is there anything that I'm not willing to be, do, have, create, or generate in your life?
An Exercise:
1. Make a list of what you have not been willing to change in your life. Ask yourself: What have I not been willing to change in relationships? What have I not been willing to change in my business? What have I not been willing to change with my money flows? What have I not been willing to change with my body? What have I not been willing to change with myself and my image, my personality?
2. Go through that list and have a look at, what purpose does that thing that you won't change serve? And the purpose it serves could be considered positive or negative. It doesn't matter, but just have a look at it.
3. What are you willing to be, do, have, create, and generate in your life? Is there anything that you are not willing to be, do, have, create, or generate in your life? And if there's anything that you're not willing to be, do, have, create, or generate, what is underneath that? What are you willing in your life? What are you unwilling in your life? Unpack it. Have a look at the exercise again.
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