3 Ways to BREAK the Cycle of Self Sabotage for GOOD!

Better Than Best Podcast with Coach Red Wallace

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a never-ending cycle of trying to fix the same problem over and over again, only for it to keep coming back, you’re not alone. In this video, I share the story of a friend who struggled with feeling unworthy and how understanding his core beliefs changed everything. As Christian men in leadership, it’s easy to fall into the trap of trying to modify our behaviors without addressing the root cause—the beliefs that drive us. Today, I’ll reveal why focusing on behavior alone isn’t enough and share three powerful steps to uncover your core values and align your actions for true, lasting transformation. Let’s dig deeper together, so you can break free from destructive cycles and start living with the freedom and clarity God has for you! Watch next: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EhJ-1p85u3c&t=214s Sign up for the WAITLISTING for my upcoming book: https://coach-redwallace.ck.page/waitinglist Join Coach Red Wallace as he guides Christian men in leadership on a journey beyond behavior modification to embrace soul transformation. In this episode, discover the three crucial steps to uncover and realign your core values and beliefs to achieve lasting change. Learn from real-life examples, such as 'Jake' and 'Mark', who transformed their lives by addressing the root cause of their struggles rather than relying on temporary fixes. This powerful discussion will inspire you to re-evaluate your core beliefs, align your actions, and find true inner peace. Don't settle for band-aid solutions; it's time to heal from the inside out. 00:00 Introduction: The Endless Cycle of Self-Help 00:27 Meet Coach Red Wallace 01:19 Jake's Story: The Struggle with Self-Improvement 02:23 The Core Belief Behind Human Behavior 04:01 The Real Solution: Soul Transformation 04:53 Mark's Story: Aligning Beliefs with Actions 09:29 Three Steps to Lasting Change 12:58 Bonus Step: Courageous Conversations 14:11 Conclusion: Healing the Roots WHO AM I Hey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!