Unveiling the Hidden: Understanding the Impact of the Shadow in Relationships

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Welcome to today's episode of The Relationship Maze, where we delve into the intriguing concept of the shadow. Join Tom and Angela as they explore how our hidden, repressed aspects known as the shadow can impact our relationships. Drawing from the teachings of Carl Jung, they discuss how the persona we present to the world hides our shadow, which holds guilt, feelings of inferiority, and even dark desires.
Discover how the shadow can manifest in your own relationship dynamics and learn techniques to uncover and integrate these hidden parts of yourself. Tune in and navigate the complexities of the shadow in today's episode.
01:26 Persona hides shadow; both define us.

03:51 Suppression of natural instincts can cause anger.

08:52 Personal shadow, shame, repressed qualities, push down.

11:14 Perception is projection, noticing our own projections.

15:44 Unwanted qualities in partner reveal inner fears.

18:39 "Shadow's connection to the concept of evil."

20:45 Exploring shadow aspects, finding useful qualities. Compassion.

23:23 Oversimplification of good and evil in media.

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