BONUS: Building Self-Worth: Embracing Hardship As A Catalyst For Growth PepTalk podcast

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Send us a text What if knowing when to step back could be the key to your next great adventure? Join me, Coach J, as I share my heartfelt reflections on concluding the Pep Talk podcast after 75 inspiring episodes. This journey has been nothing short of transformative, and I’m filled with immense gratitude for each listener who has joined me along the way. In this final episode, we reflect on recognizing the signs that it’s time to step back from a project and the powerful impact of staying true to our core values. We also explore how embracing flexibility can lead to unexpected and rewarding new paths. As we wrap up this chapter, I celebrate the greatness within each of you and encourage you to live a life brimming with positivity and purpose. The potential you hold is boundless, and my deepest wish is for you to embrace it fully. With a final reminder to keep it love, keep it light, and keep it peppy, I sign off with heartfelt thanks. Stay blessed, everyone. This is Coach J, signing out with immense gratitude and love. Peace. Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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6 Flights, 3 Lessons, Infinite Application 21:25

37 weeks назад21:25

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Send us a text Have you ever felt the dilemma of sharing an armrest on a packed flight? Have you ever watched absolute mayhem on a flight? Or...have you ever had an unexpectedly beautiful encounter while waiting for a flight to arrive? Join Coach J in this episode of Pep Talk as I unpack the lessons learned from my recent trips with American Airlines and Southwest Airlines. These lessons range from simple to ridiculous, but each one will help you reprogram and refocus for the week ahead if you take them to heart. Listen in as I unpack each one and give you the simple lessons that can help push you forward in life, one flight at a time. This is one trip that you don't want to miss! As always, send me a fanmail to let me know what lesson strikes a chord with you, and also please be sure to leave us a 5-star review wherever you listen to podcasts! I love hearing from you. Enjoy! Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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#73: Defeating Discouragement 32:43

38 weeks назад32:43

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Send us a text Feeling stuck in a cycle of rejection and self-doubt? You're not alone, and we're here to help you break free. Join us in this heartfelt episode of Pep Talk as I share my own rocky path from a career in human resources to becoming a teacher. Despite my qualifications and passion, I faced numerous rejections. But a simple thank you letter after a particularly tough interview turned my fortunes around and led to my dream job. This episode shines a light on how seemingly small actions, coupled with persistent effort, can lead to significant breakthroughs and change your life's trajectory. Discover how to transform discouragement into a source of strength. We'll discuss the toxic nature of negative self-talk and explore strategies for shifting your mindset towards positivity. Drawing inspiration from figures like JK Rowling, we highlight the importance of embracing and reframing negative emotions. Practical tips, such as maintaining a gratitude journal, will equip you with the tools to foster resilience and hope. Whether you're struggling with job market challenges or other personal setbacks, this episode is packed with actionable advice and encouragement to keep you moving forward with unwavering optimism. Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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#72- The Power of Presence: Improving Life By Focusing on NOW 30:47

39 weeks назад30:47

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Send us a text Ever feel like life is slipping through your fingers as you stress over future uncertainties or dwell on past regrets? In episode 72 of Pep Talk, we uncover the transformative power of staying present. Drawing from a personal therapy session, we highlight the perils of fixating on what’s ahead or behind and explore the profound benefits of living in the now. With insights from mindfulness practices, we reveal how being grounded in the present can drastically reduce stress, sharpen concentration, and boost overall life satisfaction. Equipped with practical techniques, this episode serves as your guide to mastering the art of being present. Discover the calming effects of meditation and deep breathing exercises like box breathing. Learn why single-tasking can elevate your productivity and how mindful listening can transform your relationships. From setting tech boundaries to incorporating simple mindfulness activities into your routine, we provide actionable steps to help you stay centered and focused. Finally, enrich your relationships and daily life by embracing mindfulness. The episode emphasizes giving undivided attention to loved ones, starting your day with centering activities, and practicing gratitude. Imagine the power of being just 1% better each day! By living with clear intent and reducing distractions, we can unlock our potential and lead lives filled with purpose and achievement. Sign off with our heartfelt thanks to our listeners, and remember to subscribe, leave a five-star review, and stay engaged with our Pep Talk community. Keep it love, keep it light, and keep it peppy! Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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#71: Unlock Your Hidden Potential: Moving from Dreaming to Doing with Coach J 25:50

40 weeks назад25:50

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Send us a text What if you were extraordinary, but never realized it? This episode tackles that haunting thought by exploring the transformative power of taking action. Through compelling stories and powerful analogies, like the metamorphosis of a caterpillar into a butterfly, Coach J invites you to overcome your fears and hesitations. With personal anecdotes, such as the inspiring journey of his oldest daughter, you'll find relatable moments that push you to uncover your hidden potential and move from dreaming to doing. Coach J dives into the critical importance of translating ideas into real-world steps, emphasizing how even small actions, like visiting a bank or affirming your self-belief, can drive remarkable progress. He opens up about his own struggles with fear and criticism, reminding us that embracing potential means accepting the possibility of failure. This episode is a call to action, urging you to bridge the gap between knowing and doing, and to test your greatness through courageous steps forward. Don’t let life pass you by with unfulfilled dreams; seize your moment to grow and achieve today. Send us a fan mail and let me know if this episode stirs you to action! Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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#70 How to Escape the Trap of Social Comparison 32:07

41 weeks назад32:07

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Send us a text Have you ever caught yourself in the endless loop of comparing your life to others, especially on social media? In today's episode, we unpack the profound wisdom in Bob Goff's quote, "God does not compare, he creates," from his book "Dream Big," and how it serves as a powerful antidote to the destructive habit of comparison. Drawing inspiration from Goff's portrayal of his wife, Sweet Maria, we explore how embracing your unique gifts can lead to greater clarity and joy. I share my own personal struggles with comparison and offer insights on how focusing on our inherent worth can change our mindset and heartset for the better. We also delve into Leon Festinger's social comparison theory to understand the psychological impacts of comparing ourselves to others. While it can sometimes be a motivator, especially in competitive fields like athletics, the emotional toll can be significant, particularly when amplified by the curated realities of social media. By redefining humility and embracing authenticity, we discuss the importance of appreciating our own unique journeys. This episode is a heartfelt invitation to compete with yourself, celebrate your personal growth, and recognize your unique potential. Tune in to find encouragement and practical advice on how to live a more joyful and authentic life. Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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#69: Playing to Win: Why You Need to Fail Better! 35:05

42 weeks назад35:05

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Send us a text You need to FAIL BETTER! I said it! Ever wondered why failure feels so daunting? Discover how viewing failure through a different lens can revolutionize your journey to success. In this episode of Pep Talk, we'll uncover how Wile E. Coyote, Tom the Cat, and basketball legend Michael Jordan all turned their setbacks into stepping stones, transforming failure into valuable research. Through their stories, we aim to inspire you to reframe failure, seeing it as a critical part of your journey rather than a shameful end. Let's tackle the fear of failure head-on and learn to embrace the risks necessary for growth. By comparing the strategies of playing to win vs. playing not to lose, we’ll draw from personal anecdotes and sporting analogies like prevent defense in football. We’ll discuss how our fear often leads us to miss out on potential growth and opportunities. Reframing failure from a source of guilt and shame to one of discovery empowers us to learn, adapt, and prepare for future successes. We even introduce the concept of a failure spectrum, highlighting the nuance between blameworthy and praiseworthy failures. Leave a Fan Mail and let me know what you think about this episode and also give us a story about how failure has improved your life! Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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#68: Confronting Neophobia: Tackling the Fear of Starting Something New 30:19

43 weeks назад30:19

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Send us a text Have you ever been held back by the fear of trying something new? Join me, as I confront neophobia head-on in this powerful episode of Pep Talk. Through heartfelt conversations with my wife and therapist, I tackle the paralyzing anxiety that uncertainty and past failures can cause. By exploring insights from Plato and Rumi, we discuss how even the smallest steps can lead to great beginnings. Whether you’re contemplating writing a book or launching a business, this episode aims to empower you to take that crucial first step. Ready to transform your life in just six months? We'll explore the importance of leaping into action, recognizing your passions, and dedicating yourself fully to new ventures. Hear motivational stories and practical advice on how to overcome stagnancy, build confidence, and discover unexpected opportunities. Plus, I encourage you to share your progress with us—your journey might just inspire others on the show! So tune in, get inspired, and as always, keep it love, keep it light, and keep it peppy. Send us a fan mail and let's continue the conversation! And if this episode resonates, leave a 5 STAR review! Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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#67: Bob the Builder Could NEVER: Building Your Own Confidence 32:00

44 weeks назад32:00

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Send us a text What if you could finally unlock the full potential within you, held back only by a lack of self-belief? Join me, on this transformative episode of Pep Talk as we explore the profound impact of confidence on our ability to succeed. Drawing inspiration from William James, the father of modern psychology, we dissect how most individuals live restricted lives due to insufficient self-assurance. Through compelling personal stories and motivational insights, I challenge you to convert your latent abilities into dynamic productivity. This episode is a goldmine of practical advice on nurturing confidence to achieve your true purpose and make a significant impact. Discover the secrets behind the unwavering confidence of elite athletes like Klay Thompson and Steph Curry, and learn how to build similar intrinsic belief in your own abilities. We'll delve into the vital process of accurate self-assessment, emphasizing that true confidence comes from within and is bolstered by positive visualization and tangible achievements. I’ll share personal anecdotes, illustrating how consistent practice and handling criticism productively can elevate your self-efficacy. Tune in to grasp actionable strategies to reinforce your belief in your abilities, handle challenges with grace, and ultimately, unlock your true potential. This empowering episode promises not just to inspire, but to equip you with the tools to elevate your confidence and achieve sustained success. Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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#66: Welcome to PEP TALK! Let's Catch Up! 23:36

45 weeks назад23:36

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Send us a text Ever wondered how a simple shift could reignite your passion? This episode of Pep Talk unveils the thrilling start to Season 3, where I share the journey of transforming "Pep Talk Podcast" into "Pep Talk," reflecting our mission to give you that essential weekly boost. I will recap my own hurdles and victories, exploring how a supportive community and honest conversations with loved ones can anchor us through the storms of self-doubt and imposter syndrome. Season 2's challenges with statistical growth took a toll, but I've emerged stronger and more committed than ever. This chapter is a heartfelt recount of those struggles and the small steps that fueled my growth. Join me in this candid narrative where we emphasize the power of community in overcoming personal battles. Your feedback and topic suggestions are invaluable as we embark on this journey together. Tune in, engage, and let's make Season 3 the most impactful yet. Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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Season 2 Special Edition: Happy Mother's Day 20:43

48 weeks назад20:43

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Send us a text Surprise!!!! I'm popping up with a special episode in order to honor the Mothers out there! In this episode, I am doing some processing as we honor the second Mother's Day without my biological mother, while also honoring some essential Mothers in my life! This is a celebration of all that motherhood is, and I hope that every single Mother feels honored today! Season 3 will be back! Keep rocking with us. Share this episode with the Mothers and Women in your lives and as always, let us know what you think! See you soon! Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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Take A Break! How a Purposeful Pause can lead to Positive Production 19:04

1 year назад19:04

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Send us a text When is the last time that you paused? In this episode, Coach J is challenging you to do just that...pause. Running completely counter to hustle and grind culture, Coach J discusses the mental and emotional benefits of taking a break and how to use that time to become better attuned to who you are and where you want to go in life! In the end, when your opportunity comes, do you want to be fresh and ready to take advantage of it, or would you rather be exhausted and disheveled because you did not take care of yourself on the journey to get to that moment? Today, we are daring you to choose yourself and do what is necessary to keep your creativity flowing and to enhance your productivity. Entrepreneurs and dreamers, this episode is for you, but it is also for anybody out there who is pushing 24-7-365 toward a goal. You can't afford to not take a break. Taking his own advice, Coach J also announces that he is taking a break to end this season and more. So, listen in for more info! Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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SHAPED Manhood Pt 2: What does it mean to be SHAPED? w/ Ralph Bessard 53:21

1 year назад53:21

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Send us a text Who do you see when you look in the mirror each morning? Today, we're continuing our impactful conversation with Ralph Bussard, and together we peel back the layers of what it means to live a life of purpose and intention. As men, it's not just about facing the giant obstacles before us, but recognizing that our everyday decisions carve out the legacy we leave behind. We tackle the idea of being the authors of our own stories, not just heroes or narrators, in a raw conversation that encourages men to embrace the full spectrum of their experiences—challenging parts included—and how this shapes the impact we have on our families and communities. Ralph and I also take a moment to reflect on the tender sensitivity of our spirit, exploring the need for regular 'spiritual EKGs' to maintain the purity of our hearts. We share tales of David and Goliath, drawing metaphors for our own lives and the importance of making ourselves available to opportunities that can lead us to our destinies. Our dialogue traverses the tales of networking events and the surprising outcomes of saying 'yes' more often. We also address the topic of diverse perspectives and how they strengthen leadership, relationships, and personal growth. Closing our heartfelt exchange, the conversation naturally flows into the essence of manhood with Ralph imparting wisdom on embracing the bravery required to step into the unknown. We highlight the significance of living with intention and purpose, making choices that reflect the man you strive to be, and the profound effect this can have on those around you. Our chat isn't just about self-improvement—it's a rallying cry for men to honor their path with courage and conscious action, every single day. Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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SHAPED Manhood Pt 1 with Ralph Bessard 50:16

1 year назад50:16

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Send us a text 🎙️ 🚀 Dive into this powerful dialogue with our special guest Ralph Bessard, where we navigate through the realms of self-discovery, authentic leadership, and the depths of masculinity. Ralph discusses his transformative path culminating in the creation of his book 'Shape to Lead', and explains his process in the vein of challenging men and manhood. Amidst laughter and reflection, they unravel the essence of manhood amid societal pressures, the power of mentorship, and the impact of introspection. This episode is a beacon for those seeking to understand their true identity and live purposefully. This conversation was too powerful to be contained within one episode, so listen in and prepare for the conclusion next week! Tune in for inspiration, realizations, and that all-important pep talk! To learn more about Ralph Bessard or to order his book, go to his website! ralphbessard.com Support the show Email: Thepeppodcast@gmail.com Insta: @_Jbspeaks Twitter: peptalkpodcast " Soaring Confidence "- get your copy of the hit eBook NOW! " Slaying the Lion "- Grab your copy of my FIRST published book with 5-star reviews across the board!…

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What Do You Do When You Just Want To Quit? 34:40

1 year назад34:40