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Understanding Ourselves Better Over Forcing Change In Your Business with Ariffa Bevin
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“There’s no end game or ceiling to self-mastery; it’s a journey” In this episode, Nick speaks with executive coach Ariffa Bevin about mindfulness, self-empowerment, and the discipline found in martial arts. They explore the importance of emotional intelligence in leadership, the art of teaching, and how personal experiences shape our understanding of resilience and growth. Ariffa shares her journey in martial arts and how it intertwines with her coaching philosophy, emphasizing the need for personalized approaches in both teaching and leadership. What to listen for: Mindfulness and self-empowerment are crucial for personal growth. Emotional intelligence is vital for effective leadership. Personal experiences shape our understanding of resilience. Art and mental wellness are interconnected. Discipline in martial arts translates to life skills. Struggles often lead to meaningful growth. Leadership starts with self-reflection and accountability. Empowerment involves setting and maintaining personal boundaries. Past traumas can shape leadership styles and expectations. Self-mastery is a continuous journey, not a destination. Responding to chaos is a key aspect of personal growth. Effective leadership requires clear communication and example-setting. “Martial arts are a huge part of my life—they support my mindfulness practice and provide tremendous joy” Martial arts blend physical movement with mindfulness, creating a space for mental clarity and emotional balance. Finding joy in martial arts brings both excitement and personal fulfillment, highlighting the importance of enjoying the journey, not just the outcome. Practicing martial arts strengthens the mind-body connection, helping in stress relief and providing a mindful escape. Committing to regular practice fosters self-discipline and personal growth, reinforcing that consistency is key in any journey. Martial arts teach resilience and inner peace even in high-intensity moments—a skill that translates into everyday challenges. “The discipline to train with others, showing compassion for those at different skill levels, is a core value for me” Training with others requires discipline, but it also builds camaraderie and mutual respect, which are key in any group environment. Showing compassion for people at different skill levels fosters a supportive space for learning and growth. Being open to others’ skill levels encourages shared progress, reminding us that everyone’s on their own journey. Supporting others reinforces that true mastery includes uplifting and encouraging those coming up behind you. Training with others helps develop patience, both with ourselves and those learning alongside us. “The leadership journey requires adaptability; emotional intelligence must meet people’s varied needs in real time” Great leaders are adaptable, responding to changing situations and challenges with flexibility. Leaders need to understand and manage their emotions—and those of others—to make informed, empathetic decisions. Effective leadership happens in real time, meeting people where they are and responding to their needs in the moment. Leaders who value emotional intelligence recognize that understanding others is a strength, not a weakness. The best leaders stay open to learning, constantly refining their approach to better serve their teams and goals. About Ariffa Bevin Ariffa is an empowerment and executive coach specializing in guiding individuals and teams toward resilience, mindfulness, and unwavering confidence through personalized coaching. With a background in healthcare, nonprofit, and community wellness, Ariffa brings years of experience in helping clients achieve personal and professional goals. As a certified health coach, mindfulness expert, and diversity executive, Ariffa is dedicated to creating a safe and supportive space for her clients, drawing from her understanding of the complex layers of navigat...
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“There’s no end game or ceiling to self-mastery; it’s a journey” In this episode, Nick speaks with executive coach Ariffa Bevin about mindfulness, self-empowerment, and the discipline found in martial arts. They explore the importance of emotional intelligence in leadership, the art of teaching, and how personal experiences shape our understanding of resilience and growth. Ariffa shares her journey in martial arts and how it intertwines with her coaching philosophy, emphasizing the need for personalized approaches in both teaching and leadership. What to listen for: Mindfulness and self-empowerment are crucial for personal growth. Emotional intelligence is vital for effective leadership. Personal experiences shape our understanding of resilience. Art and mental wellness are interconnected. Discipline in martial arts translates to life skills. Struggles often lead to meaningful growth. Leadership starts with self-reflection and accountability. Empowerment involves setting and maintaining personal boundaries. Past traumas can shape leadership styles and expectations. Self-mastery is a continuous journey, not a destination. Responding to chaos is a key aspect of personal growth. Effective leadership requires clear communication and example-setting. “Martial arts are a huge part of my life—they support my mindfulness practice and provide tremendous joy” Martial arts blend physical movement with mindfulness, creating a space for mental clarity and emotional balance. Finding joy in martial arts brings both excitement and personal fulfillment, highlighting the importance of enjoying the journey, not just the outcome. Practicing martial arts strengthens the mind-body connection, helping in stress relief and providing a mindful escape. Committing to regular practice fosters self-discipline and personal growth, reinforcing that consistency is key in any journey. Martial arts teach resilience and inner peace even in high-intensity moments—a skill that translates into everyday challenges. “The discipline to train with others, showing compassion for those at different skill levels, is a core value for me” Training with others requires discipline, but it also builds camaraderie and mutual respect, which are key in any group environment. Showing compassion for people at different skill levels fosters a supportive space for learning and growth. Being open to others’ skill levels encourages shared progress, reminding us that everyone’s on their own journey. Supporting others reinforces that true mastery includes uplifting and encouraging those coming up behind you. Training with others helps develop patience, both with ourselves and those learning alongside us. “The leadership journey requires adaptability; emotional intelligence must meet people’s varied needs in real time” Great leaders are adaptable, responding to changing situations and challenges with flexibility. Leaders need to understand and manage their emotions—and those of others—to make informed, empathetic decisions. Effective leadership happens in real time, meeting people where they are and responding to their needs in the moment. Leaders who value emotional intelligence recognize that understanding others is a strength, not a weakness. The best leaders stay open to learning, constantly refining their approach to better serve their teams and goals. About Ariffa Bevin Ariffa is an empowerment and executive coach specializing in guiding individuals and teams toward resilience, mindfulness, and unwavering confidence through personalized coaching. With a background in healthcare, nonprofit, and community wellness, Ariffa brings years of experience in helping clients achieve personal and professional goals. As a certified health coach, mindfulness expert, and diversity executive, Ariffa is dedicated to creating a safe and supportive space for her clients, drawing from her understanding of the complex layers of navigat...
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דSelf-awareness is truth.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Jeristotle Wells, exploring themes of creativity, mathematics, and the constructs of religion. Jeristotle shares his unique perspective on the universe’s mathematical nature, the social constructs surrounding religion, and the mystical energy of creativity. What to listen for: Creativity is seen as a mystical energy that flows through individuals. The creative process is tied to personal feelings and intuition. The importance of purpose in creative endeavors. Authenticity is key to connecting with others. Success should be redefined beyond social media metrics. Impacting one person positively is enough. Self-awareness is crucial for personal growth. Life’s unpredictability can lead to unexpected opportunities. Creativity should be valued as a legitimate career. Small actions can lead to significant changes. Don’t let societal expectations dictate your goals. Embrace the journey of self-discovery. Listening to your feelings is essential for true fulfillment. “We are the physical expression of the universe as people and humans.” Humans are deeply linked to universal energy, like a bridge between the physical and the metaphysical. As physical expressions, we channel unseen ideas or forces into tangible creations, like art, inventions, or emotions. Even with our unique traits, we reflect a shared origin, emphasizing collective harmony despite differences. If we are expressions of the universe, there’s a nudge to live authentically and contribute meaningfully. “I try to tell myself every time I’m doing anything, if it impacts one person in a positive way, it was worth doing.” A single positive action can spark a chain of kindness, making a lasting impact on others. The depth of connection matters more than the size of your audience. Align actions with a mindset of contribution, making everyday tasks feel fulfilling. Minor actions can shape someone’s day or outlook. About Jeristotle Wells Jeristotle is a rapper, entrepreneur, and founder of the nonprofit Raps & Apps, dedicated to empowering emerging artists. Based in Corpus Christi, TX, he uses his music and personal story of resilience—returning to his passion at 40 after building a successful business—to inspire others to chase their dreams and create meaningful impact. His work reflects a belief that creativity has no age limit and that true success lies in uplifting others. https://jeristotle.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/itsjeristotle/ https://www.instagram.com/itsjeristotle/ Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“I feel like me facing that (skydiving), to me, was more symbolic than anything else.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Gresham Harkless Jr. “Gresh” shares his journey from childhood experiences that shaped his entrepreneurial spirit to facing fears through skydiving. The conversation delves into the impact of military life on Gresh’s upbringing, his transition into entrepreneurship, and the lessons learned from failures. What to listen for: Facing fears can lead to personal growth and confidence Skydiving was a pivotal experience for Gresh in overcoming his fear of heights Childhood experiences can shape your personality and adaptability Entrepreneurship was a natural path for Gresh, influenced by his family’s background. The importance of taking calculated risks in career transitions Failures can lead to valuable lessons and resilience in entrepreneurship Self-mastery is a journey that requires daily commitment and self-reflection It’s essential to listen to your inner calling, even when faced with external doubts “You did something you were afraid to do, which I think is probably, I think the most powerful thing for me.” Facing fear and taking action is an empowering experience. Overcoming fear often leads to personal breakthroughs and self-discovery. Every small victory over fear builds a stronger sense of self. Your bravery can motivate others to face their own fears. True power comes from stepping outside your comfort zone. “If there’s something that you’re afraid of, it doesn’t have to stop you, it doesn’t have to paralyze you, you can still continue to do it.” Fear is natural but doesn’t have to be a barrier. Taking steps despite fear reduces its hold on you. Facing fears strengthens mental and emotional resilience. Continuing to act shows fear doesn’t control your choices. Fear can coexist with progress—you don’t have to wait for it to disappear. About Gresham “Gresh” W. Harkless Jr. Gresham “Gresh” W. Harkless Jr. is the founder of Blue16 Media and CBNation. Blue16 Media uses media & technology to change lives. These media properties include Blue16 Marketing, a digital marketing agency providing digital marketing services including web design, website support & SEO services. CBNation consists of media properties (blogs, podcasts, and videos) helping the business community succeed. Central to Blue16’s marketing philosophy is that You Are a Media Company and that every organization is in the media business and can strategically leverage marketing tools, platforms, and “ingredients” to reach their goals. He has recorded over 1600 podcast episodes of the I AM CEO Podcast and shared the 100+ business lessons he has learned from recording the episodes in the I AM CEO Handbook Volume 3. http://iamgresh.com http://iamgresh.com/linkedin http://iamgresh.com/instagram Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“It’s about being able to listen to what’s inside and to give voice to it.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Chad Prevost about his journey of self-discovery and transformation. Chad shares his experiences with self-mastery, the Enneagram, and the importance of surrendering to the flow of life. Chad had a near-death experience that actually brought him closer to life and helped him decide to pursue his calling. What to listen for: Self-discovery and transformation require practices and experiences that go beyond intellectual understanding Letting go of control and surrendering to the flow of life can lead to profound growth and change The Enneagram is a powerful tool for understanding motivations and transforming oneself Struggles and setbacks can be opportunities for growth and self-reflection Being receptive and open to new experiences and perspectives can lead to a more interesting and fulfilling life “What’s fascinating about the Enneagram is it’s not about boxing people in but rather showing them how to get out of the box they’re already in.” The Enneagram helps people break free from limiting patterns and self-imposed constraints It’s not just a personality test but a tool for deep personal growth and self-awareness It encourages exploration of one’s potential beyond pre-defined “types.” The focus is on transformation and liberation, not labeling or stereotyping The Enneagram empowers individuals to understand their behaviors and grow beyond them “The Enneagram is a transformative, powerful typology that’s more than any other typology.” The Enneagram goes beyond surface-level categorization to support true inner change It integrates psychological depth with practical application in personal development Its transformative power lies in helping people understand the “why” behind their patterns Unlike other systems, it offers guidance for growth, not just self-description This tool is about unlocking potential and fostering long-term, meaningful transformation About Chad Prevost Chad holds a Masters of Divinity, an M.A. in Literature, and a Ph.D. in Creative Writing. After a decade of teaching, he transitioned to solopreneurship in publishing, freelance writing, and roles in reporting and analysis for a logistics startup. Now, as an Executive Coach, he integrates his diverse background to help others. Chad is a certified Enneagram practitioner, trained by reputable programs, and holds coaching certifications from the Newfield Network and ICF. Alongside his wife Shelley, he founded Big Self School, focusing on lifelong learning for holistic living. Chad specializes in communication, leadership, and self-awareness, utilizing tools like the Enneagram and Mindfulness to support those navigating chronic stress. https://www.bigselfschool.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/chad-prevost-57b47615/ https://www.instagram.com/bigselfschool Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“Adversity doesn’t break you. It builds you.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Arias WebsterBerry to explore themes of resilience, personal growth, and the impact of adversity on one’s journey. Arias shares his unique background, including his experience with competitive jump roping and the challenges he faced growing up in a tumultuous environment. The discussion delves into the importance of choices, the balance between highs and lows in entrepreneurship, and the foundational role of self-mastery in leadership. What to listen for: Resilience is built through overcoming adversity Personal choices significantly shape our paths in life Self-mastery is essential for effective leadership Adversity can become an advantage if approached correctly Honest self-reflection is crucial for personal growth The journey of entrepreneurship is filled with ups and downs Engaging in tough conversations with oneself fosters self-awareness “I always look at the hard times as something that shaped me, not something that destroyed me.” Challenges don’t define you—they refine you by building resilience and inner strength. A mindset shift turns obstacles into opportunities for personal and professional growth Your toughest times can become your greatest teachers if you let them How you view hardships shapes your ability to move forward stronger Embracing struggles makes you adaptable and ready for future challenges “At the end of the day, it’s still your choice… You’re making a personal choice to do something that may be detrimental to your future. But you can also choose to do better.” You’re in control of your path—every decision shapes your future Owning your choices is the first step toward meaningful change Small, intentional changes can lead to a brighter future Realizing your power to choose unlocks endless possibilities It’s never too late to make a better choice and rewrite your story About Arias WebsterBerry Arias WebsterBerry is an entrepreneur, digital marketing strategist, and founder of WebsterBerry Marketing and Launch Ignition Ai. Dedicated to empowering entrepreneurs, Arias leads with his “100X Impact” mission—to guide 1,000 entrepreneurs to $100K and 100 to $1M by 2026. Known for his ability to transform adversity into opportunity, he shares practical strategies for both business growth and personal resilience, helping others unlock their potential through mindset and self-mastery. https://www.ariaswebsterberry.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/ariasweb https://www.ariaswebsterberry.com Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“Learn from the L’s and the wins in life—it’s not a one-sided coin.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Mark Ross, a Marine Corps veteran and host of the Speak Your Truth podcast. Mark shares his journey through mental health struggles, including PTSD, suicidal thoughts, and the impact of his military experience. What to listen for: The journey of self-discovery through counseling. The challenges of wearing a mask in society. Encouragement for veterans to seek help and compensation for their struggles. Understanding the importance of learning from both successes and failures. Self-mastery involves continuous growth and self-acceptance. “Sometimes going through hell creates a better, more authentic version of yourself.” Tough times often force us to reflect and strip away what’s not serving us, revealing our truest selves. The struggles we face can help us align more with who we truly are rather than who we think we should be. Difficult experiences can teach resilience, self-awareness, and clarity about our values. Emerging from hardship can feel like a transformation—like becoming a “new” you with deeper understanding and strength. Recognizing the beauty in how hardship shapes us allows us to embrace the authenticity that comes from those experiences. “The most courageous thing we can do is keep moving, even when it sucks.” Taking steps forward, no matter how small, builds strength and helps us persevere through tough times. Even if progress feels slow, it’s better than standing still—motion itself creates possibilities. Acknowledging that something is hard while still moving forward is a form of bravery in itself. Every time you keep going, you’re proving to yourself that you can handle more than you thought possible. About Mark Ross Mark is a Marine Corps veteran and mental health advocate who suffers from PTSD. He is also the creator of The Speak Your Truth with Mark Ross Podcast. His goal is to spread awareness of how mental health affects people and their families. His mantra is “you are not alone in your struggles!” https://www.youtube.com/@thespeakyourtruthwithmar-wm4bg Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“You cannot pour from an empty jug. Taking care of yourself first is not selfish; it’s survival.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Jimi Okubanjo, who shares her journey from the corporate world to becoming an advocate for BIPOC and women professionals. She discusses the challenges faced in the workplace, particularly regarding gender dynamics and mental health. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, compassion, and understanding generational perspectives on gender roles and the need for boundaries in professional settings, ultimately advocating for a more inclusive and supportive work environment. What to listen for: Self-awareness is crucial in understanding one’s needs and boundaries. Mental health challenges are prevalent in professional environments. Compassion is essential when dealing with difficult interpersonal dynamics. Navigating workplace conflicts requires understanding and strategic thinking. Generational trauma affects how individuals perceive and react to gender roles. Creating supportive networks can help individuals escape toxic work environments. Compassion is essential, even for those who may dislike you. You cannot help others if you are not taking care of yourself. “Self-compassion is recognizing your mistakes without letting them defeat you.” Acknowledge them without attaching your worth to them. Instead of self-criticism, see mistakes as learning opportunities. Self-compassion strengthens your ability to bounce back. It’s okay to stumble; it doesn’t mean you’ve failed completely. Treat yourself as you would a friend who made the same mistake. “Self-compassion means saying, ‘This isn’t my fault,’ and giving yourself the space to heal.” Recognize when things are beyond your control. Give yourself time and grace to process and recover. Focus on what’s next, not what went wrong. Let go of guilt that isn’t serving you. Healing starts with treating yourself gently and with love. About Jimi Okubanjo Jimi Okubanjo is the founder of Arise Firebird Impactive and producer of ARISE FIREBIRD documentary. As a speaker and advocate, Jimi empowers high-achieving professionals—especially those from BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities—by sharing strategies for building adaptive resilience, self-compassion, and career longevity in challenging environments. Her work, including her TEDx talk on workplace trauma, inspires others to find purpose and fulfillment despite systemic obstacles. https://www.arisefirebird.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/folajimi/ Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! Nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Listen to other episodes here: https://themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com/ Watch Clips and highlights: www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@infochooseyourcalling-com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“Negative emotions aren’t actually pain; they are your mind asking for help to solve a problem.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Ryan Christensen, a hypnotist and author, about his journey through childhood struggles, mental health challenges, and the impact of autism on his life. Ryan shares his experiences with suicidal thoughts at a young age, his military service, and the eventual diagnosis of autism and bipolar disorder. The conversation delves into the complexities of trauma, emotional beliefs, and the importance of understanding the root causes of personal struggles rather than just addressing symptoms. What To Listen For: Emotions should be viewed as requests for help, not pain. The narrative we create about our experiences shapes our beliefs. Addressing root causes is more effective than treating symptoms. Self-awareness is crucial for personal growth and healing. Context plays a significant role in how we process emotions. Life is a game, and we can learn from every level we navigate. “Problems are easy to solve once you know what the problem is. The hard part is figuring out the problem.” Identifying the root cause is half the battle in problem-solving. Clarity makes challenges feel more manageable and less overwhelming. Taking time to pinpoint the real issue prevents wasted effort on surface solutions. Self-awareness and reflection are crucial tools for uncovering hidden problems. When the problem becomes clear, the solution often reveals itself naturally. “The number one thing you can do is be curious. Ask questions, listen to yourself, and own all the crap you don’t like about yourself until you fix it.” Curiosity is a powerful tool for self-growth and transformation. Honest self-reflection leads to breakthroughs and lasting change. Listening to your intuition helps you spot what’s truly holding you back. Owning your flaws isn’t weakness—it’s the first step toward fixing them. Staying curious keeps you open to possibilities and unexpected solutions. About Ryan Christensen Ryan is an author and hypnotist with 23 years of experience in the military and intelligence / national security fields. His focus these days is on peak mental focus and performance. https://www.ryanthehypnotist.com/ https://www.instagram.com/ryanthehypnotist/ Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“The experiences that got you here won’t necessarily get you to the next stage. A reset is needed to figure out where to go” In this episode, Nick speaks with executive coach Joy Branch about her journey, the importance of books in her life, and the concept of executive reinvention. Joy discusses her project, The Joy Project, aimed at bridging the gap in leadership and personal development. The conversation delves into the significance of self-awareness, understanding systems in leadership, and navigating organizational change. Joy offers valuable advice for aspiring leaders and emphasizes the importance of self-mastery in becoming effective leaders. What to listen for: Books played a significant role in Joy’s early life and personal growth. Self-awareness is foundational for effective leadership. Leaders must understand the systems they operate within. Reinvention is a continuous process for leaders. Effective leadership involves listening and understanding team dynamics. “Leaders often have no one to call and say, “I don’t know what I’m doing,” because transparency can be used against them” Leadership can feel isolating due to the fear of vulnerability being exploited. Admitting uncertainty requires a safe space for honesty and support. Leaders are often expected to have answers, even when they’re still figuring it out. Building a trusted circle is essential for authentic conversations and growth. Strength in leadership comes from balancing transparency with wise discretion. “My acronym ART stands for awareness, reflection, and transformation. Transformation happens over time, but it starts with awareness” Awareness is the first step toward meaningful personal or professional growth. Reflection bridges the gap between self-awareness and actionable change. Transformation is a process, not an instant fix—it unfolds gradually. Small, consistent actions over time lead to big, lasting changes. ART is a simple yet powerful framework to guide progress in any area of life. About Joy Branch Joy Branch, Co-Founder and Managing Partner of Branch & Associates, is a multi-talented leader, renowned for her expertise in human capital, leadership coaching, organizational development, and behavioral consulting. With over two decades of experience, Joy has left an indelible mark on Fortune 500 and S&P 500 companies, driving transformative change. She holds a M.Ed., in Leadership, Learning, and Organization Development complimented by a Bachelor of Science Degree in Management at Pepperdine University, Graziadio Business School, and received Leadership Coaching Certifications from the University of Georgia and Harvard University’s Executive Education program. www.branchandassociates.com www.linkedin.com/in/joy-branch-m-ed-aa8a0082 Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“What’s in the brain is in the body, and what’s in the body is in the brain.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Ava Dasya Rasa about how trauma changes the way we interact with the world and how various therapies like EMDR, DBT, Brain Spotting, and even talk therapy can help us process, heal, and move forward with joy. What to listen for: What it means to be trauma-informed How trauma affects us throughout our entire lives How we have more power than we actually believe we do in all situations Listen in as we discuss brain spotting, EMDR, talk therapy, and other ways to process and heal from trauma “I can feel safe in the dark night. And it’s about feeling safe, both somatically and psychomotionally. So, most people have to enter some kind of a container relationship.” Learn how Ava sits in the deep end of her feelings and what she’s done to be able to do this on her own How important it is for us to truly face our fears, emotions, and traumas and that it’s okay to not do it alone The importance of having a “safe container” to be able to do our deep and personal healing work The power of being intentional and unmoveable until you’re healing is complete “Have a beginner’s mind, begin again, and take baby steps. And you may not be able to know what self-love is at the beginning or compassion or empathy.” Show yourself grace and just keep beginning anew How this life is a journey full of starts and stops and starts again Hear how Ava has handled this and how she works with her clients around this topic How we can brace ourselves and love ourselves while we heal About Ava Dasya Rasa: Ava is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-C, Transpersonal Psychotherapist specializing in Trauma, Grief, and Contemplative Spirituality & Renewal. She is an author, poet, speaker, teacher, and spiritual director. Ava Dasya holds two graduate degrees: a Master of Social Work and a Master of Arts in Theology. And she earned a graduate Certificate from Vanderbilt Divinity School in Religion, Gender, & Sexuality. She is the Founder of Dragonfly Trauma Counseling Center in Albuquerque, NM, where she serves clients using somatic and neuro-based trauma therapies and Mindfulness-based interventions. Ava Dasya is the author of TRANSFIGURATIONS 30 Meditations Inspired by Transforming Trauma & Spirituality. www.dragonflytrauma.com www.avadasyarasa.com www.linkedin.com/avadasyarasa www.instagram.com/dragonflytrauma Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“The journey to change often has to do with identity and untangling ourselves from the labels put on us by others.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Carl King about the intricacies of change management coaching, the challenges of identity, and the journey of self-discovery. Carl shares his experiences living in an RV, the pressures of societal expectations, and the struggles he faced in separating his identity from that of a preacher. What to listen for: Leaving behind a long-held identity can be a painful but necessary process. Finding freedom often requires confronting uncomfortable truths about oneself. Incremental steps can lead to significant changes over time. It’s important to feel seen and affirmed in one’s journey of change. Compassion and empathy are essential in challenging situations. Everyone’s path to self-mastery is unique and valid. “It was anguish, agonizing to separate myself from the label of preacher. It felt like trying to change the spots on a leopard.” The pain of leaving behind a deeply ingrained identity. How societal labels can feel permanent and unchangeable. The courage required to let go of roles that no longer align. Growth often comes with emotional struggle and discomfort. “I want people to know they can be better—not by society’s standards, but by their own definition of who they want to be.” Empowering individuals to define their own version of success. Redefining “better” as something personal, not societal. A focus on authenticity and aligning with inner values. Encouraging self-reflection: What does ‘better’ mean to you? About Carl King Drawing from his rich tapestry of experiences, Carl brings a unique blend of empathy and insight to his coaching practice. His own journey taught him the power of embracing change, and he’s dedicated his life to helping others navigate their own transformations skillfully. Whether guiding individuals through personal transitions or helping organizations navigate complex changes, Carl’s approach is deeply rooted in empathy and understanding. He knows firsthand the uncertainty and fear that accompany change, but he also knows the incredible growth and opportunities it can bring. https://www.carlkingcoaching.com/ https://www.mychordchange.com/ https://www.instagram.com/carleking Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“My darkest moment became a privilege, giving me a near-death perspective without being on a deathbed.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Jeremy George about the transformative power of bucket lists. Jeremy shares his personal journey of overcoming suicidal ideation by pursuing 52 bucket list goals in 52 weeks, emphasizing the importance of confronting mortality, the role of community in achieving goals, and the necessity of embracing failure as a stepping stone to success. The conversation highlights how taking small steps can lead to significant personal growth and fulfillment. What to listen for: Bucket lists can serve as a powerful tool for self-discovery. Confronting mortality can lead to a deeper understanding of what truly matters. Failure is a natural part of the journey towards achieving your goals. The act of trying new things can reignite enthusiasm for life. “At rock bottom, I stopped caring about others’ perceptions, focusing only on what mattered to me.” Rock bottom helps you stop worrying about what others think and focus on what truly matters to you. Tough times often show you how strong you really are and push you to prioritize self-care. Stripping away outside expectations can lead to a stronger, more resilient you. “Many people at the end of life regret what they didn’t do more than what they did—regretting leaps they didn’t take or creative ideas never explored.” Regrets about what wasn’t done remind us to take action now on what matters. Creativity and bold ideas are often what we miss the most, so make time for them. Embracing life’s uncertainties allows us to grow and prevents regret later on. About Jeremy George Jeremy is a TEDx Speaker and Founder & CEO of BucketMatch, an online platform that empowers people to conquer their bucket lists by connecting them with like-minded people and helpful resources. https://www.bucketmatch.ai/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-george/ https://www.instagram.com/jgeorge04/ Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“There’s no end game or ceiling to self-mastery; it’s a journey” In this episode, Nick speaks with executive coach Ariffa Bevin about mindfulness, self-empowerment, and the discipline found in martial arts. They explore the importance of emotional intelligence in leadership, the art of teaching, and how personal experiences shape our understanding of resilience and growth. Ariffa shares her journey in martial arts and how it intertwines with her coaching philosophy, emphasizing the need for personalized approaches in both teaching and leadership. What to listen for: Mindfulness and self-empowerment are crucial for personal growth. Emotional intelligence is vital for effective leadership. Personal experiences shape our understanding of resilience. Art and mental wellness are interconnected. Discipline in martial arts translates to life skills. Struggles often lead to meaningful growth. Leadership starts with self-reflection and accountability. Empowerment involves setting and maintaining personal boundaries. Past traumas can shape leadership styles and expectations. Self-mastery is a continuous journey, not a destination. Responding to chaos is a key aspect of personal growth. Effective leadership requires clear communication and example-setting. “Martial arts are a huge part of my life—they support my mindfulness practice and provide tremendous joy” Martial arts blend physical movement with mindfulness, creating a space for mental clarity and emotional balance. Finding joy in martial arts brings both excitement and personal fulfillment, highlighting the importance of enjoying the journey, not just the outcome. Practicing martial arts strengthens the mind-body connection, helping in stress relief and providing a mindful escape. Committing to regular practice fosters self-discipline and personal growth, reinforcing that consistency is key in any journey. Martial arts teach resilience and inner peace even in high-intensity moments—a skill that translates into everyday challenges. “The discipline to train with others, showing compassion for those at different skill levels, is a core value for me” Training with others requires discipline, but it also builds camaraderie and mutual respect, which are key in any group environment. Showing compassion for people at different skill levels fosters a supportive space for learning and growth. Being open to others’ skill levels encourages shared progress, reminding us that everyone’s on their own journey. Supporting others reinforces that true mastery includes uplifting and encouraging those coming up behind you. Training with others helps develop patience, both with ourselves and those learning alongside us. “The leadership journey requires adaptability; emotional intelligence must meet people’s varied needs in real time” Great leaders are adaptable, responding to changing situations and challenges with flexibility. Leaders need to understand and manage their emotions—and those of others—to make informed, empathetic decisions. Effective leadership happens in real time, meeting people where they are and responding to their needs in the moment. Leaders who value emotional intelligence recognize that understanding others is a strength, not a weakness. The best leaders stay open to learning, constantly refining their approach to better serve their teams and goals. About Ariffa Bevin Ariffa is an empowerment and executive coach specializing in guiding individuals and teams toward resilience, mindfulness, and unwavering confidence through personalized coaching. With a background in healthcare, nonprofit, and community wellness, Ariffa brings years of experience in helping clients achieve personal and professional goals. As a certified health coach, mindfulness expert, and diversity executive, Ariffa is dedicated to creating a safe and supportive space for her clients, drawing from her understanding of the complex layers of navigat...…
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1 Mentorship, Leadership, And Calculated Growth: The Billion Dollar Business Blueprint With John Hewitt 29:54
“Without downs, the ups wouldn't be as high.” In this episode, Nick speaks with John Hewitt, a successful entrepreneur and CEO of Loyalty Brands. John shares his unique journey from playing in the World Series of Poker to founding billion-dollar companies. He emphasizes the importance of purpose, giving back, and the ups and downs of entrepreneurship. John discusses the significance of mentorship, leadership, and the need for calculated growth strategies in business. He concludes with valuable advice for self-mastery and success, highlighting the importance of perseverance and finding joy in one's work. What to listen for: John’s transition from the World Series of Poker to entrepreneurship, founding multiple billion-dollar companies. The importance of having a purpose and improving lives. Ups and downs in business are essential for growth and perspective. Mentorship and active listening are crucial for effective leadership. Calculated growth requires understanding the needs for people and resources. Team dynamics and adaptability are key to managing growth. Finding the right fit for team members is essential for success. “Our mission statement says it all, and that is having fun improving lives.” Discover the value of finding purpose and joy in your work. How having “fun” as part of your mission creates a balanced approach to success. The benefits of fostering a work culture rooted in enjoyment and positivity. Why improving lives should be at the core of your business goals. Attracting a team that aligns with a mission of impact and enjoyment. “Most people only want to… improve their own lives. And so they manipulate other people. A rare minority… understand the real purpose of life is to serve others and to make a difference.” The contrast between self-interest and genuine service – why it matters. Integrity over manipulation: building a lasting legacy. How focusing on contribution over competition leads to a more meaningful life. Understanding the long-term impact of prioritizing service to others. Why making a difference is the most fulfilling goal of all. “The more you give, the more you receive. So it's self-fulfilling… as you experiment with giving, you, you get more, you receive more.” Embracing generosity as a path to personal abundance. How giving creates a positive cycle of goodwill and support. The rewards of giving beyond just material returns. Tips for starting small with acts of generosity and seeing the impact. Why giving without expectation often brings surprising rewards in return. About John Hewitt Having previously founded both Jackson Hewitt and Liberty Tax Service, John has used his 55 years of tax experience and remarkable business acumen to develop the next stage in his unmatched franchise success: Loyalty Brands. https://loyaltybrands.com/ https://loyaltybrands.com/free-icompete-book/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/loyaltybrandsinc https://www.instagram.com/loyalty_brands Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“Maybe this is all happening because I was meant to carry the mission that they started.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Dan Flores, a fitness and life coach, who shares his personal journey from overcoming health challenges as a child to navigating cultural transitions as an immigrant. Dan discusses the sacrifices his parents made for a better life, his struggles in the construction industry, and his eventual awakening to entrepreneurship. He emphasizes the importance of living each day to the fullest and cherishing the moments we have with loved ones. What to listen for: Support from family is crucial during tough times. Entrepreneurship can stem from dissatisfaction with traditional careers. Living each day like it’s your last can enhance gratitude. Finding purpose often comes from understanding our roots. “I was thinking, ‘Did my parents give up everything so that I would work a regular nine to five?” Grappling with the weight of our parents’ sacrifices for us can influence our future decisions. A 9-to-5 work life isn’t for everyone, and it can feel like we’re out of alignment with our own desires or a sense of purpose. Dan’s drive to do something impactful and meaningful is greater than following a conventional path. Re-evaluating what success looks like for us, considering not just our own desires but the legacy of our parents’ efforts. “My parents came over here, they left everything behind… they had their degrees in Peru, but those degrees couldn’t transfer here, so they pretty much had to start from the bottom up.” Dan and his immediate family showed incredible resilience and determination in rebuilding their lives from scratch. Understanding our parents’ sacrifices can drive our own ambitions. Many skilled immigrants are forced to work in lower-skilled jobs without being able to transfer credentials to all of their hard work The speaker likely views their parents’ struggle as a source of strength and inspiration, motivating them to succeed in their own path while honoring that journey. “No matter what job I transitioned into, no matter what company I worked for, I couldn’t be happy.” Traditional employment can leave us feeling unfulfilled in multiple ways if we’re not being true to ourselves. The pursuit of happiness in work seems to be a significant driving factor for the speaker, but they haven’t found a job or company that fits that. This was a huge turning point for Dan to explore entrepreneurship Like most employees searching for fulfillment, jumping from job to job can be a sign of burnout or a deeper need to find our purpose. About Dan Flores: Dan is a fitness and life coach, motivational speaker, and founder of The Warrior Lifestyle. His mission is to help others achieve the ultimate life and become relentless. Whether they want to be healthier, be more driven, or become a leader for their family, they can accomplish it together. https://www.danfloreslifestyle.com https://www.instagram.com/danfloreslifestyle/profilecard/ Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Send Nick an email or schedule a time to discuss your podcast today! nick@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Watch Clips and highlights: www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show”…
“You’re not cognitively holding onto that unsafety. It’s your body that’s holding the unsafety.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Cecile Tucker about the complexities of trauma, exploring its various forms and impacts on individuals. They discuss the importance of understanding trauma beyond major life events, the daily chaos that can contribute to trauma, and the significance of experiential counseling in bridging the gap between awareness and action. Cecile emphasizes the need for reprogramming the subconscious to heal trauma, the effects of generational trauma, and the importance of integration in applying learned insights. What to listen for: Trauma can manifest in daily routines and chaos. Understanding trauma requires a broad definition beyond major events. Experiential counseling helps clients learn new responses to trauma. Reprogramming the subconscious is essential for healing. Generational trauma can affect individuals without their awareness. Healing is a process that involves safety, processing, and integration. Small shifts in personal routines can create significant ripples in healing. Self-awareness is crucial in identifying one’s stage in trauma work. Integration of trauma insights is a natural process when blocks are removed. Healing oneself contributes to the healing of communities. “Trauma is just being in your sympathetic and not being able to step back into the parasympathetic. The difference between trauma and non-trauma is can you choose to flow between, or are you stuck in the sympathetic?” Trauma isn’t just an emotional experience—it’s a nervous system response, particularly being stuck in the sympathetic (fight-or-flight) mode without being able to return to the parasympathetic (rest-and-digest). The key difference between trauma and non-trauma experiences lies in whether we can switch back and forth between these two states. Trauma keeps us locked in survival mode. Healing trauma means regaining the ability to move between high-stress and calm states, not just avoiding stress altogether. Becoming mindful of your nervous system state can help you recognize when you’re stuck in fight-or-flight mode, a crucial first step toward healing. The power to heal comes from learning how to regulate and shift between these states, which is a skill that can be developed through various healing modalities. “When we let go of understanding it and we simply work with what is, our body helps us transform that trauma when we give it the space to do so.” Healing trauma isn’t always about intellectually understanding it—sometimes, the mind overanalyzes, while the body just needs space to heal on its own. The body holds the trauma and has the ability to release it. Instead of trying to “figure it out,” creating a safe space for the body can naturally lead to transformation. Trying too hard to control or solve trauma can create resistance. Allowing things to flow can be more effective than constantly seeking answers. The body has an innate wisdom. Giving it time, rest, and nurturing can facilitate deep healing beyond what the mind can comprehend. Sometimes, the best approach is to be present with whatever comes up rather than striving for an ideal or a “fix.” Acceptance is a vital part of the healing process. “When each person heals, we reach this point where we then want to help others heal. The healthier we become, the healthier our communities become, our systems become.” Personal healing doesn’t just benefit the individual. When someone heals, they naturally want to help others, creating a ripple effect in their community. As more people heal, the collective well-being of families, communities, and even larger systems like healthcare and education elevates. Healing brings people together. When individuals feel whole, they often feel compelled to share that healing energy with others, fostering stronger community bonds.…
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